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a lot of what you see recommended for pickup is based on what worked ten years ago. most of the advice you see says to only see fbs, fwbs, mltrs once per week. this will just not work very well with modern hot chicks who get way more attention than they did ten years ago. these chicks are volatile and will walk away very quickly early on. you just haven't built enough investment, even when you've had sex with her. if she really wants to hang out the next day, you better fucking do it. she will walk away. if she wants to hang out again very soon like three times in three days, then you must pull back a little.
it's all about getting to the point where she is were you want her. if she is high initial investment (really doesn't mean much more than she really wants to see you again.) you don't want to devalidate her too bad. she doesn't want that yet. this is supposed to be fun and happy for her. in her mind even young love. you better give her that love. i think people have always done this, but are ashamed to admit it because it breaks their rule. but it's a stupid rule. you have to respect the vast amount of competition for this one girl. if you're not paying attention to her someone else will.
chicks with lower initial investment i would try to get another date in about five days. don't get thirsty, but also don't leave her hanging too long. seven days is just too long for any girl nowadays, unless she is a recluse that gets no male attention.
it's all about getting to the point where she is were you want her. if she is high initial investment (really doesn't mean much more than she really wants to see you again.) you don't want to devalidate her too bad. she doesn't want that yet. this is supposed to be fun and happy for her. in her mind even young love. you better give her that love. i think people have always done this, but are ashamed to admit it because it breaks their rule. but it's a stupid rule. you have to respect the vast amount of competition for this one girl. if you're not paying attention to her someone else will.
chicks with lower initial investment i would try to get another date in about five days. don't get thirsty, but also don't leave her hanging too long. seven days is just too long for any girl nowadays, unless she is a recluse that gets no male attention.