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I've long heard the saying across the web that men peak later in life and hit their peak in their 30s while women hit theirs earlier, now I am convinced that this is a lie being told to young men or at it's best an incomplete truth.
It makes no sense either.
At one end these are supposed to be the "peak years" but on the other, the guys sleeping around and hooking up with the hottest girls out there? Usually also in their 20s and around their age group. You do not see that many, if any, guys over the age of 30 truly slaying. Now they'll claim it is because they are "over it" or find that an LTR is better for them, that they cannot do it because they don't want to. I'll debate that older guys could not do it even if they did want to for a variety of reasons.
Energy and health.
You can party all day in your 20s and not feel a thing, try doing that after 30 and see how bad of a hangover comes up. Things like hangovers, health issues, aches, and a variety of other problems come up. Erectile dysfunction is another thing given that you just don't have the energy you had when you were in your 20s, you need viagra at this point most likely. Most men do not hit their physical peak in their 30s, their physical peak is at some point in their early to mid 20s. These are the years men can travel and do crazy shit yet easily recover from it as well.
Social acceptance.
Women care and girls care too, especially younger attractive women.
No matter how you spin it, it is not acceptable for a 30+ year old guy to be dating a hot girl in her 20s. Chances are, especially if she is in America, she is going to have her social circle who will likely migrate with her from her college days. Her weekends are going to be spent with her nagging friends from her college days chasing the same guys they knew back then or guys who fit that archetype.
The 20-something guy who kind of has his shit together always beats the well established guy in his 30s, why? It is because of the age gap acceptance. Women will sacrifice pretty much everything for social acceptance, age being a huge issue as their friends are going to be judgmental prudes.
There is not a country in the world where it is socially acceptable for an older guy to be a bachelor that goes around pumping and dumping, the USA is definitely not it.
Mindset, older usually means a lot more bitter.
Just talk to older guys, they are bitter as fuck. Most older guys have mentally given up, they are miserable. Younger age means youth and youth is defined by aspirations, ambitions, hunger, and the will to go after things. Older age is defined by stability, staying put, and giving up on dreams and aspirations. Talk to older guys about being a player, they are stubborn and will not put the work in. On top of this, they will also try to sabotage you from doing well and pull you into the LTR and marriage hell, in other words a death sentence.
The mind becomes more rigid and the saying you cannot teach an old dog new tricks is as relevant as ever.
There is a reason why even in the corporate world, managers refuse to hire older guys into anything but senior C-level or leadership positions. Older guys "know better", are not opening to learning new things, and will rarely if ever pursue the player dream. In many ways they cannot help it, it is all due to old age, you just give up and throw in the towel as your dreams die and you turn to ruining that of others.
So live it up.
If you are in your 20s, live it up.
Try your hardest.
Try really fucking hard.
Throw it all on the table.
Once 30 hits, it is fucking over.
It makes no sense either.
At one end these are supposed to be the "peak years" but on the other, the guys sleeping around and hooking up with the hottest girls out there? Usually also in their 20s and around their age group. You do not see that many, if any, guys over the age of 30 truly slaying. Now they'll claim it is because they are "over it" or find that an LTR is better for them, that they cannot do it because they don't want to. I'll debate that older guys could not do it even if they did want to for a variety of reasons.
Energy and health.
You can party all day in your 20s and not feel a thing, try doing that after 30 and see how bad of a hangover comes up. Things like hangovers, health issues, aches, and a variety of other problems come up. Erectile dysfunction is another thing given that you just don't have the energy you had when you were in your 20s, you need viagra at this point most likely. Most men do not hit their physical peak in their 30s, their physical peak is at some point in their early to mid 20s. These are the years men can travel and do crazy shit yet easily recover from it as well.
Social acceptance.
Women care and girls care too, especially younger attractive women.
No matter how you spin it, it is not acceptable for a 30+ year old guy to be dating a hot girl in her 20s. Chances are, especially if she is in America, she is going to have her social circle who will likely migrate with her from her college days. Her weekends are going to be spent with her nagging friends from her college days chasing the same guys they knew back then or guys who fit that archetype.
The 20-something guy who kind of has his shit together always beats the well established guy in his 30s, why? It is because of the age gap acceptance. Women will sacrifice pretty much everything for social acceptance, age being a huge issue as their friends are going to be judgmental prudes.
There is not a country in the world where it is socially acceptable for an older guy to be a bachelor that goes around pumping and dumping, the USA is definitely not it.
Mindset, older usually means a lot more bitter.
Just talk to older guys, they are bitter as fuck. Most older guys have mentally given up, they are miserable. Younger age means youth and youth is defined by aspirations, ambitions, hunger, and the will to go after things. Older age is defined by stability, staying put, and giving up on dreams and aspirations. Talk to older guys about being a player, they are stubborn and will not put the work in. On top of this, they will also try to sabotage you from doing well and pull you into the LTR and marriage hell, in other words a death sentence.
The mind becomes more rigid and the saying you cannot teach an old dog new tricks is as relevant as ever.
There is a reason why even in the corporate world, managers refuse to hire older guys into anything but senior C-level or leadership positions. Older guys "know better", are not opening to learning new things, and will rarely if ever pursue the player dream. In many ways they cannot help it, it is all due to old age, you just give up and throw in the towel as your dreams die and you turn to ruining that of others.
So live it up.
If you are in your 20s, live it up.
Try your hardest.
Try really fucking hard.
Throw it all on the table.
Once 30 hits, it is fucking over.