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What does this mean?? I told her to tell me a day and time frame she was free so we could work something out. Earlier in the week she gave me the “sorry I’m busy 24/7 the rest of my life speech” which I knew was bs for various reasons. When I asked her to tell me when she was free she admitted that being busy was not the reason we never did anything. Keep in mind when reading this conversation these aren’t direct quotes since we were talking in Snapchat.
“ im sorry i am just a really shy person and I’m really awkward and nervous around guys, especially if it’s alone. Idk why I’m just like athag and that’s why we haven’t hung out at all.” That is what she said... what???
Me: Okay, I’m sorry but you really didn’t clear anything up for me here, are we gonna do anything or not?
Her: idk I’m really shy and I get nervous and I just can’t do anything alone with guys I’m sorry.”
Me: “dang, this is hands down the weirdest rejection I’ve ever had.”
Her: it’s not a rejection, it’s just the truth.
Me: I’m pretty sure you just said we were never gonna hang out. Is this true or what?
Her: I feel like everyone says this, but I don’t really have time rn because (sport) is everyday and most weekends and there are some problems with my family that really need fixed rn bc it’s hurting my younger siblings. (The fuck?? Is this an actual reason that she can’t go out with me, or is this another excuse??)
Me: just know you can trust me if you ever need to talk to anyone. But if you change your mind about going out, I can’t promise I’ll still feel the same in a few weeks, but I’m here for you if you need me. You can trust me”
Her: Thank you so much!
Me: anytime girl
Did I friend zone myself?
Did I friend zone her?
Is she Broken in some sort of way?
Was I too unattainable before and she couldnt be comfortable with me
I do like talking to her as a friend though, but I would like fuck her.
“ im sorry i am just a really shy person and I’m really awkward and nervous around guys, especially if it’s alone. Idk why I’m just like athag and that’s why we haven’t hung out at all.” That is what she said... what???
Me: Okay, I’m sorry but you really didn’t clear anything up for me here, are we gonna do anything or not?
Her: idk I’m really shy and I get nervous and I just can’t do anything alone with guys I’m sorry.”
Me: “dang, this is hands down the weirdest rejection I’ve ever had.”
Her: it’s not a rejection, it’s just the truth.
Me: I’m pretty sure you just said we were never gonna hang out. Is this true or what?
Her: I feel like everyone says this, but I don’t really have time rn because (sport) is everyday and most weekends and there are some problems with my family that really need fixed rn bc it’s hurting my younger siblings. (The fuck?? Is this an actual reason that she can’t go out with me, or is this another excuse??)
Me: just know you can trust me if you ever need to talk to anyone. But if you change your mind about going out, I can’t promise I’ll still feel the same in a few weeks, but I’m here for you if you need me. You can trust me”
Her: Thank you so much!
Me: anytime girl
Did I friend zone myself?
Did I friend zone her?
Is she Broken in some sort of way?
Was I too unattainable before and she couldnt be comfortable with me
I do like talking to her as a friend though, but I would like fuck her.