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I'm just afraid of seeming too soft and indecisive. Like what if she doesn't understand that I want to fuck her. What if I lose her by being too slow. Like if I don't invite her home quick she will be bored and go home
someone said to me: If she doesn't fall for your personality, then it was just not meant to be.
That is the tragedy. We liked each other a lot. I have been on 50+ dates, I know when it is a good one. This one was great. I fucking scared her away, man...
In simple terms, when it is time to ask her home? Do I need to crack a sexual joke and get a good reaction? Or I just always ask in about one hour into the date and read the reactions?
I remember we are at home with another girl, and I say: "well this is my room, carefull, might be porn open on my pc" and she said "well, ok, then we will watch it" And thats how I knew we will fuck. And we fucked within 2 minutes.
But on a date in a cafe when is that hook point?
someone said to me: If she doesn't fall for your personality, then it was just not meant to be.
That is the tragedy. We liked each other a lot. I have been on 50+ dates, I know when it is a good one. This one was great. I fucking scared her away, man...
In simple terms, when it is time to ask her home? Do I need to crack a sexual joke and get a good reaction? Or I just always ask in about one hour into the date and read the reactions?
I remember we are at home with another girl, and I say: "well this is my room, carefull, might be porn open on my pc" and she said "well, ok, then we will watch it" And thats how I knew we will fuck. And we fucked within 2 minutes.
But on a date in a cafe when is that hook point?