Space said:
It's a cool idea! I don't want to personally overwhelm you, but here are a couple of things that come to my mind:
First.
Situations you chicken to - a community topic with contributions by various members
Second.
On a slightly related note currently inactive member nad_bigger opened a topic titled
in 5% of situations I do not approach. Maybe I should? in which
I lamented later that OK, he doesn't approach 5% of what situations? Then I don't approach 50% of what other situations? Maybe our basis of reference is different. We may define
a situation differently. Yeah, that's an idea.
Third.
naturalmikey said:
so i’m a student of game. i’ve field tested everything. my first real success came from imitating julien blanc. i have since studied almost everything good and bad and field tested it. i have had tremendous success. now my passion has become to help men become better with women. because generally speaking most men are not.
I wrote somewhere:
Space said:
Especially it's confusing to find new pickup stuff that resonates with you and doesn't make you feel you are going to become crazy by learning the stuff in depth.
Following all these pickup guys,
especially RSD guys, especially Julien Himself, I bet you had moments when you felt like shit personally. But hey! It's part of the journey! It would be interesting if you shared those moments.
How to keep your sanity while learning seduction? (soft question) - related topic by strictlyincreasing
An honest discussion of the YouTube video: A Rant Against The Pickup Community - related topic by me
Fourth.
I've opened this topic a while ago:
You know you can get non-flaky numbers in 30 seconds But you have to be creative
Now the 1st post in the topic is just about that: how to get a solid (sometimes solid) number in 30 seconds, but you have to be creative for that. The 2nd post is how to get a number when you have 2 to 3 minutes. With examples by James Marshall.
I wrote:
Space said:
I always find I'm in a situation like
these examples by James Marshall where he has 2 to 3 minutes to get the girl's number. Pardon. As both James and me are outside the US, we shouldn't take numbers. In fact we have 2 to 3 minutes to figure out the best communication channel we can agree on with the girl (
WhatsApp or whatever). We have 2 to 3 minutes form saying 'hi' to the full interaction. In my experience you simply won't find such a channel with 100% of the girls, especially if the time is limited.
Living in Southern California you may not relate to big city busy life, or the European way where you not only have to ask for a number, but figure out which chat app both you and the girl can agree to use. No one uses texts outside the US, we use various chat apps. App preference varies by the person.
Thanks for your attention!
situations you chicken to - the rsd guys who were doing all that crazy flash game were out with wings having fun, doing outrageous shit that works at low probabilities, and filming it for marketing purposes. the key is they were motivated to make money. some guys might find inspiration to open really weird sets, but i don't. i think it just makes things much more dificult than it needs to be. if i was out with a wing gaming every night like owen and julien did i'm sure it would be easy to do that crazy stuff. when you approach all night but the end of the night i'm often feeling very outgoing and social. this is when i start doing the more advanced rsd concepts like merging sets. merging sets is fun and looks cool to people, but it doesn't really get you laid. the key is to start off by approaching. just do it. that's the only fear you have to get over. the only reason to run flash game is because you want to. if you run a lot of it you'll get a lot of blowouts and a lot of really horny girls. i'll get into flashier game i ran when i answer the question about julien.
on the second topic i'll just say start appreciating women's beauty more. just know what you like and allow yourself to be attracted to and turned on by random women. then approach the girls that you're attracted to because you're drawn to it. this should be your day to day life and going out. i don't think you should go out every night and approach every girl and try to get in state. work on being normal in normal situation and talk to strangers. when the stranger is a woman you're attracted to then you run whatever type of game it is that you run be it direct or indirect, so long as it's effective. maybe once a week go out and just approach every cute girl and even ones that aren't. by the end of the night you'll have no problem approaching 100% of sets. the rest of the time don't take things so seriously.
In 2016 I ended up with a copy of juliens drama game. it was a bonus from pimp. holy shit. this is the most evil and effective of all the dark seduction that i've tried. it makes women obsessed with you. what i learned is, i don't really want women obsessed with me. i spent a while prior to that even calling girls dogs, saying "i love you i hate you" and whatever other julien line i could think of. the shit worked remarkably. i used to shout "oy get over here." and girls would come. i was like wow this julien guy is a fucking genius.i couldn't believe it. i also learned from him a lot about subcommunication and body language. he has some of the best body language and facial expressions i've seen. just like super exaggerated. anyway just watching julien infield before going out helps. he really is a master at free association also. his lines are so fire.
anyway here's astory from my month of drama game. this shit destroyed me on an emotional level. julien said don't get caught up in the drama yourself. boy i should've listened.
I had just started sleeping with this gorgeous tall blonde who had just got fake tits. she got them literally like two days before we met and she told me i was the first guy she had fucked since getting them. dope. anyway this chick on tinder had said something like "good looking people are supposed to be together." feeling high and mighty i didn't respond because she was "too shallow." i'm extremely narcistic, it's insane. i think you have to be to be good at pickup. anyway i told the blonde chick about her. i was complaining like "can you believe her." the next night the girl from tinder texts me at 2 am. i go to her house and assumed it was on so i tried to escalate fast. i would never make that mistake today. anyway we don't have sex but she blew me. then we got into an argument and i was like "thanks for the blowjob" and left. i was arguing with girls a lot then. i found if you could have makeup sex the first time having sex it was pretty fucking awesome.
anyway this girl was half white half iranian and had a big butt. she was so sexy. the other girl was traditionaly better looking, but this girl was bad.
i go to the blondes house again the next day. we had sex and then went to the grove. they both lived in west hollywood, actually on the same street. anyway the blonde asked what happened with the superficial girl i said nothing. the whole time i'm messaging the other chick apologizing and she invites me back over. i tell the blonde i'm sick and go fuck the other girl without showering in between.
after leaving the iranian girls house i called the blonde and told her i needed to apologize to her. i told her that i lied when i said i hadn't talked to that girl and i went to her house the night she'd asked. she was like "you went to go fuck her" i'm like "no i didn't fuck her that night" she was just like "okay?" then i'm like i fucked her the next day. she's like "when you left my house because you were sick?" and i'm like yeah. she freaks out so bad and starts yelling and cussing and hangs up on me. she called me back fifteen minutes later to apologize. this shit went on for about the worst month of my life as far as the way i was feeling. but i understood women in a way i could've never done otherwise. once you learn their ticks the game changes. i owe a lot of my success to rsd julien. i've met many people who have seen him live. from what i gather he was, during his prime, by far the best that has ever been.
a lot of numbers flake. but if you're getting them in thirty seconds you should have enough it wouldn't matter right? like if i get fifty numbers do i care if 90% flake? hell no, i've still got five dates. i've seen the videos where guys go out and get however many numbers in however long a period of time. i've never done it, but if that's what you wanna do i think it would work very well.
Where I live is a very popular tourist destination for europeans and australians. so i've got what'sapp on my phone, which seems to be sufficient. quite a few foreign girls have iphones too, which is what pretty much everyone uses in the states. if she has an iphone we can use imessage
don't really know how to make a video on any of those