Koeramco's Journal

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Hey There,

A bit about me. I'm a 22 year old Mexican American and I've been reading Girls chase for about a year and two months and have started reading the forum for about 3 months. Good stuff :) . I recently bought the Girls Chase mastery package. I've been doing research at a university, I graduated from, for the past year and did some cold approaching at said university between late September to early December. I did about about 80 approaches somewhat following the newbie assignment but was half assing alot of the approaches. I realized this was due to nervousness and a lack of desire for women stemming from mainly porn addiction. Since December I've mainly been working on fundamentals and getting over my addiction. I've gone to several college parties since then but have only worked on my goals at some of the parties. I'm not very sexually experienced. The only experience I've had was over a year ago when this college chick invited me to a party at her place, I set chase frames on her and used build up humor on her friends so they wouldn't cockblock and managed to take her to bed but suffered performance issues. Other than that not very experienced.

Saturday June 8th,2014

I went to a college party. My 3 goals were to 1. Tease girls with wit chase frames,sexual frames and build up humor. 2. work on genuine compliment. 3. manage conversational flow . At the start of the party I was mainly talking to friends and bros trying to build up social momentum. Side note: I joined a brotherhood during my last year at university. We don't consider ourselves a fraternity but they are similar. I had a bit of alcohol and weed not to much since it does affect your game. I teased all the girls I interacted with in some way. This girl approached me and some bros and I decided to use this as an opportunity to practice some of my goals. I managed to tease her a bit and use build up humor. She was talking to me and a couple of my bros and offered weed. I assumed that she was attracted but since we were all smoking week I didn't feel like moving her.

So the party is dying and I haven't approached any girls so I say screw it I'm going to approach at least one girl. I spot this East African girl(let's call her EA) and I open with: "Hey are you from East Africa?". She says she is of East African descent. I compliment her on this and then I begin to sexually tease her. She compliments me. It's going decent and then one of my bros starts talking to her as well. I stay calm and chill and continue with the repartee. She asks for the time and I whip out my phone get her number and suggest we grab a coffee in the upcoming week. Due to logistics I exit the conversation. My bro talks to her again and he goes to me says he build me up and then she calls me over. I tease her more and then I missed the cue that she wanted me to kiss her. She says" Oh we're not going to kiss" and I said "Not here later". I feel like auto rejects at this point. I leave but first touch her shoulder and say " later". Party ends I go home.

The next day I text her:

"Hey EA it's Koeramco it was nice meeting you yesterday :). Let's grab a coffee sometime soon. What's your schedule like this week? "

She replies: "Hey Koeramco it was great meeting you too"

Since she didn't give me any times and I didn't want to chase I did not reply. I'm thankful for the interaction I learned alot. Takeaways: Assume attraction, have specific goals that you can work on, law of asymmetrical returns , action always better than inaction, Teasing is fun :).
Thanks for reading, hope you enjoyed it, and any feedback is welcomed :)
 
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