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Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Wed Jul 17, 2019 3:59 pm
by Jakeroviks
I was looking for a sharpie today and went into a room with just a songle woman in there. She asked if she had to leave and I jokingly said come on I'm not that scary, by the way you have to leave. Jk I just need a sharpie. A few hours later she walked up to me and asked if I found the sharpie, smiling.

I realized after she left that it seemed peculiar. Maybe she's nice, but why would she really care if I found a sharpie? Wondering if this way her way of saying "I'm interested, and if you are too, make a move big boy".

Re: Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Wed Jul 17, 2019 4:15 pm
by zappbrannigan
Assume attraction, always :)

Re: Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Wed Jul 17, 2019 5:37 pm
by Jakeroviks
While I would normally agree with you, I'm really not lookibg to waste my time on a girl unless it's clear she's attracted.

Re: Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Wed Jul 17, 2019 8:12 pm
by Space
Jakeroviks wrote:While I would normally agree with you, I'm really not lookibg to waste my time on a girl unless it's clear she's attracted.

Interestingly for me the question is rather: Am I attracted? More: Fuck Yes or No.

Re: Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2019 11:14 am
by JacobPalmer
Yes, she's attracted, you should have made a move if you were interested.

Re: Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2019 11:58 am
by DarkKnight
Nobody knows until you actually make a move

Re: Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Fri Jul 19, 2019 2:20 am
by naturalmikey
just make small talk and find out. women will telegraph interest to you if you give them a chance. talk to them while looking in their eyes and pay attention. women communicate with their faces. once you learn to do this you can communicate with women in a way that most men can't. it's what rsd is refering to when they talk about having your ras locked in or whatever. you just start picking up on sub communications. it really becomes easy to read the situation once you have.

Re: Would you consider this an approach invitation?

PostPosted: Fri Jul 19, 2019 6:17 pm
by Fuck This
Women don't necessarily give an "invitation" per se sometimes. It's more of a "Not no...yet..."

It's really whether she does something for YOU. You had an opportunity to Qualify her when she re-approached you. Every woman you meet will fall into one of 4 classes.

1) I'd fuck her no questions asked 2-10% of women
2) I wouldn't say no if there wasn't a better option 25-50 %
3) I wouldn't but I'll be nice 50 %
4) Fuck No. Not ever. I'm not even going to be nice... 2-10%