- Joined
- May 25, 2019
- Messages
- 129
Okay, so I've been reading some GC articles and there was one (sorry, couldn't find the link) where it says an escalation window is when a woman asks you where you live.
I've had this happen twice and I simply responded by explaining where my house is, physically. The thing is, this question came very early in the interaction on both counts.
In one interaction, I cold approached during day game and the woman asked it within 5 or 10 minutes or so. I told her I live just around the corner over there. Then I proceeded by asking her some questions and eventually asked her number, but she said she wasn't available because she would be traveling that week and then returning home. I have a feeling I could've had sex with her really quickly because she was just staying in the country for a week (but the order seems all wrong; I found that out only later). Should I have told her "I live close by, let me show you"? I have a feeling that would be a bit weird and too forward.
With the other woman, we were just chatting (I wasn't even trying to pick her up) at a social event. Later on the evening, she started to give me some incidental touches, so I don't really know the significance of the question. Was it just a way of her to indicate interest (her seeding the pull ahead of time)? At the time she asked, I explained where it was, explaining it was close to some landmark or other in the city. Then I asked her where she lived and just said I knew where it was and liked the market there.
I have this strong feeling that if I can make a few minor tweaks, I can be totally killing it with the ladies. I just got to figure out the basics!
I've had this happen twice and I simply responded by explaining where my house is, physically. The thing is, this question came very early in the interaction on both counts.
In one interaction, I cold approached during day game and the woman asked it within 5 or 10 minutes or so. I told her I live just around the corner over there. Then I proceeded by asking her some questions and eventually asked her number, but she said she wasn't available because she would be traveling that week and then returning home. I have a feeling I could've had sex with her really quickly because she was just staying in the country for a week (but the order seems all wrong; I found that out only later). Should I have told her "I live close by, let me show you"? I have a feeling that would be a bit weird and too forward.
With the other woman, we were just chatting (I wasn't even trying to pick her up) at a social event. Later on the evening, she started to give me some incidental touches, so I don't really know the significance of the question. Was it just a way of her to indicate interest (her seeding the pull ahead of time)? At the time she asked, I explained where it was, explaining it was close to some landmark or other in the city. Then I asked her where she lived and just said I knew where it was and liked the market there.
I have this strong feeling that if I can make a few minor tweaks, I can be totally killing it with the ladies. I just got to figure out the basics!