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I am experiencing something perhaps not so peculiar but I felt the need to ask for advice considering my circumstances.
I have not had sex for 4 years+ until recently. I have been sleeping with a woman who agreed to teach me about sex and I have been progressing rapidly - faster than either of us have expected. However, she says there is one fellow is significantly better than me.
No problem, initially. It is as expected. People with more practice will be better and she has already experessed that I've in a couple times of having sex improved past everyone else she's had relations with except this one fellow.
Recently, however, she's been telling me how he possesses a phallus bigger than mine (I'm out of shape so I'm not optimal I guess is the right word); he's better at me at sex: all in the guise of helping me become better, right? Only it doesn't feel that way. Today she said she hasn't been horny recently while Facetiming me (she called me) and then lied and said she doesn't know why. I told her I knew she was lying and that I did not appreciate her not just saying it's because she saw him recently. She persisted. Afterwards she texted me the truth - which was obvious.
She keeps rubbing this in and I don't know what to do besides just get better and better at sex (she says the main thing is that I'm not as sensual as him?)
Unfornately, also and I don't understand why, a part of myself feels upset about this.
It feels like she's trying to intentionally hurt me while I've just been trying to get better.
Will you guys give me some much needed advice to get through this as I attempt to become a better and more mature lover and man?
Thanks a lot. I feel terrible right now..
I have not had sex for 4 years+ until recently. I have been sleeping with a woman who agreed to teach me about sex and I have been progressing rapidly - faster than either of us have expected. However, she says there is one fellow is significantly better than me.
No problem, initially. It is as expected. People with more practice will be better and she has already experessed that I've in a couple times of having sex improved past everyone else she's had relations with except this one fellow.
Recently, however, she's been telling me how he possesses a phallus bigger than mine (I'm out of shape so I'm not optimal I guess is the right word); he's better at me at sex: all in the guise of helping me become better, right? Only it doesn't feel that way. Today she said she hasn't been horny recently while Facetiming me (she called me) and then lied and said she doesn't know why. I told her I knew she was lying and that I did not appreciate her not just saying it's because she saw him recently. She persisted. Afterwards she texted me the truth - which was obvious.
She keeps rubbing this in and I don't know what to do besides just get better and better at sex (she says the main thing is that I'm not as sensual as him?)
Unfornately, also and I don't understand why, a part of myself feels upset about this.
It feels like she's trying to intentionally hurt me while I've just been trying to get better.
Will you guys give me some much needed advice to get through this as I attempt to become a better and more mature lover and man?
Thanks a lot. I feel terrible right now..