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tl;dr I approach and take number too quickly, shy girls don't answer the phone
Russian, 26, daygame.
Hi! Thanks for all the amazing comments from viewtopic.php?f=3&t=20059 (2300+ approaches = 5 new girls. please help)
Because of you and some hard thought, I went from
2258 approaches / 125 numbers (18/1) in 3 years to
54 approaches / 16 numbers (3.3/1) in one month
Now to the dates. I work at the university as an assisstant and have no shortage of "ooomph fuuuu.." level of girls.
I approach them slower and more carefull than before, when I was spamming. They are very surprised, shy, but attracted and happy to see me (6'3, normal face). Most of the time they are in a bit of a hurry to get to the next lecture, so my approaches look like this:
/I approach only really cute girls (it's Russia, remember?), keeping quality bar was a problem after years of spam-apps but I mostly got over it
-Hi!
*surprised face, sometimes they answer hi, sometimes don't*
-I know this is unusual, but
*smiling, putting her at ease*
-I just saw you from over there and
*paaause*
-your red hair red lipstic and glasses are just an amasing.. sort a.. mixture. Very cute. (something unique)
*thanks smiles*
-What is your name?
-Vika.
-Alex. Very nice to meet you.
*Shaking hands jently, more like holding hands*
-you are a student here? I work here...(short explanation) listen. lets do this: I have to go, but I will write down your number and call you in the evening, is that cool?
-Okay, 8 913...
-So when are you free these days?
-Well call and see (this part varies, some say today or give a scedule)
*calling her, seeing my number*
-Yeah, I just thought, I stop being a pussy and approach for once (icebreaker kinda), because if I didn't, I would be blaming myself for a week. Ok, I'll call you, hug it out!
*90% hug it out*
So I guess this part is fine (2500+ approaches FFS), but maybe not long enough, because sometimes they pickup the phone if I call right this day like 'Hi, bit busy, on a bus, call me later'
And about half of them answer normally and scedule a date and show up, but other half stops answering, and my frustrations are big, they are huuge, they are one of largest, believe me!
And for a good approach like that I think I must have a 95% number/date raios.
By 'good' I mean she quickly gives number, she holds my hand a bit longer, she hugs and smiles.
In the last 30 days I had 54 approaches / 16 numbers / 3 new dates / no new sex (just a FWB on weekends regularly).
So please, save me again, push me futher, good people, I wanted to have 54 apps/16 numbers/15 dates
Russian, 26, daygame.
Hi! Thanks for all the amazing comments from viewtopic.php?f=3&t=20059 (2300+ approaches = 5 new girls. please help)
Because of you and some hard thought, I went from
2258 approaches / 125 numbers (18/1) in 3 years to
54 approaches / 16 numbers (3.3/1) in one month
Now to the dates. I work at the university as an assisstant and have no shortage of "ooomph fuuuu.." level of girls.
I approach them slower and more carefull than before, when I was spamming. They are very surprised, shy, but attracted and happy to see me (6'3, normal face). Most of the time they are in a bit of a hurry to get to the next lecture, so my approaches look like this:
/I approach only really cute girls (it's Russia, remember?), keeping quality bar was a problem after years of spam-apps but I mostly got over it
-Hi!
*surprised face, sometimes they answer hi, sometimes don't*
-I know this is unusual, but
*smiling, putting her at ease*
-I just saw you from over there and
*paaause*
-your red hair red lipstic and glasses are just an amasing.. sort a.. mixture. Very cute. (something unique)
*thanks smiles*
-What is your name?
-Vika.
-Alex. Very nice to meet you.
*Shaking hands jently, more like holding hands*
-you are a student here? I work here...(short explanation) listen. lets do this: I have to go, but I will write down your number and call you in the evening, is that cool?
-Okay, 8 913...
-So when are you free these days?
-Well call and see (this part varies, some say today or give a scedule)
*calling her, seeing my number*
-Yeah, I just thought, I stop being a pussy and approach for once (icebreaker kinda), because if I didn't, I would be blaming myself for a week. Ok, I'll call you, hug it out!
*90% hug it out*
So I guess this part is fine (2500+ approaches FFS), but maybe not long enough, because sometimes they pickup the phone if I call right this day like 'Hi, bit busy, on a bus, call me later'
And about half of them answer normally and scedule a date and show up, but other half stops answering, and my frustrations are big, they are huuge, they are one of largest, believe me!
And for a good approach like that I think I must have a 95% number/date raios.
By 'good' I mean she quickly gives number, she holds my hand a bit longer, she hugs and smiles.
In the last 30 days I had 54 approaches / 16 numbers / 3 new dates / no new sex (just a FWB on weekends regularly).
So please, save me again, push me futher, good people, I wanted to have 54 apps/16 numbers/15 dates