if condoms are gay... And I stick my penis in one... Does that make me...?
I'm a fan of Trojan thins, but I've noticed that if I'm having a lot of sex (using a lot of condoms) my penis complains about the lube. It smells gross and synthetic which bothers me a bit.
I've recently discovered there are many condom companies that cater to health nuts like me, and make condoms free of chemicals and harmful stuff.
I haven't tried any out just yet, but here is a list of some. Whole Foods supposedly carries them, but my local store doesn't
http://gentleworld.org/are-your-condoms-vegan/
Ignore the vegan part, the point is they're free of nasty shit.
Many condom brands offer "thin" versions which help you to feel the warm wet goodness that you'll be slippin' around in. If you aren't already using a thin condom see if using one will help you out.
Side note* Make sure you are wearing the right size condom. I've heard the majority of men don't use the right size of condom.Don't be afraid to test out sizes bigger or smaller.
SideSidenote* Are you sure the condom is to blame? They may be other factors that can inhibit your ability to come.