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I think I've got some attainability and possibly intimidation issues that I'm looking to fix dudes!
A contributing factor might be my physique, I hit the gym regularly and have noticed while working on my fundamentals that this has helped get a lot more attention and attraction from girls. I'm not massive but I've put on some size lately that my friends commented how I'm looking bigger and better lately.
When a was out the other night I would get a lot of AIs and IOIs but found whenever I approached these girls they'd be very nervous and I struggled to get any success with any of these girls. Am not unapproachable I actually got opened up by a few girls that night so am not really intimidating.
A former lover told me a while back she found it intimidating how attractive she found me and have had a few girls cancel dates on me or go ghost who come back an ask for second chances who usually say they panicked that they liked me so much. I always thought it was a load of shit to please my ego but it's happening regularly so I need to fix something!!
I rekindled with an ex earlier this year, after hooking up a few times we went on a date, an a swear she run faster than bolt at the end of the date to get away from me. A thought I must have made a huge mistake somewhere during the date but 2 minutes later she text saying sorry she didn't mean to do that she just panicked and insisted on setting up another date...
Any thoughts on this dudes?
A contributing factor might be my physique, I hit the gym regularly and have noticed while working on my fundamentals that this has helped get a lot more attention and attraction from girls. I'm not massive but I've put on some size lately that my friends commented how I'm looking bigger and better lately.
When a was out the other night I would get a lot of AIs and IOIs but found whenever I approached these girls they'd be very nervous and I struggled to get any success with any of these girls. Am not unapproachable I actually got opened up by a few girls that night so am not really intimidating.
A former lover told me a while back she found it intimidating how attractive she found me and have had a few girls cancel dates on me or go ghost who come back an ask for second chances who usually say they panicked that they liked me so much. I always thought it was a load of shit to please my ego but it's happening regularly so I need to fix something!!
I rekindled with an ex earlier this year, after hooking up a few times we went on a date, an a swear she run faster than bolt at the end of the date to get away from me. A thought I must have made a huge mistake somewhere during the date but 2 minutes later she text saying sorry she didn't mean to do that she just panicked and insisted on setting up another date...
Any thoughts on this dudes?