Based on what Tod Valintine said in one of his awesome videos... https://youtu.be/ojfp1nN-SL0
You should not try to make a girl laugh during pickup for a many reasons.
1- It makes you look like a 'try hard', since you are looking for a reaction, 2- Since laughter is high energy it is hard to stay at that level and you can easily lose that energy, 3- It is the wrong energy state for escalation since it releases tension. 4- the only good laughter you want from the girl is from the release of that sexual tension which you have created. There are other reasons as well but watch Tod's video for a better explanation.
So my Question......
What about you laughing at what the girl says?
Wouldnt that kill that tension as well, and make you look like your trying to ease the awkwardness of the moment? Also making her fell more validated, that would make you look lesser value?
Any ideas on this? I see some pros do it and some dont...
You should not try to make a girl laugh during pickup for a many reasons.
1- It makes you look like a 'try hard', since you are looking for a reaction, 2- Since laughter is high energy it is hard to stay at that level and you can easily lose that energy, 3- It is the wrong energy state for escalation since it releases tension. 4- the only good laughter you want from the girl is from the release of that sexual tension which you have created. There are other reasons as well but watch Tod's video for a better explanation.
So my Question......
What about you laughing at what the girl says?
Wouldnt that kill that tension as well, and make you look like your trying to ease the awkwardness of the moment? Also making her fell more validated, that would make you look lesser value?
Any ideas on this? I see some pros do it and some dont...