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I recently had a speed dating event where I didn't really pick up any dates, but I learned that my communication and conversation leading skills need a lot of Polish and work, but when I told one of my friends this he started talking to me about something completely different, namely my fetish and fantasy for a woman to dominate me sexually.
He said this might be the problem that I wasn't getting any dates, because he said this said desire is the reason that I come across as unconfident, and that it's an indication of weakness in a man which I 100% disagree but this man would not let up. He said that if I feel I want to be dominated by a woman sexually I must be insecure about something. Everything he has said sounded really outrageous but it got me thinking. What does the seduction community think of this?
Do y'all think that a man that likes a woman to dominate him in bed is secretly a weak man or is it just sexual fantasy and nothing more?
Answers from experienced ppl also helps. I don't believe wanting a woman to dominate me in bed means I am a weak man I can stand my ground when need be. If u guys prefer to be the dominant ones when dealing with women that's okay, but I know most women like to be dominated by a guy, but there was nothing addressing a guy that likes being dominated by women.
He said this might be the problem that I wasn't getting any dates, because he said this said desire is the reason that I come across as unconfident, and that it's an indication of weakness in a man which I 100% disagree but this man would not let up. He said that if I feel I want to be dominated by a woman sexually I must be insecure about something. Everything he has said sounded really outrageous but it got me thinking. What does the seduction community think of this?
Do y'all think that a man that likes a woman to dominate him in bed is secretly a weak man or is it just sexual fantasy and nothing more?
Answers from experienced ppl also helps. I don't believe wanting a woman to dominate me in bed means I am a weak man I can stand my ground when need be. If u guys prefer to be the dominant ones when dealing with women that's okay, but I know most women like to be dominated by a guy, but there was nothing addressing a guy that likes being dominated by women.