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So there's this girl I met recently. Met at work. Asked her out for a drink before to which she said that she was busy with working overtime but would be free in 2-3 weeks and would let me know later when she was free. She never texted me to say when she was free. However since then she's got to know me more and she really digs that I play guitar and am passionate about music and is always asking to hear me play. I hadn't asked her to meet up again because I didn't want to be seen as chasing and wanted her to contact me like she said she would. So the other day she said she wanted to hear me play again to which I said that she should come down to hang out where i live to hear me as I thought id ask her again as its been 3 weeks. She replied that she was up for it to which i asked when she's free. she said she could do next week so i asked her to text me when she knows she's free as i didnt want to chase too much. Also asking her when she was free right there would be putting her under pressure to make a decision right there which is not good. She then said again later as we left that she'd contact me when she knew she'd be free. She seemed pretty up for it
Now the thing i'm wondering is if she doesnt contact me by the end of next week what do I do? It seems like every strategy is a bad strategy because to me texting her again is chasing too much as ive already asked her yet waiting for her to get back to me seems like it's leaving the ball in her court too much, as if she doesnt get back to me 2 times then trying the same strategy again is likely to fail again, so what do i do if she doesnt get back to me?
Now the thing i'm wondering is if she doesnt contact me by the end of next week what do I do? It seems like every strategy is a bad strategy because to me texting her again is chasing too much as ive already asked her yet waiting for her to get back to me seems like it's leaving the ball in her court too much, as if she doesnt get back to me 2 times then trying the same strategy again is likely to fail again, so what do i do if she doesnt get back to me?