Hello,
recently, I spent a night with a girl. We had sex at night and then again in the morning after we woke up. I masturbated 2 days before this because I was worried I would finish too fast. The reality is I could not come at all. My dude was like 80% hard most of the time and that is my main issue. There were moments where I could not even push it inside her after switching positions because I was not completely hard and her pussy was really tight on the enterance. I was not able to feel much during the sex but I attribute that to the condom. I am not sure whether it was my not fully hard dick.. or whether her pussy is simply not that tight deep inside. I think it was the combination of the three. Even when she gave me a blowjob, I could not feel how hard I was properly. She had to give me a handjob for like 5 minutes in the morning to make me orgasm.
One thing I noticed over the years is that I can rarely feel like my brain has some blood deficit and it is all inside my dick. I felt this sometimes, but I think this could be a symptom of the problem. I have lower sex drive in general, maybe because of the porn. What I tried during that night was simply to think about cumming inside her. But it did not seem to help. She also said she never had an orgasm from vaginal stimulation so she had to make herself cum while being on top of me. Btw she is the first girl I had sex with after a very long time and I was quite nervous. And this issue was there the last time I had sex with a girl as well but it was a bit better this time. But I hoped it would go away by now.
Anyways, I have not watched porn in last 3 or 4 months, last time I did it was like 20 seconds anyways and it got me aroused fairly quickly. There was time where regular porn did not do much anymore.
So what I want to try is to workout more to get my testosterone pumping more.
Think about her more, disregard her personality and view her purely as a sex object in my mind.
Maybe eat more fruits or meals that help with arousal like bananas and strawberries etc.
Lower the stress at work.
Meditate to lower the stress more.
Anything else to get my dick fully raging again?
I have read pretty much all the articles on the main site about related topics.
recently, I spent a night with a girl. We had sex at night and then again in the morning after we woke up. I masturbated 2 days before this because I was worried I would finish too fast. The reality is I could not come at all. My dude was like 80% hard most of the time and that is my main issue. There were moments where I could not even push it inside her after switching positions because I was not completely hard and her pussy was really tight on the enterance. I was not able to feel much during the sex but I attribute that to the condom. I am not sure whether it was my not fully hard dick.. or whether her pussy is simply not that tight deep inside. I think it was the combination of the three. Even when she gave me a blowjob, I could not feel how hard I was properly. She had to give me a handjob for like 5 minutes in the morning to make me orgasm.
One thing I noticed over the years is that I can rarely feel like my brain has some blood deficit and it is all inside my dick. I felt this sometimes, but I think this could be a symptom of the problem. I have lower sex drive in general, maybe because of the porn. What I tried during that night was simply to think about cumming inside her. But it did not seem to help. She also said she never had an orgasm from vaginal stimulation so she had to make herself cum while being on top of me. Btw she is the first girl I had sex with after a very long time and I was quite nervous. And this issue was there the last time I had sex with a girl as well but it was a bit better this time. But I hoped it would go away by now.
Anyways, I have not watched porn in last 3 or 4 months, last time I did it was like 20 seconds anyways and it got me aroused fairly quickly. There was time where regular porn did not do much anymore.
So what I want to try is to workout more to get my testosterone pumping more.
Think about her more, disregard her personality and view her purely as a sex object in my mind.
Maybe eat more fruits or meals that help with arousal like bananas and strawberries etc.
Lower the stress at work.
Meditate to lower the stress more.
Anything else to get my dick fully raging again?
I have read pretty much all the articles on the main site about related topics.