Pushing for More Visual; How?

sam1792

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Males are more visual than females, most of the time. I am extremely visual, and I reflect that in bed. But how to push her boundaries?

I personally like mirrors and related things, at least pulling a girl to a bathroom. Sometimes, girls I bed are a bit reserved, with some doesn't like to look at a mirror when having sex or wanting a dimmer ambience. I tried suggesting video taping as well, but unless I make the girl extremely horny, that doesn't work much. I like to do pornographic things as well, like tit-fucking, very graphical sex positions, cumming on the face. These are also, unless I make them extremely horny to the point of desperation, is a bit difficult to pull off.

Any things I can try to incorporate this and make my girls comfortable with them? On the flip side, I don't have any issues with having rough sex with girls!
 

Regal Tiger

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In my experience it's all about building up to bigger and bigger moments. So instead of trying to cum on a girls face right away, cum on her ass. Get her to say that you own her, and then tell her where you want to cum.

Just like the escalation ladder to get to sex so to use the escalation ladder to get to bigger moments.
 

Sandman

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regal tiger is right, some girls are already freaks when you meet them and you can fuck them against the window, record them, cum on their faces etc. other girls require a bit more training so you start by giving them orgasms and dirty talk and ramp it up as things progress more, for example, you go from "I like fucking your wet pussy" to "you are my slut aren't you? What are you? tell me." stuff like that.

But ultimately you can get any girl to do any thing given enough time if you are good in bed and dominant. Just practice enough, road will become clear to you.

Couple of pointers: Dirty talk whatever you wanna do while she's orgasming or close to orgasm such as "would you like to have mirrors right now so that you can watch how I fuck your pretty little pussy and ram my cock into you" She'll usually say yes, you are planting that fantasy in her head so with time she'll want it on her own and not give you much resistance.

You can watch porn videos when you two are horny (being drunk or high also helps). You just watch together something which shows whatever you wanna do with her. So you wanna cum on her face, watch some porn where the guy cums on a girls face etc.
 
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