My number one problem with Chase and the advice on this community.

While I am cool with Chase and most members of this site and regularly apply advice from pros like Alek for night game, there is a root issue I wanted to speak about which I think or really anyone has addressed that well. Maybe it is because I am still young and not so long removed from the school years that I feel this way but I genuinely want to talk about it.

GC does not do enough to address the impact of career choices, hobbies and lifestyle on getting lots of sex from above average looking women. There isn't enough being said on building the status that gets you a pipeline of women due to just being who you are because of what you have done.

Most users who join this type of a forum or even got into PUA actually did it "right" by going to college, majoring in something that will make you money, and then getting a job that pays you enough to live in a big city and provide for yourself. Your job is your livelihood and you are spending at least 40 hrs a week on it. Despite many writers having been in the situation or even being in the current situation where they work the 40-50 hr workweek of a 9 to 5, not enough material is written for the guys out there who are in that engineering, law, or business job and want to fuck lots of above average looking women.

In short the advice goes to hit up dating apps, "daygame", "night game", or occasionally "social circle" but I don't see the point of constantly chatting up random girls and asking them for their number.

Most of the times I find that the best looking women either get with guys in exclusive social circles or guys who have a "cool job" literally designed to get you laid (DJ, model photographer, bartender, etc.).

I know Chase wrote an article on 7 things you can do like travel the world or work at a nightclub but the article did not take one thing into account, the career sacrifices you would have to make and the damage you would do to your resume if you spent a year working at a nightclub or traveling the world for pussy.

How to prioritize women and game with the other hectic shit that hits you in life as you enter the real world.

I almost think it is impossible to be in a prestigious job that pays well if your goal is to sleep with lots of women.

I have written a general guideline on dating woman when I was an active dancer.

I was a student, job, dancer and trainer. Yes

Motherfucker this forum I have thrown every single topic available in this world.

No one cared -.-

Go to the boards, Search them. You find a lot of golden nuggets from 2012 -2013

There's still good stuff today though.

Zac

While I am cool with Chase and most members of this site and regularly apply advice from pros like Alek for night game,

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Got a nice chuckle from this.

I appreciate the post by Varoon Rajah and some work has been done on social circle game but my problem is, there are too many x factors involved for it to even be remotely possible.

My main problem is, despite all the advice given, GC does not talk about lining up your life purpose and getting a lot of girls along the way as a result of it.

If your life purpose is being a rockstar or a pornstar, it is obviously easy but what if it is to stay in that engineering/corporate job as you learn the ropes and maybe become an entrepreneur?

At this point I feel like if I do not get into a career catered to meeting women and pussy, it won't ever really happen to the extent it can for a guy in that career. I wish there was some discussion on how to naturally meet lots of hot women while not throwing away a potentially good career that involves being say an engineer at Google or banker at JP Morgan.

Hue said:

While I am cool with Chase and most members of this site and regularly apply advice from pros like Alek for night game,

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Got a nice chuckle from this.

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You have no idea how much of Alek's materials I have read as I have planned my nights out.

Toby said:

I appreciate the post by Varoon Rajah and some work has been done on social circle game but my problem is, there are too many x factors involved for it to even be remotely possible.

My main problem is, despite all the advice given, GC does not talk about lining up your life purpose and getting a lot of girls along the way as a result of it.

If your life purpose is being a rockstar or a pornstar, it is obviously easy but what if it is to stay in that engineering/corporate job as you learn the ropes and maybe become an entrepreneur?

At this point I feel like if I do not get into a career catered to meeting women and pussy, it won't ever really happen to the extent it can for a guy in that career. I wish there was some discussion on how to naturally meet lots of hot women while not throwing away a potentially good career that involves being say an engineer at Google or banker at JP Morgan.

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GC is not going to guide you on every single step. Some things are for you to figure out. Or do you want an article on how to shit in the coolest way in case a girl accidently goes to men's room and opens your toilet booth? I am exaggerating but keep in mind what Chase or Alek or other authors wrote is their journey. We all have different experiences, our starting points were different, current situation is different.
Now.. the "job being an obstacle" problem, it is similar to working out and getting real buff. You can do it while having a job, but it is difficult. Easier when you have nothing to do all day and you can just go to the gym every morning every day 5 times a week. That is one of the compromises you will have to make in life. Or you can apply what Arnold said once on this topic:
Sleep faster!

Job... I approached girls during my commute or when I was getting back from lunch. That would be 1-5 girls a day. Better than 0. Did I become the greatest lover of all time and do chicks want me for some ducking, relationship, marriage or kids? No. But I am better equiped than I was a year or 2 years ago.
I believe the reason you have this idea that you cannot get loads of hot chicks surrounding your balls is because you want to focus on the night game. And if chicks get the dick of their choosing at 2am, and you have to be in the office at 8am, then of course it will be hard to combine. That is why people who have jobs like me focus on day game, online or social circle. Or one more which is like "events game" (weddings, openings, parties, social events, festivals) where they have some "in" because of the social situation context.

some of the best guys i've seen with girls were total degenerates. usually handsome degenerates, but still. getting rich will get you gold diggers. make money, but don't rely on it for women. you don't need it. out of lms looks is by far the most important. but none of that shit matters anyway if you have no game