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- Sep 9, 2013
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Hey homies, I hope everyone is doing well. So I've stumbled across something that I haven't seen on this website yet, and that is taking a break from game to get better. While this seems like a relatively self-explanatory and obvious thing, I'm willing to bet my reasoning behind it will surprise some of you. Not too long ago I was striking out with women. I thought to myself "how can this possibly be? I'm following everything our lord and savior Chase taught me to do!" Well after taking a break, I can confidently tell you the answer to that problem, and it isn't that Chase is wrong or teaching things that don't work. If you get too hard into this stuff, you think too much about it. It becomes more of an analytical process than an emotional one. And we all know women don't operate on logic when it comes to relationships or the opposite sex. So maybe you can see where I'm going with this, but basically I was just overthinking everything. My solution to this was to temporarily abandon almost everything I've ever been taught on here or other dating advice and to just "feel it out". I did whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted. If it went against any dating advice I ever heard then oh well, I did it anyways. Honestly it was a liberating experience, and I honestly felt like I learned a lot in the process, as contrary as that might come across. It worked well, but after my short break I'm back into this harder than ever and it feels better than ever. So next time things aren't going your way for an extended period of time, I encourage you to try to take a break. Recenter yourself. Try some new things in the dating realm, even if you don't think they will work. You never know what might happen.
-Atlas
-Atlas