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- Feb 14, 2016
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So over the past couple weeks, i have been getting this hunch my girlfriend is cheating on me. She hasn't not given me any reasons except that she went to bed early(About 10 PM even though it has been a test week and she claimed to be really tired) two nights last week and one in this week. After it started to happen I began overanalyzing things she's been saying and doing and it has really been getting to me. Based on the fact that no other signs are present I figure it's all in my head but I would like to listen to other's input on the matter. Also, i have been going through extreme hardships in my life(No job and family issues) so my confidence has taken a huge hit. That's where I figure it's all coming from. Despite that, i've done my best to not let it affect my relationship with her. I have been leading and being dominant, providing her with security and such as best as I can. She has shown no other signs, has not been distant and secretive and such. I know that if I show weakness or insecurity if I start asking questions, pointing fingers and stalking her for no reason then I will certainly be cheated on. What do you guys think of this?