30year old dude texting 19 year old chicks

Ohdude

Space Monkey
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Hey fellas,

I'm early 30s (look early to mid 20s apparently) this girl is 19. She's a law student in Eastern Europe. She's got a bf, except that doesn't not stop her messaging me.

She sends pics of herself alone, with her niece and her view from her bedroom/car. Her English is intermediate. She jokes about her bf being jealous. I keep it light, fun and intriguing.

Anyway, I got a little worried about texting her (and stopped) because I am concerned that later on down the line I will be labelled as taking advantage of her.

Am I taking advantage of her? Am I too old to be messaging a 19 year old?
 

DarkKnight

Cro-Magnon Man
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You want to open a male escort service, but this is what you worry about?
 

Fluxcapacitor

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Ohdude dude, that is a very solid point by DarkKnight dude. I'd second but ya already took it.

A more serious reply... she's texting you? She's investing in you? She knows what she's doing an ya should be leading the interaction. Ya not taking advantage talking or hanging out. Understanding what she wants and giving it is not taking advantage.

As long as ya not drugging her or doing shady things it doesn't sound like ya taking advantage at all dude!
 

DarkKnight

Cro-Magnon Man
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Im going to chime in. I think you worry too much about what people think. Lots of 30 year old guys want to hook up with 19 years old but they get shamed by those who cannot do so. Stop giving power to other people, nobody wants your sexual succes, only you.
 

Ohdude

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@Flux straight up am just giving her what she wants, exciting friendship.
 
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