Screening for sexual compatibility before sex

Hey guys,

I'm just wondering how do you screen for girl's sex drive and sexual experience before you have sex with her?

The reason I ask is because I recently slept with a girl who I thought would be great in bed but the whole experience turned out to be average for me and slightly disappointing if I'm being honest. My sex drive was higher compared to hers, so she got sore if I went for too long and she wanted me to stop. Her blowjob is pretty terrible that it hurts me and she also doesn't like to give them. Anyway, the sexual chemistry wasn't that great, but it's not all her fault. I didn't stimulate her clit the way she wanted to either and couldn't get hard the next morning LOL. After sex, we talked about our past sex experience briefly and she told me she had 4 or 5 partners before, which I found hard to believe because she should be better than this lol. I wish I knew these things beforehand, like how much she loves sex..etc. and would like to avoid a similar situation in the future!

If anyone has any experience with this, I would love to hear it!

Cheers

Smith,

The best way to screen for her sex drive is to have sex with her and find out!

That aside, in general, a girl who is more mellow and shy will generally be more calm in the bedroom. I know there's the whole "if she's a bookworm, she's probably a freak!" rumor that goes around, but I've found that women mostly align their sex with their personalities. So, (unfortunately), it usually means the "crazy" girls are the ones who will give you the "crazy" sex. It's within the domain of their personalities.

There's obviously varying degrees for each girl and how "crazy" her personality is, but it's really hard to tell until you sleep with her and see how wild she gets. Her sex drive is also influenced by her prior sexual experience, and, the good news for you is, it can still be influenced by newer experiences. So if you want a girl to be more of a "freak" in the bed, you can do things to influence this. You can talk dirty to her and tell her to do dirty things to you (in a sexy way) as well as do more external things such as get her to watch porn and become more comfortable with the idea of getting a little more crazy in the bedroom.

Also, partner count has nothing to do with how good the sex will be with a girl. Some of the girls I've known with the highest partner counts are just corpses in the bedroom, and it's often because all of their partners were just dominant males who just stuck their penis in the girl, pumped, and then dumped. So with those prior experiences, she hasn't really learned much to become more proactive and figures sex is really just about her laying there and letting the guy do his thing.

- Franco

There's a book on the Internet called "The Blowjob Bible" which might be worth a look if you want to teach her. Umm I guess this would only be worth doing if both of your investment levels are quite high, however an opportunity to give a girl orders in the bedroom is always a good thing as it builds compliance and puts you in control. I also find if I am having erection issues, dialing up the dominance helps enormously.
Ray