For the last 4 months I have been seeing a girl who has a bf. she took a break from her bf about 2 months ago and we’ve basically seeing each other a lot and started fucking. She hasn’t officially broken up yet, on a break, and the guy is tying to get back. But recently we started to fight a little bit, she says I’m coming on too strong, too much texting etc, which I admit and we resolved. We had a couple of blow ups in last weeks, where I have finished with her or she finished with me but then we would meet a few days later and resolve the issues. I put those little fights down to aligning expectations etc.
During this time she said mutilple times that I am free to see other girls, and she has pretty much pushed back on any attempts from me to close her down into an exclusive relationship. But last week she found out I fucked another girl, she asked me about it and I said no... but she could tell I was lying and I eventually admitted it later. But she said i’d Lied to her face. So now she is really pissed and wants to break things off. That’s despite her previously saying it’s ok for me to see other girls.
Anyways, I really like this girl a lot, we’ve had a tough 2 months with emotional shit she is going through, she still hasn’t dumped the bf for good and that has created lot of emotional problems for her (and me). He’s tying like hell to get back with her and dumping lots of baggage on her, while I’m obviously tying to get with her too and putting little bit of pressure, so she’s a bit emotionally messed up right now. So her finding out about me banging some other chick has come at a really bad time and has sent her over the edge. Said she felt betrayed etc.
I’m meeting her tomorrow for a make or break meeting (well, I think so) but she already told that she doesn’t have the “energy to fight for this anymore” etc and is really pissed. Any advice is appreciated! How should I present the issue with the other girl (it was meaningless and just a fuck, honestly)?
I actually want this girl as my gf, but think have blown it. She said she felt betrayed, this all while she still not officially broken up with her bf, we are not officially an exclusive item, she told me to see other girls, etc. I banged some girls on summer holidays and told her about it and she was cool. Really have no clue what she wants or thinks, other than she is pissed. She likes me a lot and we are very passionate together. Had sex twice and it was mind blowing!
Any advice on how to approach this meeting is appreciated!!
During this time she said mutilple times that I am free to see other girls, and she has pretty much pushed back on any attempts from me to close her down into an exclusive relationship. But last week she found out I fucked another girl, she asked me about it and I said no... but she could tell I was lying and I eventually admitted it later. But she said i’d Lied to her face. So now she is really pissed and wants to break things off. That’s despite her previously saying it’s ok for me to see other girls.
Anyways, I really like this girl a lot, we’ve had a tough 2 months with emotional shit she is going through, she still hasn’t dumped the bf for good and that has created lot of emotional problems for her (and me). He’s tying like hell to get back with her and dumping lots of baggage on her, while I’m obviously tying to get with her too and putting little bit of pressure, so she’s a bit emotionally messed up right now. So her finding out about me banging some other chick has come at a really bad time and has sent her over the edge. Said she felt betrayed etc.
I’m meeting her tomorrow for a make or break meeting (well, I think so) but she already told that she doesn’t have the “energy to fight for this anymore” etc and is really pissed. Any advice is appreciated! How should I present the issue with the other girl (it was meaningless and just a fuck, honestly)?
I actually want this girl as my gf, but think have blown it. She said she felt betrayed, this all while she still not officially broken up with her bf, we are not officially an exclusive item, she told me to see other girls, etc. I banged some girls on summer holidays and told her about it and she was cool. Really have no clue what she wants or thinks, other than she is pissed. She likes me a lot and we are very passionate together. Had sex twice and it was mind blowing!
Any advice on how to approach this meeting is appreciated!!