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Hello all,
I have been thinking, some girls who I meet through social circle especially can happen to put off making decisions. Usually I move fast (waiting to make things happen is so boring and an utter waste of time). Sometimes this happens: I can swear that a girl likes me, but she is making all kinds of calculations about and puts off the decision to go along with me. When I don't indulge them with being available down the road they suddenly pop up all enthousiastic. But my enthousiasm can shift to another girl, especially if a week or 2 has gone by.
So how do you guys pre-empt this? I don't enjoy the waiting game, how do you effectively show your scarcity without coming off as some impatient needy guy. Again, I am not needy in most cases (I slipped up in the past just like everyone else), but I like things to happen when I want them to happen. It's like receiving a pizza fresh from the oven, not 3 hours after ordering one.
So what are your most effective tactics about making yourself scarce? To make the girl understand that she has a limited time of access.
I have been thinking, some girls who I meet through social circle especially can happen to put off making decisions. Usually I move fast (waiting to make things happen is so boring and an utter waste of time). Sometimes this happens: I can swear that a girl likes me, but she is making all kinds of calculations about and puts off the decision to go along with me. When I don't indulge them with being available down the road they suddenly pop up all enthousiastic. But my enthousiasm can shift to another girl, especially if a week or 2 has gone by.
So how do you guys pre-empt this? I don't enjoy the waiting game, how do you effectively show your scarcity without coming off as some impatient needy guy. Again, I am not needy in most cases (I slipped up in the past just like everyone else), but I like things to happen when I want them to happen. It's like receiving a pizza fresh from the oven, not 3 hours after ordering one.
So what are your most effective tactics about making yourself scarce? To make the girl understand that she has a limited time of access.