How far should you go?

Ross

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When a man has a fast, sexual relationship with women, he is perceived to be in power.The faster, the better, sexier, and more powerful the man is. Dominance during sex is important, as is the power of control over what happens. Resistance is met with most women, and if she isn't resisting your advances I would say that you aren't going far enough to establish dominance as her best lover.

Often times women will object at different points during sex. She may refuse to take off her panties, or resist you putting in your penis to begin the act of intercourse. Mild resistance is just part of the game. The point at which most men, and most of us, go to is the actual point of sexual intercourse and providing her with an orgasm and yourself with one. But I'm here to discuss a question which doesn't receive much time in our minds; how far should we go?

Most of us would agree that once we've gotten to penis in vagina sex that we have gone far enough. But most women have engaged in that. The typical order of things is as follows:

- Oral-to-Oral stimulation (kissing)
- Hand/oral stimulation of sexual organs
- Vaginal contact to point of orgasm

Most men stop at vaginal contact. I encourage you to go farther then women are willing to admit they've gone. That means go for kinky things that are generally considered taboo, but are still very much pleasurable and new experiences. And when should you do this? As soon as you possibly can. This means thinking outside of the box. Do things which are new to her that she can relate to you while still providing her most intense sexual experience yet.

Example:

Do some day gaming. Give off vibes of a sexual man, and use the things that you have learned on this site to get her interested and excited about you. Instead of taking the typical route of getting her number, convince her against all odds to come with you to a place where you can engage in some pleasure. She has work? Tell her that she can ditch work, as this moment comes only once in a lifetime. The key is not letting her go until you have escalated.

Once you have gotten her into the place where you wanted to have sex (say, a library's bathroom) start escalating towards the act while doing away with her resistance. The more resistance that you are able to overcome, you will be perceived as a more powerful man. This is the point of being a strong, sexual man; you overcome her objections and reward her with pleasure.

In regards to the actual act of sex, a few things you could go for that most women are opposed to that have the potential to feel great are anal, sex while under the influence of psychoactive substances, bondage, sex toys, BDSM, etc.

Key to Making It All Work

In order to make this work, you need to keep in mind that you have to be able to make these things pleasurable to women. If you are able to convince her to have outdoor sex while smoking ganja and doing some anal, then make it pleasurable. Make sure everything is well lubricated, give her an intense sexual experience, and leave her wanting more. She'll look forward to new things that you suggest.

The ability to accomplish these three steps will have her craving you sexually as the best partner she's been with:
1) Overcoming her resistance to something she has never done before or hasn't enjoyed before, the more things in the shortest amount of time the better
2) Giving her intense pleasure while performing these acts, more than she has experienced before
3) Leaving her with no regrets about it

That will leave you as a sexually in charge man. Master the technique, have her try new things, and she will look back on you as her best lover ever.
 
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