How necessary is it for the girl to ask to be exclusive?

youngbuck

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How set in stone is this rule? What are the drawbacks (and benefits if any) of being the one to bring it up first?
 

Fluxcapacitor

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Youngbuck dude, it's not necessary in certain situations but ultimately ya give up power in the form of validation, they know they've got commitment from ya an ya can seem desperate or needy. Usually girls crave commitment an so it works best that they chase you for it.

Am guessing ya fairly young an so if ya came from the school mindset of relationships that guys are meant to ask in order to lead the relationship it's where society has it backwards.

If ya still young an dealing with girls in this mindset of a similar age ya might be found in a situation where ya forced into it in order to progress with that girl. If that's what ya want nothing wrong in pursuing it but a would use a different approach.

Am a fan of forcing decisions instead of waiting an chase provides a great example in the article addressing girls objections where he asks her if she wants him or not. When she says yes he then says let's be together then. This implies commitment but it doesn't actually state it so if ya want to make it official twist that to suit ya dude.

Draw backs, validation, commitment, needy
Benefits if done right confidence to go after what ya want, head strong an romantic. Pick ya poison dude
 
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