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I came to a realization and it's scary. I feel it...
You have met, perhaps know or known a guy who's just attractive to everyone. He's shining in a natural way that commands attention and you can just look at him and know that he's' a ladies man. He's comfortable and he's kind but he still live his own life for himself in his own way.
I have a great mentor, who's been on this journey for quite a while and have done crazy, crazy things and he's got a few close friends who were also on the same journey as him.
Yesterday night on my way to the bar, I dropped in the seven eleven to get some gum. Just outside I see a group of gorgeous girls in short skirts and high heels. One very beautiful blonde stopped in front of seven eleven while her friends motioned and told her to come with them as they were walking but she was in her own thoughts. She looked like a girl who just thought about something dirty.
Anyways I go in to get some gum and I see a close friend of my mentor. The very beautiful blonde girl came in and I saw they knew each other, she would rather have him take her somewhere than to go with her friends. He was making a little drama of the store not having the food he wanted in a lighthearted fun way.
Suddenly another two girls beautiful girls came over to him. He knew one of them and made fun of how tall her friend was.
I was in there for 3 minutes and all the people and the shop clerks just looked at him and the whole thing. He was really making a presence. I greeted him and went on my way and I myself couldn't stop but look back to see if he was coming with me.
As I was walking to the bar I felt this feeling of a vast amount of opportunities again. It's like I know only SO little compared to what is possible and this always happens when I'm with my mentor or I meet one of his close friends. It's a scary, uneasy feeling of the unknown and you have a sense of that it is right around the corner.
With all this said, people can only be positively respectfully perceived like that if they really are themselves. If you ask a natural he would say, "just be yourself man"
Do you really have to go through a goddamn rollercoaster with amazing heights and hellish lows?
Well.. I'm almost looking forward to get to the lows because I know that I have to go through uncomfortable situations before I can know more about myself and who I really am. In reality, our image of ourself is just pictures of an identity but is this really who we are or is it something our ego has given to us in order to protect itself? Is it not just the media who's given us an ideal of how a man should act?
I suggest everyone who is on this journey to question what is possible. Go through the world with a mindset of curiosity, do things with awareness and then question different things you notice about yourself and notice how the situation changes through the way you consciously choose to control yourself.
Besides that.. be strong & love without judgment
This is what I'm gonna do once again, (I fell for the trap of judging people subconsciously) and if you are applying it, feel free to post your experiences here
You have met, perhaps know or known a guy who's just attractive to everyone. He's shining in a natural way that commands attention and you can just look at him and know that he's' a ladies man. He's comfortable and he's kind but he still live his own life for himself in his own way.
I have a great mentor, who's been on this journey for quite a while and have done crazy, crazy things and he's got a few close friends who were also on the same journey as him.
Yesterday night on my way to the bar, I dropped in the seven eleven to get some gum. Just outside I see a group of gorgeous girls in short skirts and high heels. One very beautiful blonde stopped in front of seven eleven while her friends motioned and told her to come with them as they were walking but she was in her own thoughts. She looked like a girl who just thought about something dirty.
Anyways I go in to get some gum and I see a close friend of my mentor. The very beautiful blonde girl came in and I saw they knew each other, she would rather have him take her somewhere than to go with her friends. He was making a little drama of the store not having the food he wanted in a lighthearted fun way.
Suddenly another two girls beautiful girls came over to him. He knew one of them and made fun of how tall her friend was.
I was in there for 3 minutes and all the people and the shop clerks just looked at him and the whole thing. He was really making a presence. I greeted him and went on my way and I myself couldn't stop but look back to see if he was coming with me.
As I was walking to the bar I felt this feeling of a vast amount of opportunities again. It's like I know only SO little compared to what is possible and this always happens when I'm with my mentor or I meet one of his close friends. It's a scary, uneasy feeling of the unknown and you have a sense of that it is right around the corner.
With all this said, people can only be positively respectfully perceived like that if they really are themselves. If you ask a natural he would say, "just be yourself man"
Do you really have to go through a goddamn rollercoaster with amazing heights and hellish lows?
Well.. I'm almost looking forward to get to the lows because I know that I have to go through uncomfortable situations before I can know more about myself and who I really am. In reality, our image of ourself is just pictures of an identity but is this really who we are or is it something our ego has given to us in order to protect itself? Is it not just the media who's given us an ideal of how a man should act?
I suggest everyone who is on this journey to question what is possible. Go through the world with a mindset of curiosity, do things with awareness and then question different things you notice about yourself and notice how the situation changes through the way you consciously choose to control yourself.
Besides that.. be strong & love without judgment
This is what I'm gonna do once again, (I fell for the trap of judging people subconsciously) and if you are applying it, feel free to post your experiences here