I’ve noticed , that when I actively think about or try to implement “game” or when I’m focused on the fact that I want a girl to be attracted to me I end up not having the results I want and my interactions are never as fluid and natural and as good when I’m just being myself.
When I’m just being me , in me with no agendas , and I’m socialising and enjoying conversations for their own sake I seem to draw people to me and girls that I have no intention of becoming intimate with whether it’s because they are taken already or there aren’t my type etc.. I notice show signs of being attracted to me.
It’s quite frustrating because it seems like I naturally have attractive traits and habits , but when I have an interest in someone romantically I sometimes alter that natural behaviour and over analyse. Any tips to correct this?
When I’m just being me , in me with no agendas , and I’m socialising and enjoying conversations for their own sake I seem to draw people to me and girls that I have no intention of becoming intimate with whether it’s because they are taken already or there aren’t my type etc.. I notice show signs of being attracted to me.
It’s quite frustrating because it seems like I naturally have attractive traits and habits , but when I have an interest in someone romantically I sometimes alter that natural behaviour and over analyse. Any tips to correct this?