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The Hand I'll Be Dealt
Ok, so I'm completely in over my head here, but here's the environment: downtown, huge daytime festival that peters out late afternoon or so, followed by tons of nightlife. Lots of foot traffic downtown into wee morning. Lots of drinking. Lots of out-of-town girls, some from other countries, likely leaving the next day. Fair amount of local or semi-local girls, too. Sexualized atmosphere. If you told me you've banged some random in a porta-potty at the event or in a downtown alley after club, I wouldn't be too surprised.
I want to make the most of this!
Where I'm coming from:
In some cases if a girl's local I may try to propose a meet another time and get a number as in my usual day game strategy. But I don't want to rely on that solely, as (i) it won't work on the foreigners, and (ii) even for local girls it's probably weak game since I'm meeting them in such a sexual environment. So I really need a strategy to bang them the same day.
Logistics could be challenging because I'm in a suburb that is normally 40 minutes to an hour by car, and that's discounting congestion from the event. And I'd have to do it by taxi or Uber. That might preclude getting a girl home after the festival and back on time for the nightlife she's probably going to attend, or have her too tired if it's after the nightlife. Unless maybe I get her to skip out on the nightlife, or else go with her to her hotel if she's foreign! But her hotel adds a bunch more unknowns including maybe her sharing the room.
And then there are the crowds. In past when I've come with friends, I've lost them completely for the remainder of the event in spite of our all having phones! Imagine, then, trying to meet back up with a girl who either doesn't have her phone (a precaution some take because this event sometimes destroys phones), or because she's a foreigner without roaming. (I may have lost a hookup last year for overlooking the latter!) This seems to indicate the only way to bang a girl may be to not let her out of your sight until you've banged her, but just how do you do that? Following her around like a lost puppy won't work. Having her follow you, better, but could be really hard when she has friends, which most will (assuming she hasn't lost them).
Freaky in Freaky Places
It's actually occurred to me that the best way to pull might be to try to have sex with the girl in some random location such as one of the porta-potties they have on the grounds, in between trucks, or in the washroom of some nearby café. Or wait until girls come out of the clubs and try to get one to fuck in an alley or park. That is soooo outside the box of my harmless upbringing that it's hard to imagine it as a possibility. The "girls don't do this" program in my brain goes into overdrive even though rationally I know that sometimes, they do.
I'd love to do this, it's super exciting and sexy! Only, I'm trying to envision the overall process. My "process concept" is that after meeting, there is a comfort/rapport building step that involves an hour or two of conversation, deep diving, etc. in a neutral location before even bringing up going to a sex location. So, how does that fit into these scenarios?!?!
I'm not too sure about leading her into a porta-potty, though. I know that some people actually do this!! On one hand, they're conveniently located and there's something hugely sexy about two people being so horny for each other that they're willing to go at it in such a ridiculous place. On the other hand, at best they're cramped and smell a little bit off, and at worst, well, let's not even say. Will she even go for this? Will either of us have trouble getting aroused? (I've heard if you're drunk enough you won't notice smell - but I, at least, won't be drunk!! lol)
I also have no idea how the fuck to split my girl off her friends in order to do any of the above. I guess, avoid two-sets. And avoid sets where she's the pretty one out of a bunch of ugly heifers that won't be getting laid later. And if a girl's alone, totally go for her!
And what about ASD? "Let's go to the washroom" does not leave any kind of reasonable doubt as to what is going on! At least in the case of a café, you can get her horny before you get to that point. But what about pulling a girl coming out of a club and trying to get her to come home with you? How do you invite a girl home you just met 10 minutes ago? Wouldn't her ASD be too strong?
Side question: How do you know if a girl is too drunk to bang ethically? I want to share a good time, not make her have a sickly feeling the next day when she realizes what she did, or even not remember. In some regards, being sober might put me at some advantage, and I don't want to take unfair advantage of a girl.
It would feel so strange trying to get laid at this event, but I have to remind my poor asexual brain that lots of people there are trying to get laid, even the girls! LOL
Ok, so I'm completely in over my head here, but here's the environment: downtown, huge daytime festival that peters out late afternoon or so, followed by tons of nightlife. Lots of foot traffic downtown into wee morning. Lots of drinking. Lots of out-of-town girls, some from other countries, likely leaving the next day. Fair amount of local or semi-local girls, too. Sexualized atmosphere. If you told me you've banged some random in a porta-potty at the event or in a downtown alley after club, I wouldn't be too surprised.
I want to make the most of this!
Where I'm coming from:
- Decent handle on female psychology but limited practical experience, and pervasive unconscious conditioning that lags way behind my intellectual awareness.
- Trying to knock up some some random cutie in a porta-potty is about what I need to reset my brain from a lifetime of shyness, caution and asexuality.
- Not a fan of night game. Mostly been practicing day game. I like the vibe of the festival itself a lot more than the prospects of the associated nightlife.
- I don't have a wing worth mentioning. Being that I usually do day game, I am used to going solo, and have done so even in nightlife.
- Never been drunk, only buzzed on two occasions from peer pressure and hated it, and have no desire to start. Drunks can't follow process. And they hit on girls that would make them puke sober. Ideally I want to do something a normal person would only do shitfaced - except for the retardedly low mate standards, - but while being dead sober.
In some cases if a girl's local I may try to propose a meet another time and get a number as in my usual day game strategy. But I don't want to rely on that solely, as (i) it won't work on the foreigners, and (ii) even for local girls it's probably weak game since I'm meeting them in such a sexual environment. So I really need a strategy to bang them the same day.
Logistics could be challenging because I'm in a suburb that is normally 40 minutes to an hour by car, and that's discounting congestion from the event. And I'd have to do it by taxi or Uber. That might preclude getting a girl home after the festival and back on time for the nightlife she's probably going to attend, or have her too tired if it's after the nightlife. Unless maybe I get her to skip out on the nightlife, or else go with her to her hotel if she's foreign! But her hotel adds a bunch more unknowns including maybe her sharing the room.
And then there are the crowds. In past when I've come with friends, I've lost them completely for the remainder of the event in spite of our all having phones! Imagine, then, trying to meet back up with a girl who either doesn't have her phone (a precaution some take because this event sometimes destroys phones), or because she's a foreigner without roaming. (I may have lost a hookup last year for overlooking the latter!) This seems to indicate the only way to bang a girl may be to not let her out of your sight until you've banged her, but just how do you do that? Following her around like a lost puppy won't work. Having her follow you, better, but could be really hard when she has friends, which most will (assuming she hasn't lost them).
Freaky in Freaky Places
It's actually occurred to me that the best way to pull might be to try to have sex with the girl in some random location such as one of the porta-potties they have on the grounds, in between trucks, or in the washroom of some nearby café. Or wait until girls come out of the clubs and try to get one to fuck in an alley or park. That is soooo outside the box of my harmless upbringing that it's hard to imagine it as a possibility. The "girls don't do this" program in my brain goes into overdrive even though rationally I know that sometimes, they do.
I'd love to do this, it's super exciting and sexy! Only, I'm trying to envision the overall process. My "process concept" is that after meeting, there is a comfort/rapport building step that involves an hour or two of conversation, deep diving, etc. in a neutral location before even bringing up going to a sex location. So, how does that fit into these scenarios?!?!
- Café: This one is easest to imagine. You make it like a usual coffee date, except that ultimately you want to escalate right up to sexual excitation and then propose going to the washroom. Biggest challenge is pulling her to a café in the first place.
- Festival grounds: At certain points I think it will be next to impossible because of the event's structure, but towards the end where it becomes more disorganized it might become possible. But the grounds are crowded and loud, so I don't know how possible it would be to bring her to sit and chat somewhere. It would likely be possible closer to when it peters out, with the added bonus of more romantic lighting. When things get heavy, what next?... "Let's go see if any of the porta-potties are actually half-clean." HAHAHAHA. Now, there might be semi-private spots on the grounds other than porta-potties, but they would require more hunting. (Shit like under stairs, behind shrubs, between buildings, ...)
- Alley: For a girl met on the street after club, I have no idea how you'd get her into an alley. I suspect the more typical alley sex scenario is where you've first warmed her up in the club, but I'm not really interested in clubbing. Perhaps you could take her for a walk, warm her up on the walk, and then wind up in an alley when she's ready. I'm not sure how far you can escalate on a walk! Or how to get a total stranger to agree to such walk. (If any restaurants or cafés are still open, it might be best to do that instead. And I'm sure a usual suggestion would be "afterparty", but that word is about as alien to me as a crater on Mars.)
- Park: This one will take some study of the local geography. But, meet a girl coming out of club, suggest taking a walk, and we just end up in a park where we can sit and talk more and escalate. Shit, that sounds nice if it would work. But would a girl feel safe following a guy she just met into a park at night? How does she know he's not a psycho axe murderer? LOL. I guess showing the banana a little more than usual might help, right? What do I tell her if she asks where we're going?
I'm not too sure about leading her into a porta-potty, though. I know that some people actually do this!! On one hand, they're conveniently located and there's something hugely sexy about two people being so horny for each other that they're willing to go at it in such a ridiculous place. On the other hand, at best they're cramped and smell a little bit off, and at worst, well, let's not even say. Will she even go for this? Will either of us have trouble getting aroused? (I've heard if you're drunk enough you won't notice smell - but I, at least, won't be drunk!! lol)
I also have no idea how the fuck to split my girl off her friends in order to do any of the above. I guess, avoid two-sets. And avoid sets where she's the pretty one out of a bunch of ugly heifers that won't be getting laid later. And if a girl's alone, totally go for her!
And what about ASD? "Let's go to the washroom" does not leave any kind of reasonable doubt as to what is going on! At least in the case of a café, you can get her horny before you get to that point. But what about pulling a girl coming out of a club and trying to get her to come home with you? How do you invite a girl home you just met 10 minutes ago? Wouldn't her ASD be too strong?
Side question: How do you know if a girl is too drunk to bang ethically? I want to share a good time, not make her have a sickly feeling the next day when she realizes what she did, or even not remember. In some regards, being sober might put me at some advantage, and I don't want to take unfair advantage of a girl.
It would feel so strange trying to get laid at this event, but I have to remind my poor asexual brain that lots of people there are trying to get laid, even the girls! LOL
