Observations  She needs to see how you handle her rejection

Hi,

I noted from a few guys in their field reports who along the lines noted that some girls they got laid from were girls who were not all into them, at first.

Reasons i learn, it might not be accurate but for me, how i see it.

1) The other guy she's seeing is terrible
2) You were outcome independent about her
3) The "Stalker" factor

Zac

This is a great observation, Zac. It's kind of amazing how much women can go from "cold" to "super, incredibly, ultra warm" if they reject you and you take it in stride and act like it's no big deal and aren't worried about it.

Most of the time, when you get rejected and you're cool about it, it's just a rejection and doesn't go anywhere... but there are those times when you end up running into the girl later, or she even chases you down herself, and it's just easy from that point on.

Chase

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