I've noticed that all the guys that I know that do really well with women seem to always be super high energy and outgoing. Now, that doesn't mean that all the guys that I know that are super outgoing do well with women, but still. the guys that seem to have success, it's not that they're bubbly or friendly, but there are always dominant and teasing and pushing things forward while still giving off the impression of it all being effortless. Maybe it is for most of them.
my issue is that, my personality is just not naturally that expressive. I'm not lacking in confidence, I'm not depressed or sad, I know how to socialize, and I generally feel quite dominant over most of the women I come in with. However, a lot of the time, I just have other things on my mind -- work usually, or responsibilities -- and I really don't feel like putting on a show just for the off chance of getting laid. What I find, is that most of the time women perceive me as either too aloof, intimidating, or just boring. but a lot of the time, if I do try and actually make an effort, then it winds up coming across as phoned-in, or I over do it and and come across as too nice.
my issue is that, my personality is just not naturally that expressive. I'm not lacking in confidence, I'm not depressed or sad, I know how to socialize, and I generally feel quite dominant over most of the women I come in with. However, a lot of the time, I just have other things on my mind -- work usually, or responsibilities -- and I really don't feel like putting on a show just for the off chance of getting laid. What I find, is that most of the time women perceive me as either too aloof, intimidating, or just boring. but a lot of the time, if I do try and actually make an effort, then it winds up coming across as phoned-in, or I over do it and and come across as too nice.