I'm married, want to stay married, but also want to fool around. My wife ~does~ fool around a bit and I'm okay with it, but she's told me that she can't handle it if I do, so if I do, I'd better not let her find out. Double-standard? Totally. Don't bother getting into that with me, though.
What I want to know is this: through social activities, I have a lot of opportunities to interact with married women, and often am able to make casual friendships and get their IMS numbers. A lot of them put out nice vibes, but so far, none has gone anywhere - except when they were already a former lover. A couple of them I know have husbands who are away on business a lot and probably having their own little illicit romantic adventures. So the question: how exactly do I get across that I'd like to make our friendship more than just chatting at the park or sending text messages? It's an important question, because it isn't just an issue of being rebuffed. If I come on to the wrong woman, I could make myself the subject of gossip that could easily find its way back to my wife.
What I want to know is this: through social activities, I have a lot of opportunities to interact with married women, and often am able to make casual friendships and get their IMS numbers. A lot of them put out nice vibes, but so far, none has gone anywhere - except when they were already a former lover. A couple of them I know have husbands who are away on business a lot and probably having their own little illicit romantic adventures. So the question: how exactly do I get across that I'd like to make our friendship more than just chatting at the park or sending text messages? It's an important question, because it isn't just an issue of being rebuffed. If I come on to the wrong woman, I could make myself the subject of gossip that could easily find its way back to my wife.