So I’ve been going out with a girl for 5 months. We do work together and today she texted that we needed a break. It was my fault I was being to flirty with her at work lately and some coworkers have been noticing and it didn’t help that a gay coworker saw us having lunch and spreed the rumor even more last week. Before I was really cold I would only text her to go out and be passionate with her when we went out and back to cold after. But then she got transferred to a desk next to me and we both became extremely flirty.
So today She texted we need to talk later
Me -yeah (since we had planned a road trip)
Her - not on the phone
Me - are you free for coffee tomorrow
Her - no
Me - when are you free
Her - I didnt want to bug you
Me - ok whenever
Her - I don’t like how people are talking about us lately. Ever since they saw us having lunch and you coming to my desk.
Me -yeah I noticed it aswell that’s why I don’t come over anymore
Her - well you keep coming over and so do I. I just feel like we need a break from each other.
Me - ok I feel you
Her - trust me I’m sad about it
I left it at that
I’ve really gotten to like this girl I’m not in love but I do like her. I won’t chase her but since we work together it’s going to be hard to go MIA on her. How is the best was to handle this I want to give it six weeks before I try to ping her and see where it goes. Any suggestions on how to handle this. I do like her but there’s more girls and I’m dating a couple girls right know
So today She texted we need to talk later
Me -yeah (since we had planned a road trip)
Her - not on the phone
Me - are you free for coffee tomorrow
Her - no
Me - when are you free
Her - I didnt want to bug you
Me - ok whenever
Her - I don’t like how people are talking about us lately. Ever since they saw us having lunch and you coming to my desk.
Me -yeah I noticed it aswell that’s why I don’t come over anymore
Her - well you keep coming over and so do I. I just feel like we need a break from each other.
Me - ok I feel you
Her - trust me I’m sad about it
I left it at that
I’ve really gotten to like this girl I’m not in love but I do like her. I won’t chase her but since we work together it’s going to be hard to go MIA on her. How is the best was to handle this I want to give it six weeks before I try to ping her and see where it goes. Any suggestions on how to handle this. I do like her but there’s more girls and I’m dating a couple girls right know