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Hey guys,
what do you answer when somebody asks you if you know about PUA, NLP and seduction etc? I talk about it with a couple of my close friends, but not with people I don't know that well.
Had a guy yesterday commenting on me that he enjoys seeing me flirt, while I was flirting (like at the same moment) and asked me if I know about PUA and NLP. I kind of denied it while talking to the girl, but it definitely hit me off guard. It doesn't happen very often but I feel when it happens its from guys that are not so experienced. Stil not sure how to handle that correctly.
I think the best answer is to playfully exaggerate it like "what should that be, not clue! *wink*".
I'm not really comfortable talking about seduction with people I don't know well, cuz it makes you seem manipulative if you don't have enough time to explain and even then it can get twisted, especially when someone uses the terms PUA and NLP. And they can use it to hurt your attainability - in the same way "he fucks all the girls" does.
what do you answer when somebody asks you if you know about PUA, NLP and seduction etc? I talk about it with a couple of my close friends, but not with people I don't know that well.
Had a guy yesterday commenting on me that he enjoys seeing me flirt, while I was flirting (like at the same moment) and asked me if I know about PUA and NLP. I kind of denied it while talking to the girl, but it definitely hit me off guard. It doesn't happen very often but I feel when it happens its from guys that are not so experienced. Stil not sure how to handle that correctly.
I think the best answer is to playfully exaggerate it like "what should that be, not clue! *wink*".
I'm not really comfortable talking about seduction with people I don't know well, cuz it makes you seem manipulative if you don't have enough time to explain and even then it can get twisted, especially when someone uses the terms PUA and NLP. And they can use it to hurt your attainability - in the same way "he fucks all the girls" does.