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It appears every time I approached girls my age and open directly with a general compliment of her appearance like “I thought you were cute, and wanted to meet you,” it goes down in flames. I don’t know if it’s jut unlucky and the girls I approach this way are the girls that just so happen to be un attracted to me from the start or if I’m doing something wrong; whether that be facial expression or tone of voice or whatever. I am fairly certain my fundamentals are quite solid at the moment. Maybe even the best they’ve ever been. However, perhaps I’ve lost touch of the most basic aspects....
Anyway, the theory I most believe to be true arose from a Quora post I read from a dating coach. His explanation of why direct game was the best was similar to that of girlschase’s. In his explanation he says that the girls who do not like your drect style of game arenas your type and you are lucky to screen them out. However, he explains that the reason the type of girls who prefer an indirect style of game are immature and need someone to play games to satisfy their desire for a complex relationship full of mind games, in contrasts to those who are more mature and are tired of relationships being stressful and just want something easy and fun. He also explains the concept of how those who prefer indirect game and are immature crave the stressful relationship due to the addictive ups and downs.
The reason this would apply to the girls I approach more often then not is because they are all around the 14-18 age range (bc I’m 16)
I was wondering if this could be the reason and I should focus momentarily more on the indirect aspects of game, or if there is more likely a problem with my approach in general. I believe this theory to be correct because I’m considered very attractive in my school, and have had some success with more indirect game. But next to never with direct opener.
Anyway, the theory I most believe to be true arose from a Quora post I read from a dating coach. His explanation of why direct game was the best was similar to that of girlschase’s. In his explanation he says that the girls who do not like your drect style of game arenas your type and you are lucky to screen them out. However, he explains that the reason the type of girls who prefer an indirect style of game are immature and need someone to play games to satisfy their desire for a complex relationship full of mind games, in contrasts to those who are more mature and are tired of relationships being stressful and just want something easy and fun. He also explains the concept of how those who prefer indirect game and are immature crave the stressful relationship due to the addictive ups and downs.
The reason this would apply to the girls I approach more often then not is because they are all around the 14-18 age range (bc I’m 16)
I was wondering if this could be the reason and I should focus momentarily more on the indirect aspects of game, or if there is more likely a problem with my approach in general. I believe this theory to be correct because I’m considered very attractive in my school, and have had some success with more indirect game. But next to never with direct opener.