I've looked over the pickings here, and I'm going to roll my intro, newbie assignment, and ongoing journal all into one, I think.
Introduction:
Hello, dear reader, I am Haraklus. I'm a 26-year-old who has always considered himself at least somewhat okay with women. Mostly, they notice me, and I occasionally make a bold move and get together with one. I fumble a lot more often than not, I think, and it's something that I want to get down pat. I like the vibe of this place compared to other explicitly "PUA" sites -- I think I would prefer to grow into the title of "seducer" over "pickup artist".
I've been lurking here for awhile, reading for some time, and I've decided to come out of the woodwork and try to really step up my game.
Experience with women:
Fastest lay was after 3 dates, although it was actually me that turned sex down on the 1st date.
Fastest almost-lay was the day after I met a girl, I invited her to get icecream, we went to my place afterwards and I fingered her and she gave me a blowjob. Turns out she was a virgin and hadn't done any of that with a guy before, so I didn't feel awful. We parted ways before she "gave it up", although the last time we spoke she said she was ready to.
My fundamentals:
Regarding sexy vibe, posture, and so on...those are harder to pin down. I think I do have the stuff, but it's a lot less consistent. Definitely something I need to look into.
My goals:
Introduction:
Hello, dear reader, I am Haraklus. I'm a 26-year-old who has always considered himself at least somewhat okay with women. Mostly, they notice me, and I occasionally make a bold move and get together with one. I fumble a lot more often than not, I think, and it's something that I want to get down pat. I like the vibe of this place compared to other explicitly "PUA" sites -- I think I would prefer to grow into the title of "seducer" over "pickup artist".
I've been lurking here for awhile, reading for some time, and I've decided to come out of the woodwork and try to really step up my game.
Experience with women:
- A total of 7 sexual partners.
- 2 LTRs (LONG term relationships, 4+ years each)
- 1 Threesome with a sort-of LTR and her friend
Fastest lay was after 3 dates, although it was actually me that turned sex down on the 1st date.
Fastest almost-lay was the day after I met a girl, I invited her to get icecream, we went to my place afterwards and I fingered her and she gave me a blowjob. Turns out she was a virgin and hadn't done any of that with a guy before, so I didn't feel awful. We parted ways before she "gave it up", although the last time we spoke she said she was ready to.
My fundamentals:
- 6'2"
- Around 15% bodyfat at present
- 2ish months into a very intensive lifting program. I'm stronger than 90% of the men I meet, easily.
- Good hairstyle
- Good facial hair
- Decent style -- sort of a hipster-business casual hybrid involving witty or brazen graphic tees hidden under blazers
- Nearly perfectly clear skin, nearly perfect teeth. Working on both, should actually be done within the month.
Regarding sexy vibe, posture, and so on...those are harder to pin down. I think I do have the stuff, but it's a lot less consistent. Definitely something I need to look into.
My goals:
- Learn to meet women without social context.
- Move faster -- same night lays / first date sex should be the norm rather than the exception.
- Create a sexy, warm, alluring vibe that draws women in.
- Become more bold and risk-taking.
- Sweat some blood and shed some tears.
- Have some fun.