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Easy tip for staying in control of conversations:
Ever find yourself in a conversation where it seems like it's quickly springing out of control? The girl's grilling you, and you're getting hit with tough questions you're not sure how to answer. Totally sucks, right?
The way around this is simple: ask a clarifying question, or even challenge her back on it.
Looks like this:
Here's another one:
And another:
By challenging women back, you regain your balance and control of the conversation and, when being asked a tough question, you also give yourself time to think.
Get used to challenging back as an automatic response when girls hit you with tough questions. It makes life a lot easier.
Best,
Chase
Ever find yourself in a conversation where it seems like it's quickly springing out of control? The girl's grilling you, and you're getting hit with tough questions you're not sure how to answer. Totally sucks, right?
The way around this is simple: ask a clarifying question, or even challenge her back on it.
Looks like this:
- Girl: Do you think it matters how many guys a girl's slept with?
You: Uh... why are you asking me this? Trying to find out if you're eligible to be my girlfriend or not?
Here's another one:
- Girl: Do you ALWAYS wear hats?
You: Do you LIKE men with hats?
And another:
- Girl: I don't think it's cool if men don't pay for women's drinks.
You: What do you think men SHOULD do?
Girl: They should pay.
You: I see. And what should women do in return?
By challenging women back, you regain your balance and control of the conversation and, when being asked a tough question, you also give yourself time to think.
Get used to challenging back as an automatic response when girls hit you with tough questions. It makes life a lot easier.
Best,
Chase