Hello, you can call me D.
I am 18 and am just starting out trying Chase's stuff. Been doing so for about a month or two.
The only place I have tried day gaming are the streets. I like it because I just walk up and down the same streets and there are always women walking alone.
Anyways, I have not gotten a number from a random girl yet but that is the goal right now.
My goal is to go out 3-4 times a week and approach at least 8 women on those days.
My goal is to have a better opener and create sexual tension, especially sexual tension. If you guys could give me tips on creating sexual tension and just tips in general, it would be greatly appreciated.
June 26
*did 6-8 approaches today, couldn't remember all of them really but got rejected every time. I'll list everything I can remember.
1. Brunette girl - mid twenties
Pre-opened her, said: "Hi, I just saw you walking here, and I just had to say, you're the prettiest girl I've seen all day. My name's Darren."
Her: *smiled* "My name's _______"
Me: "Nice to meet you _______ "*put out my hand*, "air handshake"
Her: *smiled, returned air handshake* "You've got quite a lot of game for someone your age."
Me: (no girls ever complimented me before so this sorta took me by surprise hahahaha) "Thanks" (I should've said something like, "thats what they all say")
Her: "You've got a lot of confidence, that will do you well, but what I think you should do is be more sincere with your opener."
Me: "Hmm" (here I should have combined "hmm" with hand on my chin, to make it look like im thinking and use more body language) "Like, what do you mean, by more sincere?"
Her: "Well, you should simplify it, like just say something like, 'you're pretty, can I talk to you?'
Me: "Thanks! You know quite a lot, huh?" (here, I should've combined this sentence with a skeptical look)
Her: "Yeah, I tutor my guy friends sometimes hahaha"
(here, I should've said something sexual or something like frame her as a chaser, but I couldn't think of anything, what would you guys say?)
Her: "Sometimes, guys are bad with their openers, like they'll try to be mean or tease too much."
Me: "You mean saying something like, 'wow, thats a lot of shopping bags, are you sure you left clothes for everyone else?'"
Her: *laughs super hard*
Her: "No, not like that, thats actually good"
Me: "So, I should use that sometime?"
Her: "Hahahaha, yes!"
Me: "Okay, well thanks, for giving me the advice, I appreciate it, enjoy the rest of your day!"
*I didn't close, because of her response ("you have good game for someone as young as you" - sorta means i'm too young?)
2. Brunette girl - late twenties
Pre-opened her, "Hi, I just saw you walking here, and I just thought to myself, wow, what a pretty girl."
Me: My names Darren *shake her hand*
Her: "Thanks, I'm ___________"
Me: "So, what are you up to today ______?"
Her: "I just got off of work and now I'm just deciding whether I should get a coffee or not"
Me: "We should definitely get a coffee" (I should've not had said this, hahahaha, makes me reek of desperation)
Her: *awkwardly "Well, I was just gonna get one and leave" *doesn't go into coffee store anymore, continues walking*
Me: "So, what's work?
Her: "I don't give random pieces of information out to strangers."
Me: "But, how are we supposed to get past being strangers, if you don't?"
Her: "Who says I want to get past being strangers?"
Me: "Well, how about if I tell you a piece of info from my life? Then it would be like a mutual transference."
Her: "Um no..."
Me: "Okay, nice meeting you, bye!"
Holy fuck that took a lot of time to write. I'm going to write one or two more later.
I am 18 and am just starting out trying Chase's stuff. Been doing so for about a month or two.
The only place I have tried day gaming are the streets. I like it because I just walk up and down the same streets and there are always women walking alone.
Anyways, I have not gotten a number from a random girl yet but that is the goal right now.
My goal is to go out 3-4 times a week and approach at least 8 women on those days.
My goal is to have a better opener and create sexual tension, especially sexual tension. If you guys could give me tips on creating sexual tension and just tips in general, it would be greatly appreciated.
June 26
*did 6-8 approaches today, couldn't remember all of them really but got rejected every time. I'll list everything I can remember.
1. Brunette girl - mid twenties
Pre-opened her, said: "Hi, I just saw you walking here, and I just had to say, you're the prettiest girl I've seen all day. My name's Darren."
Her: *smiled* "My name's _______"
Me: "Nice to meet you _______ "*put out my hand*, "air handshake"
Her: *smiled, returned air handshake* "You've got quite a lot of game for someone your age."
Me: (no girls ever complimented me before so this sorta took me by surprise hahahaha) "Thanks" (I should've said something like, "thats what they all say")
Her: "You've got a lot of confidence, that will do you well, but what I think you should do is be more sincere with your opener."
Me: "Hmm" (here I should have combined "hmm" with hand on my chin, to make it look like im thinking and use more body language) "Like, what do you mean, by more sincere?"
Her: "Well, you should simplify it, like just say something like, 'you're pretty, can I talk to you?'
Me: "Thanks! You know quite a lot, huh?" (here, I should've combined this sentence with a skeptical look)
Her: "Yeah, I tutor my guy friends sometimes hahaha"
(here, I should've said something sexual or something like frame her as a chaser, but I couldn't think of anything, what would you guys say?)
Her: "Sometimes, guys are bad with their openers, like they'll try to be mean or tease too much."
Me: "You mean saying something like, 'wow, thats a lot of shopping bags, are you sure you left clothes for everyone else?'"
Her: *laughs super hard*
Her: "No, not like that, thats actually good"
Me: "So, I should use that sometime?"
Her: "Hahahaha, yes!"
Me: "Okay, well thanks, for giving me the advice, I appreciate it, enjoy the rest of your day!"
*I didn't close, because of her response ("you have good game for someone as young as you" - sorta means i'm too young?)
2. Brunette girl - late twenties
Pre-opened her, "Hi, I just saw you walking here, and I just thought to myself, wow, what a pretty girl."
Me: My names Darren *shake her hand*
Her: "Thanks, I'm ___________"
Me: "So, what are you up to today ______?"
Her: "I just got off of work and now I'm just deciding whether I should get a coffee or not"
Me: "We should definitely get a coffee" (I should've not had said this, hahahaha, makes me reek of desperation)
Her: *awkwardly "Well, I was just gonna get one and leave" *doesn't go into coffee store anymore, continues walking*
Me: "So, what's work?
Her: "I don't give random pieces of information out to strangers."
Me: "But, how are we supposed to get past being strangers, if you don't?"
Her: "Who says I want to get past being strangers?"
Me: "Well, how about if I tell you a piece of info from my life? Then it would be like a mutual transference."
Her: "Um no..."
Me: "Okay, nice meeting you, bye!"
Holy fuck that took a lot of time to write. I'm going to write one or two more later.