Hobbies that will help you get laid, please add to the list!

I have learned that for the most part, cold approaching can be mostly ineffective in the sense that you put up a lot of effort for almost no returns. It is almost like being in sales and cold calling people who have no idea of who you are, nine times out of ten you are going to get shut down. You should still do it from time to time because it helps you with your boldness, confidence and you never know how lucky you will get.

Now on the other hand, similar to the business world, things like a good brand and good marketing can make selling yourself a lot easier. What a lot of hobbies do is that they help you turn cold leads into warmer leads, people just have a reason to see you.

I really call it being transparent about your hobbies.

I want to get laid and I want to fuck tons of hot pussy, not just that, I want the validation of being around a lot of hot girls. Some guys might not want that, some guys might see a "hobby" as something they "enjoy" so they will decide to sit on their ass all day playing videogames or doing something like woodworking. Nothing wrong with that except these are not hobbies that help you get laid and meet attractive women, so I am not going to include them.

Given all that Girlschase has helped me out with in my personal journey, I wanted to share some hobbies that can help guys get laid.

1. Photography, especially if it is in anyways related to people.

It is a fact that modern women have validation issues given that we are in the age of social media. If you are able to take good photos and get somewhat of a reputation for it, women will come to you, slowly. Now some will ask how to start, I started by taking good photos of guys who were my friends as well as couples I was friends with then I promoted them on Instagram. After doing it for a couple months, girls that my friends knew became interested in having their photos taken.

I genuinely became interested in the idea of making people look as good as possible because I had my issues with that on dating apps. Taking what I knew from dating apps and getting the photos done there, I decided to apply that to photography. Helped a couple friends have their photos taken and both of them saw tremendous gains on their Bumble matches.

Slowly I started getting a pipeline going to where one girl has a photo taken, her friends like it and now more of them want their photos taken. I have gotten laid twice and could get laid so much more if I had the time for it on the weekends but have been spending more time

My point being that despite all of that, I have a pipeline of up to 8 different women who I feel that if I was aggressive enough with, I would be getting laid a shit ton more.

2. Anything to do with nightlife it seems, still workin on it!

Of any job out there, bartender or DJ at a nightclub would be the go to for getting hot girls. I am still working on a situation where I can get this sort of a gig on the side of my 9 to 5 but it is proving to be extremely tough, they're going to always start you out as a barback. Almost envy the guys who got into it early and are now bartenders seeing the return on things, it sucks for me but hopefully I can get more input on this from the experts on here.

Other nightlife jobs might also be good to go but I cannot speak too much into this since it is more heresay than experience.

Would love to hear more ideas from you guys.

Photography
A second to photography. Hell, even if you don't want to shoot people you can still leverage it on Instagram. If you know what you're doing it wouldn't take but around a year to get to 15-20K followers and by that point you can use it as a makeshift online game. Others even report success with it as a daygame closer instead of going for the number.

Though my Instagram isn't nearly that big it was still respectable and I managed to experiment a little with it before I had to shut it down. In my limited experience I'd say it's worth a shot.


Dance
Another one you can do is learn how to dance. Latin dancing is good if you're into the nightclub scene. If you're not then stick with swing dancing.


Hiking
Hiking is another hobby that can help you, though it's more geared towards daygame and depends on where you go. But if you like to hike some popular trails then you can see some hot runners/cyclists that you can stop. Haven't found a way to adequately stop the cyclists yet though and almost got run over once :/ (think I'm just gonna straight-up flag the next one down and let the chips fall where they may)


Volunteer
Only done it once with an ex (and her family) and there was definitely some truth to what they say about the ratios there... No other information, but still a possibility.


Yoga
Apparently hot yoga is the place to go, so I hear. I did Vinyasa because I like it more and even though it was a small studio there were still a few girls there. Hell, I think one of the teachers had the hots for me. Should have done something about it but alas... it was years ago and I wasn't as confident then
-- a lot of rock climbing places even offer yoga classes. Though I have yet to check out these spots it's still an idea. Though it's probably best to stick to the pure yoga studios if you're only in it for the women (just guessing though, could be wrong).

YOOOO Regal Tiger, sup homie! Hope things have been getting better for you champ.

Getting that many Instagram followers is still a challenge, assuming you are doing it in the right ways. I have been slowly building up my Instagram following but do not want to rely on some glitches or pay for followers.

The issue with other stuff you listed like dance and yoga classes is that they are common knowledge with most guys so a lot of them are going to be loaded with more guys than girls. Plus the girls there are not there to meet guys.

Oh Pry said:

YOOOO Regal Tiger, sup homie! Hope things have been getting better for you champ.

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Thanks!

Getting that many Instagram followers is still a challenge, assuming you are doing it in the right ways. I have been slowly building up my Instagram following but do not want to rely on some glitches or pay for followers.

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I just did follow/unfollow and got 2.5k in about a month and a half. Eventually got it up to 3.7k. Then stopped even uploading to my Instagram for a year and after that it was at around 2.8k. Took a year to lose 800 people. Not that bad at all.

The issue with other stuff you listed like dance and yoga classes is that they are common knowledge with most guys so a lot of them are going to be loaded with more guys than girls. Plus the girls there are not there to meet guys.

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I've never seen a yoga class loaded with guys.

Latin dancing does have a fair amount of guys. But you asked for hobbies to help get you laid. Latin dancing as a hobby, if you get good at it, will get you girls.

Swing dancing, however, there's nothing to worry about with the other guys. And it's still far from loaded with guys.

The follow/unfollow tactic is a bit ineffective IMO. You not only have to get followers, you have to get followers that will become loyal followers who will like your pics and engage with your account.

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The follow/unfollow tactic is a bit ineffective IMO. You not only have to get followers, you have to get followers that will become loyal followers who will like your pics and engage with your account.

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You can target it to mitigate that problem i.e. target a bar location/bar tag and hit up girls who have posted pictures there saying you were looking to go to a bar and wondering if it was any good. Maybe even invite her. You wouldn't be able to scale it to 500K but they'd be real people interested in your profile if they follow you back (probably).

As for hobbies:

Language classes

If you like nerdy cute girls. I know a few girls who study another language but not that many guys.

Acting classes

Artsy type. I have a friend who started doing this and it's his main market now from what I can tell.

Oh Pry said:

The follow/unfollow tactic is a bit ineffective IMO. You not only have to get followers, you have to get followers that will become loyal followers who will like your pics and engage with your account.

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It worked quite well for me while I had my Instagram

500k is unrealistic!

I think anywhere in the 1,500 to 2k range should be good for the most part.

Hobby parameters:

A group activity where you interact with other people.
An activity that results in increased dopamine release. Exercise is the first that comes to mind.
An activity that involves or allows for physical contact with others (Dancing, Martial arts)
An activity that allows you to take the lead in group activities
An activity that allows for social interaction afterwards most importantly, but before as well
Activities that allow you to achieve higher levels and progress.
Activities you can show off in social media. Think Action...

I've got a challenge for you:

Become a super-duper sexy meditation coach and ONLY do live sessions, as you feel that technology has limiting effects on the soul when it comes to meditation...

Then, send me the videos of this sensual-porn-palace you created and share them with your buddies!

Any social activity in which you are the organizer. As such, you inherently have the leadership and status. If you manage to always show up in good company yourself, you get pre-selection as well.

I am thinking about starting something along these lines myself and test the idea.

Seppuku

Seppuku said:

Any social activity in which you are the organizer. As such, you inherently have the leadership and status. If you manage to always show up in good company yourself, you get pre-selection as well.

I am thinking about starting something along these lines myself and test the idea.

Seppuku

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THIS! My high school crush who I reconnected with and realized was below my league now, was talking about how we met when we were just kids in grade school. We were both attending a club event, but she ASSUMED I was in charge of putting it on, and said as much as we were reminiscing and she had just confessed about how she wanted to "try and make a relationship work".

I was invited to a party where I only knew the host. I volunteered to bartend and instantly I'm everyone's favorite person.

Volunteered at a local community event just pouring beer. Lots of eye contact and opening opportunities. If a girl is buying her own drink, she's probably there alone....

You don't have to be the head organizer for that to work. I've invited friends to go to a big family style dinner dance with hundreds of people in attendance. I reserve the tickets, people pay me for their ticket, I come rolling in with 18 people, and the guys putting on the event comp me a ticket (sometimes) because "i always bring good looking girls" to their event. I don't even have to set up serve or clean up...I use social media for organizing these a couple times a year.

FT,

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I was invited to a party where I only knew the host. I volunteered to bartend and instantly I'm everyone's favorite person.

Volunteered at a local community event just pouring beer. Lots of eye contact and opening opportunities. If a girl is buying her own drink, she's probably there alone....

You don't have to be the head organizer for that to work. I've invited friends to go to a big family style dinner dance with hundreds of people in attendance. I reserve the tickets, people pay me for their ticket, I come rolling in with 18 people, and the guys putting on the event comp me a ticket (sometimes) because "i always bring good looking girls" to their event. I don't even have to set up serve or clean up...I use social media for organizing these a couple times a year.

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Thanks for sharing your anecdotes, you confirmed what I thought. Interesting, right?

Seppuku

bumping this old gem for others to post on

Become a tantric sex god and call it a day?

Other than that it's just wanking/or as the variety of responses show it can be anything (mostly anything) as long as you are passionate about said hobby and do not pursue it only for the pussy.

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it can be anything (mostly anything)

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As long as it attract a large enough pool of females of your liking (it depends).

Damn, Chase and Franco! OK, I understand the new forum is coming and is still coming since May but perhaps can adjust the current forum to have a time window of more than just two hours? I don't think it would take more than a minute. Maybe I'm the only notorious late editor, non native English speaker here, so who cares.

Drawing and guitar are two hobbies I do that have been a little helpful to my game. These are things I’ve done since childhood. They can leave a strong impression on the girls mind and even be used to pull.

With guitar I seed with “I really enjoy playing the guitar. Singing a little song always puts me in a calm, relaxed mood. Maybe if there’s time I can show it later and maybe play you something.” Ive used this only on day2s so far but each time the girls were like “ok” or “that would be cool.” Then as the date winds down I’ll say “come on. I want to show you my guitar.” Then I’ll drive her to my place. My guitar is in my bed room so when we arrive I say “see. Here she is. She’s my number one I’m afraid.” Then I’ll play a tune. I haven’t actually sung a song to a girl before the lay, only afterwards, but actually singing a song absolutely has a strong effect, where afterwards I’ll get nagging requests of “please play me a song!” over and over again. More needs to be field tested of course. I’ve only played and sung songs to a few women, but the seeding and pulling line is a part of my repertoire that I wish I had added sooner. Maybe I would have gotten more lays!

For drawing, specifically portrait drawing, my experience with its effect on women is very minimal, hence a little KJ, but of the two occasions I drew a portrait for a girl - one during a relationship and another during a date where I was goofing off with a pen and paper I came across as we were strolling around - the effect of seeing themselves was very strong. There is something about this that is very magical that I cannot explain, more magical than music believe it or not; but I’ve experienced this myself when I had a portrait done of me which is what motivated me to get into portrait drawing in the first place. I’m not really very good, but I’m decent enough to get the general shape of the woman’s face and (most importantly imo) to add on a nice expression. Like the guitar, more here needs to be experimented with to see in what ways this can help my infield game. One KJ thing I do feel strongly about (and I noticed this from drawing women from my imagination, life and photos) is that how I look at a woman’s face has evolved - what is her expression? What’s going on inside that head? I’ve spent a lot of time thinking and imagining different faces, which is what happens when you draw faces a lot I guess. This may help me when judging a woman’s mental state as well as with cold reading, but I can’t confirm at the moment, just a feeling

IMO We can divide the hobbies into a few categories:

1. Hobbies that gives you concrete PU skills - like public speaking or hypnosis - verbals, presence management, impact techs
2. Hobbies that are a form of social circle part with access to women - like yoga, dancing communities etc. which is a way to begin social circle game.
3. Hobbies that provide for an interesting part of your brand to help the pull - eg portraits, @Bacchus uses sketching, i use dancing. We both add them to the narrative of us we give, or our brands, and create a build in which these are qualities we hint about and use intrigue techs with - creating a mystique about who is this interesting guy, as well as bringing women down stimulating verbal paths around them. And it provides for a great lets go to my studio, i would love your feedback on some xxx i have.. after talking immersively about being inside the music or alike.

One and three will be a great addition to cold approach game or SC game as it gives a narrative about you which draws girls in, an interestingness.

Two is good in the beginning, and for training purposes, but can b a bit of a trap too for guys.

A few hobbies or interest areas might tap all these parts eg dancing but will be stronger in two or one of them. Some will enhance cold approaching. Others will help fundamentals. others will give access to cute or a wider set of girls.

Or do it like @Teevster - his hobby is sex

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2. Anything to do with nightlife it seems, still workin on it!

Of any job out there, bartender or DJ at a nightclub would be the go to for getting hot girls. I am still working on a situation where I can get this sort of a gig on the side of my 9 to 5 but it is proving to be extremely tough, they're going to always start you out as a barback. Almost envy the guys who got into it early and are now bartenders seeing the return on things, it sucks for me but hopefully I can get more input on this from the experts on here.

Other nightlife jobs might also be good to go but I cannot speak too much into this since it is more heresay than experience.

Would love to hear more ideas from you guys.

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I would say go the sub-promoter route for nightlife. Bar tender is made to be a lot more glamorous than it actually is. A lot of your time is spent cleaning surfaces and carrying heavy stock.

You do get girl attention but a lot of it is time wasters/ drunks. You still need game & I knew bartenders who got nowhere. It will likely increase your lays by 20-40% depending how good you’re but with the late hours on top a 9-5 it’s your decision to see if that’s worth it to you.

As a sub-promoter though you just bring girls to a main promoter of a club & get a % of what the club pays them E.G 50% of $40 a girl. You can even do this unofficially and promoters agree as it’s easy money for them.

Just have to be sociable, DM random girls if you want to take it seriously and even leverage it with other hobbies e.g. dance classes.

I went to a hip hop class & no exaggeration ratio was like 5:1 girl to guy. Vibe was very much platonic though so more a resource to build a girl group then get laid in and itself.

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I would say go the sub-promoter route for nightlife. Bar tender is made to be a lot more glamorous than it actually is. A lot of your time is spent cleaning surfaces and carrying heavy stock.

You do get girl attention but a lot of it is time wasters/ drunks. You still need game & I knew bartenders who got nowhere. It will likely increase your lays by 20-40% depending how good you’re but with the late hours on top a 9-5 it’s your decision to see if that’s worth it to you.

As a sub-promoter though you just bring girls to a main promoter of a club & get a % of what the club pays them E.G 50% of $40 a girl. You can even do this unofficially and promoters agree as it’s easy money for them.

Just have to be sociable, DM random girls if you want to take it seriously and even leverage it with other hobbies e.g. dance classes.

I went to a hip hop class & no exaggeration ratio was like 5:1 girl to guy. Vibe was very much platonic though so more a resource to build a girl group then get laid in and itself.

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Nice shit man and you get a like for that. I feel like I like bartending only because I love mixing shit and actually making drinks, that and at a high pace. One thing is true though, the barrier for entry is much higher for bartending than it is being a club promoter.