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Hey guys,
Im thinking of doing a reset. With me no longer being able to approach girls on campus safely and having possibly lost my place in my church group, I want to make some changes.
1 - deleting girls #s who I never could make something happen with. My contact list is huge and its demoralizing to see all these contacts and yet have nothing come from them. Its all too easy to ping a girl in a weak moment.
2 - staying off FB / instagram. I already mostly do this. Just being more serious about it.
3 - Setting up hard rules for myself. No going for girls from work, church, or school (for now). Its too easy to have one come back and reck your social standing.
4 - Having a routine for going out to meet women.
5 - No longer accepting sexless relationships. Unless I specifically want to be only friends with a girl, sex is a NEED of mine. This also includes girls who just want me as a boyfriend. Im fine with that as long as we have sex first. This is a hard rule.
6 - Defining specitically what I want and how Im going to get it. I'll post this in my Journal.
7 - Following GC article on getting back in the game. Ive been tired and my vibe is off. Time to go out as much as I can and rework my fundamentals
Thoughts?
NBW
Im thinking of doing a reset. With me no longer being able to approach girls on campus safely and having possibly lost my place in my church group, I want to make some changes.
1 - deleting girls #s who I never could make something happen with. My contact list is huge and its demoralizing to see all these contacts and yet have nothing come from them. Its all too easy to ping a girl in a weak moment.
2 - staying off FB / instagram. I already mostly do this. Just being more serious about it.
3 - Setting up hard rules for myself. No going for girls from work, church, or school (for now). Its too easy to have one come back and reck your social standing.
4 - Having a routine for going out to meet women.
5 - No longer accepting sexless relationships. Unless I specifically want to be only friends with a girl, sex is a NEED of mine. This also includes girls who just want me as a boyfriend. Im fine with that as long as we have sex first. This is a hard rule.
6 - Defining specitically what I want and how Im going to get it. I'll post this in my Journal.
7 - Following GC article on getting back in the game. Ive been tired and my vibe is off. Time to go out as much as I can and rework my fundamentals
Thoughts?
NBW