there's a theory called the indifference threshold. i believe it originated with rsd tyler, but i'm not 100% sure. anyway, it states that after doing a few approaches you become indifferent to the results. this is called the indifference threshold.
i remember one day i was at the roosevelt pool party thing on sundays, this is in hollywood. you're supposed to be a guest there, but i met some rnb singer outside and went in with him.
i approached every cute girl there, a few multiple times. there were a lot of hot girls there. i got one's number, this chick from italy. she said she had a boyfriend. the thing is i would hook and lose them over and over. it was because i was never outcome independent. until i was. after running out of girls i went to bungalow, a bar in santa monica. i was on a mission. i opened a girl with don't go, if you go you're dead to me. i ended up fucking her in the bathroom a couple minutes later.
the difference was that i had not reach that point where i became indifferent. even when i used to do a lot of cold approach, i never started out not in my head. the fucked up thing is i would fuck a lot of girls from sets where i started in my head. eventually in that one interaction i would reach indifference. i quit doing warm up sets after i fucked 3 in a row. i'm like i gotta start going for only hotter girls.
you just have to keep going. don't listen to your head. your head doesn't want you to put yourself out there and get rejected because it will hurt your ego. you gotta get over that shit. it doesn't hurt that bad. i got in a fight the other night. i punched some dude. the reason i could do that is because i've been punched before and i know it doesn't hurt that bad. getting rejected. nothing hurts as bad as a life of regret because you hardly fucked any girls because you're a big pussy. that's the one thing getting a lot of pussy does for you. it gives you one less thing to regret on your death bed. do you wanna die having only been with ten girls or so? hell no you don't. i believe every man wants to die knowing he slept with 100 women. many give up on the dream. it's so easy to get to eventually you slow down because you realize that by reaching your feet you became hypersexualized, which is unhealthy. or you keep going because you're a full blown sex addict. either way, it's a number i think every guy wants to hit. becoming hypersexual is a problem every man should learn how to control. that's when you're really not desperate anymore. you can take sex or leave sex. you start to get the hottest girls because they're the ones you want. but you have to be a man.