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- Sep 12, 2013
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Since joining okcupid, I have been lining up 5 or 6 dates a week, but it rarely goes beyond the 2nd date with any given girl, even when my fundamentals seem to be down and we relate and the conversation flows well. The thing that feels wrong to me is the absence of touch, which is hard to accomplish when you're on opposite ends of the table at a restaurant or coffee shop.
I generally hug at ghe end and sometimes the beginning of the date depending on the split-second vibe I get from the girl. Is this right or what are suggestions re: kino on a first date from online?
I live a fair drive from any restaurant in the city and the girls I date tend to be conservative or feminist types so I don't push for a post-date meeting at my place.
What are some good alternative first dates that allow closeness and touching without being overly complicated or costly. Platonic feeling dinner dates at 50 dollars each (I take the traditional route and pay for the 1st date, just cause I havent found a way of suggesting we split it where I dont feel like Im coming off as cheap) no longer seem practical or conducive to seduction.
I generally hug at ghe end and sometimes the beginning of the date depending on the split-second vibe I get from the girl. Is this right or what are suggestions re: kino on a first date from online?
I live a fair drive from any restaurant in the city and the girls I date tend to be conservative or feminist types so I don't push for a post-date meeting at my place.
What are some good alternative first dates that allow closeness and touching without being overly complicated or costly. Platonic feeling dinner dates at 50 dollars each (I take the traditional route and pay for the 1st date, just cause I havent found a way of suggesting we split it where I dont feel like Im coming off as cheap) no longer seem practical or conducive to seduction.