Humanoutofelement said:
You're right, I'm in the process of doing something about that. I really have no good memories in this town anyway, no real reason to stay here outside of my parents residing here. Every job I've had in this town has been terrible with low pay, so I'm real eager to get out.
Yesterday I went out with a girl from POF online and the date was terrible. Her pics online were kind of cute, but when she showed up I knew I was instantly unattracted to her from how fat she was. Plus her attitude and the way she dressed (all black everything), showed that she gave no fucks. She started the date off by telling me she thought I was autistic and was on her phone for a lot of the "date". Then she cut the "date" short halfway through so she could help jump her cousins car lol. To be honest, I'm glad because it was f'n awful.
That experience, the girl in my other topic giving me the cold shoulder, and girls in general not responding to my messages online, even if they message me first kind of makes me mad. I'm gonna take a few days break from this stuff to cool off.
Glad to hear you are willing to move, thats the biggest return on investment thing you can do
It really does affect game being in a tiny place
You put any good seducer in a 75 000 person town and they'll get depressed too
Unless its 75 000 pretty girls, then... its ok... don't move in that case
Hope the date went/goes ok
The trick on dates is girls are scoping out if you have weird reactions, so be natural
Interact and play with her
Just don't go overboard with it and pull yourself up a few times
Bring up conversations on what she likes, then discuss those things then discuss what she likes in men relating back to the things she said about her other interests
Try to get where she is at and provide some confidence boosting eye contact and stuff to smile about so she feels good
Then get her to show you her hand somehow, and either look at her heart line and be like "see look youve got a big heart youll be ok i think" or something else disarming, and start touching a little bit so you make it comfy
Give her hugs at moments she needs em or it makes sense
Its like trailers or previews to how itd feel to touch you more
Put energy into all the touches you do and make em feel great