Ohdude said:
Fuck This said:
if a guy says you are smooth he is usually sincere. when it comes to deep diving girls, I like asking open ended questions.
Instead of "Where do you live" I ask "where do you call "home""
Instead of "what do you like to do?" I ask , "If you were to become famous for one thing, what would it be or what would you like it to be?"
Instead of "Do you have any brothers or sisters" i say "Tell me about your family"
This gives a confident woman an opportunity to qualify herself to me in what she thinks is an attractive manner. It tells me a lot about her values.
So I asked her the fame questiom and she said after some thought, "I dont know, what about you?" And I mentioned a few other answers that I had got previously without directly answering her question.
I'm tempted to message her, tell her my answer on facebook messenger and ask her again.
What's a good answer? Or is this personal to me?
Sorry, dude don't do that.
What I've learned from talking to girls via messenger, texting, and other social media platforms, it doesn't end well. They could talk to you for hours, but then you're just gonna be relegated to the friend zone.
See her in person, and ask her that question.
If she says she doesn't know,
then ask her what her dream job would be like. I don't like the fame question, because it makes her think hard. Give her options to make it easier for her to broach the topic. What if she had a rough day and her mental process is working as well? Or she just got caught off-guard?