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Dudes! I can't figure this one out! I went on a date last night which wasn't that great. I had the logistics figured until I was out with her. She said she told her mam, sister an friends she was out with me. This put pressure on the date, on her and raised her ASD. (To top it of she was given a time to be out until...)
My read on it was so of, her body language was all over from being awkward, nervous and she'd be half open half closed. I got compliance but at the end of the date she didn't comply to a simple request. I was writing this one of as not interested. I drove to drop her off and she started talking, complying and I was able to escalate without resistance. With the logistics being lost and her friends an family texting her to see how the date was before I even drove her home I cut the escalation on my terms. In hindsight I'm wishing I pushed it as far as I could but I didn't want to start what I couldn't finish!
Bout 10 mins after the date she text 'hi sorry I feel like I ditched you at the end (embarrassed monkey) we need to go out again soon! I enjoyed tonight xx' I was unsure but figured she messaged really positive and I should strike to encourage it. It took me an hour to reply 'the drinks were fun (smiley face) hope you got all your prep done. We should! When are you free? Xx'
She's been really quick at replying even when it's taken me 8 hours to reply. I haven't heard back from her at this point so I'm thinking I've possibly pushed her into auto rejection? Thoughts dude's?
My read on it was so of, her body language was all over from being awkward, nervous and she'd be half open half closed. I got compliance but at the end of the date she didn't comply to a simple request. I was writing this one of as not interested. I drove to drop her off and she started talking, complying and I was able to escalate without resistance. With the logistics being lost and her friends an family texting her to see how the date was before I even drove her home I cut the escalation on my terms. In hindsight I'm wishing I pushed it as far as I could but I didn't want to start what I couldn't finish!
Bout 10 mins after the date she text 'hi sorry I feel like I ditched you at the end (embarrassed monkey) we need to go out again soon! I enjoyed tonight xx' I was unsure but figured she messaged really positive and I should strike to encourage it. It took me an hour to reply 'the drinks were fun (smiley face) hope you got all your prep done. We should! When are you free? Xx'
She's been really quick at replying even when it's taken me 8 hours to reply. I haven't heard back from her at this point so I'm thinking I've possibly pushed her into auto rejection? Thoughts dude's?