I've been going out with my girl for almost 9 months. I'm 30 and shes 27.
Her mom is really sweet and nice to me but her father is a complete A**hole. Her father is diagnosed with depression and tried to commit suicide about a year ago. His personality is very strange. He's not a very warm or nice person. He likes to be condescending all the time to everybody. He constantly has to make an inappropriate comment or joke about someone or something.
For example: My girlfriend told him that myself and her were trying to figure out how to make a smoothie and his response was "How hard can it be to make a smoothie?"
We went to dinner for her birthday and I said that I currently weigh 160 pounds and he laughed and said "I used to weigh that in high school."
When we were eating birthday cake he was giving me weird looks and "said we found his flaw" referring to me because of the way I was cutting the cake that was on my plate.
How do you deal with someone like this? I'm a successful attorney who has a great job and no debt at age 30. Whenever I'm around him I want to shut down and not even talk. I'm not the type of person to let another guy treat me like this but I feel bad responding back because he has mental health issues and it's my girlfriends dad.
Her mom is really sweet and nice to me but her father is a complete A**hole. Her father is diagnosed with depression and tried to commit suicide about a year ago. His personality is very strange. He's not a very warm or nice person. He likes to be condescending all the time to everybody. He constantly has to make an inappropriate comment or joke about someone or something.
For example: My girlfriend told him that myself and her were trying to figure out how to make a smoothie and his response was "How hard can it be to make a smoothie?"
We went to dinner for her birthday and I said that I currently weigh 160 pounds and he laughed and said "I used to weigh that in high school."
When we were eating birthday cake he was giving me weird looks and "said we found his flaw" referring to me because of the way I was cutting the cake that was on my plate.
How do you deal with someone like this? I'm a successful attorney who has a great job and no debt at age 30. Whenever I'm around him I want to shut down and not even talk. I'm not the type of person to let another guy treat me like this but I feel bad responding back because he has mental health issues and it's my girlfriends dad.