Hello
A few weeks ago I moved to Japan(Tokyo) and I am still here for a time. Coming from North Africa which conservative society and fucked up logistics ( and many other reasons that also depend on me) make it very hard to get intimate with Girls. I decided to use this opportunity to lose my V Card.
So would need your advice for about the best way to do it!
Thanks to Colt Williams Silly Tinder Line and Girls Chase texting process, I am getting Tinder dates pretty easily(easier than I expected to be honest).
However, I am still confused about the best dating process to use in order to lose that VCard. One date or several dates?
In his webiste GoodLookingLooser gives a very reasonable guide where he advocates an exposure therapy approach. To go online dating and spread the courtship on several dates (like compression dating)going on each one further into intimacy until you get intimate with the girl.
Like this
I initially wanted to follow this guide. The problem is that even if the advice sounds reasonable and doable I have some issues with it.
1st reason: It contradicts much advice in GC and so far I find GC idea still the most solid and true.
-GC Don't recommend that Virgin should really proceed differently.
-GC recommend getting intimate with girls on one date. This approach has been also recommended for inexperienced guys and virgins by some senior members like Seppuku advocating that it will give less chance to mess up.
Link: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=18237#p91481
-Even for Multiple-Date and compression dates, GC doesn't recommend so many dates and also to not kiss at the end of the dates.
Second reason: In a busy city like Tokyo, It's hard to schedule the first and even harder for the second.
So I don't really know how to proceed. One date? Multiple date GC ways? or still going progressively like GLL?
I will finish with a Good News. All the girls I went on the first date so far (4) all want to see me for a second.
Waiting for your wisdom. Thank you!
A few weeks ago I moved to Japan(Tokyo) and I am still here for a time. Coming from North Africa which conservative society and fucked up logistics ( and many other reasons that also depend on me) make it very hard to get intimate with Girls. I decided to use this opportunity to lose my V Card.
So would need your advice for about the best way to do it!
Thanks to Colt Williams Silly Tinder Line and Girls Chase texting process, I am getting Tinder dates pretty easily(easier than I expected to be honest).
However, I am still confused about the best dating process to use in order to lose that VCard. One date or several dates?
In his webiste GoodLookingLooser gives a very reasonable guide where he advocates an exposure therapy approach. To go online dating and spread the courtship on several dates (like compression dating)going on each one further into intimacy until you get intimate with the girl.
Like this
Source: How to Lose Your VirginityIn general, this is what we are shooting for -
1st meet up - Meet the girl
2nd date - Kiss the girl
3rd date - Mess around with the girl (clothing on, usually)
4th date - Get naked with the girl and mess around
5th date - Get naked with the girl (have sex - if you haven't yet)
6th date - Repeat/see 5th date
Somewhere between date 4 and 8 is when you will have sex.
By Date #6, the vast majority of girls will be expecting it.
I initially wanted to follow this guide. The problem is that even if the advice sounds reasonable and doable I have some issues with it.
1st reason: It contradicts much advice in GC and so far I find GC idea still the most solid and true.
-GC Don't recommend that Virgin should really proceed differently.
Source: https://www.girlschase.com/content/if-you-re-male-virgin-should-you-tell-her-or-notDo not worry about what you need to do ‘differently’. All three of those options starts off with the assumption that you may be an inexperienced virgin. And proceeds from there. There’s plenty of advanced material for the guys who want it in both the quiz and the book/package... But I built all three to work even if you haven’t had your first date or your first kiss yet.
Read the articles and get the right mindsets in your head.
Then, take on an action plan that will get you out there, get you to talk to girls, and put women in your bed.
-GC recommend getting intimate with girls on one date. This approach has been also recommended for inexperienced guys and virgins by some senior members like Seppuku advocating that it will give less chance to mess up.
Link: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=18237#p91481
-Even for Multiple-Date and compression dates, GC doesn't recommend so many dates and also to not kiss at the end of the dates.
Second reason: In a busy city like Tokyo, It's hard to schedule the first and even harder for the second.
So I don't really know how to proceed. One date? Multiple date GC ways? or still going progressively like GLL?
I will finish with a Good News. All the girls I went on the first date so far (4) all want to see me for a second.
Waiting for your wisdom. Thank you!