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I found something among people i know of who were bitter with women.
They were not really rejected by women, In fact some of them actually had girlfriends in high school. But they tend to self sabotage themselves. Some of them get better with women after sabotaging their first relationship, while others tend to never recover at all. There's a common pattern i learn when i mix with this guys.
1) Your mother was not really good at being affectionate due to her own parents
2) Your father was divorced or wasn't around, much.
And yes, Touching is very important to women, children, and you too. Men needs touch too. So pls don't underestimate that touching means "feminine", and that you have to be a "man". You might just overlook things like here. and perhaps lacking of touch in your family when you were young made you passive aggressive today, self sabotage relationships because your parents weren't affectionate to you.
It's unfortunate but it's good to learn to not let this pass on to the next generation, if you want to have kids. Getting married or not, that's your decision.
Zac
They were not really rejected by women, In fact some of them actually had girlfriends in high school. But they tend to self sabotage themselves. Some of them get better with women after sabotaging their first relationship, while others tend to never recover at all. There's a common pattern i learn when i mix with this guys.
1) Your mother was not really good at being affectionate due to her own parents
2) Your father was divorced or wasn't around, much.
And yes, Touching is very important to women, children, and you too. Men needs touch too. So pls don't underestimate that touching means "feminine", and that you have to be a "man". You might just overlook things like here. and perhaps lacking of touch in your family when you were young made you passive aggressive today, self sabotage relationships because your parents weren't affectionate to you.
It's unfortunate but it's good to learn to not let this pass on to the next generation, if you want to have kids. Getting married or not, that's your decision.
Zac
