Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'



Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Aug 27, 2018 1:26 pm

Had a solid lay on Saturday, pulling from a music festival.

Wednesday

Went out with Maddhatter to pull. Got to the bar kind of late but immediately opened a 3 top and got the ball rolling. He told the girls that I wasn't from this school which was confusing to my target. I got him paired up quickly and it looked like he had it in the bag. My girls weren't giving me that much attention so I started talking to some dude who was cool. Then my girl reopened me (I think after being prompted by her friend) and I couldn't get locked in with her. The questions just never took off so I left him to do his thing.

When I came back it was just them two, but later on her friends ended up snatching her. I explained that telling them I'm from a different school is a fun joke but has to be said a certain way so they don't actually think that - later in the conversation she seriously didn't believe me, and thereafter anything I said because the things I were saying were incongruent with what she began to understand.

We "improved" though.


Thursday

Went to a dope free concert and had a fun after party. Danced with my coworkers girl friends and tried to get them over to the after party but for whatever reason she didn't respond after the concert ended at 2. Was pretty drunk but mainly did BMOC game where I would just use confidence and momentum for any fuck ups, which seemed to get me good reactions after a few flops.

Friday

Went to a party with Tuna and his girlfriend. His girlfriend has a hot blonde friend who I slowly started to talk to and leave a good impression on in our group setting. I was very social at the party and had a group of people somewhat fighting for my attention. Eventually I got a moment alone with the blonde and we made fun of the guy friend she brought (he's quite timid) and had him fetching us beers. She said she liked how direct I was (as I was eye fucking her at this point) and I told her the way she handled this overly aggressive girl in a story she had told everyone was sexy as fuck.

Then I lost my hook on her and she was positioned away from me, not in a way that I could have kept talking to her smoothly. This one frat dude asked me to go to the bars and pull freshmen. The first bar didn't have enough hot girls, the second was fun from a surprise concert from a fairly big DJ and I snuck us in from knowing the girl at the door (Lipstick), and I ditched the frat dude after this to try my luck downtown. No luck, so finally I went to that chicken place, eye fucked a brunette, and got her number before her friends stole her. She was doe-eyed as hell when she left.

Saturday

LR: Music Festivities

There's a music festival every year before the school year comes into full swing. It's a pretty damn good time, and always brings some solid artists into town. Mostly electronic shit, dubstep, house music. I started out with the SweetBros but wasn't feeling the vibe with these dudes so I left to my day one's smaller party. Immediately start on a good note and rock BMOC style again. Unfortunately the crazy bitch from when I was given a rapey accusation there. She's a female player. All I did was give her a nod and say "hey", while befriending everyone else at the party.

Her friend is a strong HB7, petite blonde with a pretty face. We'll call her Lighter. MaddHatter was at the festival on Friday and said he was tryna tap that but couldn't. Female player's boyfriend shows up and is pretty cool and friendly. I try to befriend him right away as to not have any issues later down the road. We all call an uber after doing some drinking and hit the show.

On the way over I start talking to the blonde more and show my interest. She says something about how it's hot after I've been bouncing from subgroup to subgroup and go, "Lighter you're cute don't push it (; " and she giggles. We make it in and everyone is in a good mood. Luckily we avoid the drug sniffing dogs. It's a beautiful day.

After getting water bottles so that we're partying responsibly we head into the mosh pit. The first act we're there for is okay - followed by some really solid DJing. During this my Day One starts dancing with his girlfriend, as does that "boyfriend" with the Female Player. This leaves me, my other friend and Lighter. After seeing her body language and us dancing alone for a little bit, I ask in her ear if she's single. She says she is and I say "let's dance for a bit" and we grind. We grinded a lot, and I couldn't help it from getting kinda hard (my T is high as fuck right now).

Eventually the couples start making out, so I follow suite and make out with Lighter after spinning her around. She's receptive and things are going well. This sets the pace for what we do the entire concert. I would generally follow the lead of Day One, which would trigger Lighter wanting more of my attention, which I would then give her small doses off (either talking in her ear or kissing her passionately). It was interesting to observe the interactions with the girlfriends, as they wanted to enjoy the concert themselves but also feel like they were part of their boyfriend's main attention even with this awesome concert in front of us. Everyone and their girl were vibing, so I felt somewhat bad for my other homie 7th wheeling (why I knew I had to act before he did).

The dancey act subsides and we have to wait for the next artist to come on and it takes a bit. The next act the shit I took started to kick in and the grinding became really fucking awesome because of our rhythms matching up perfectly - and I started to get really fucking horny. I was feeling up her ass and legs and teasing the areas around her pussy while she twisted her ass on my dick. God, I wanted to fuck her right there. There was a moment between acts where we stopped dancing and I felt she wasn't vibing with me anymore from her body language - that I had either peaked the excitement, overdone the arousal, or said something unattractive. Regardless I just kept my good vibe and eventually got her laughing again, then dancing for the final set.

We held eachother close for the final act and it really solidified our connection I felt. We exchanged in a passionate make out towards the end, but for the final song let go and went nuts. Everyone was loving the vibe as we walked back to Day One's apartment. All the people coupled up were holding hands as we talked, joked, and laughed. We decided we'd drink a little bit at the apartment before the night ended.

This was the hardest part of the lay. Once we got back everyone was so tired, and for whatever reason Lighter wasn't laying down with me when I asked her to, and I could only get my arm around her. When she finally did it was only for like 1 minute. She was gonna call an uber home, and I told her that I could just walk her home because it's mostly on the way to my house. She said "no it's fine" about 3-4 times, but just held her uber app there without calling it. Female Player's boyfriend had gone home and she was texting some other guy about going out to the bar, but all of us were too tired.

I was super hoping she would leave, despite seeing her as far less of a bitch, and she seemed to have changed her mind about me since the accusation. She almost invited Lighter to stay the night at her house, but luckily the guy she texted left the bar to pick her up. We were all still there so moments conversation picked up I would persist with Lighter as to not draw too much attention and trigger more ASD. I told her, "I'll walk you home. It'll be way more fun to end the night walking, and it's super close to where I live" and eventually she said yes.

Even though she agreed, when Female Player brought up the uber she would go back to saying she was gonna do that. So it wasn't until Female Player as on the phone and this weird music video had everyone's attention that I went, "you about ready to get out of here?" and she said soon. I told her "okay, let's go after this song", and she agreed. See, had I just waited hoping that she was still gonna walk with me, or tried to get into her uber, that would have made it far less likely to work in my favor. I had to lead, and lead I did.

Female Player is leaving outside for the guy to pick her up, and I tell Day One that we're getting outta here. He tries to get me to stay a bit longer because he's in a great mood but I decline. We all wait outside and talk and joke while it takes 15 minutes for this dude to show up. Finally he does and we all hug and Lighter and I begin walking.

She tries to lead the way to her house that's not closer to mine so I go, "it'll be faster if we go this way" and she agrees. Once we're close to my house I say, "hey there's this cool nature preserve right up here. we're so close, we have to check it out", and she's down. We keep walking and talking. Once we're basically there I say, "the view is best from my upstairs balcony, you down to look at it from there?" and she pauses, then says "yea okay".

We get into my house and I move some crap around. She comments on how nice and cozy my studio is. I turn and look at her, and immediately just feel the need to kiss her. I walk up a little bit and say something, then manhandle kiss her and she kisses me passionately back. I take her hand and walk her to the balcony. We talk about the nature and how pretty it is, and I make some joke about high fiving the tree that is pouring into the balcony.

Again I kiss her outside and hold her closely, then take us back inside to watch music videos. She lays down on me and we watch 2-3 videos before I start kissing her again. I tell her I want her to straddle me and she does somewhat awkwardly because the loveseat is so tiny. I have to command her a bit before finally getting her on top of me and making out. With bursts of passion I lift her up and take her into bed, now laying on top of her.

Things start to get hot and heavy and she's grinding on my dick really hard, and clearly is getting turned on. Eventually I lay her down and start rubbing her pussy. When I get to the point where I'm trying to reach through her jean shorts to actually stick my fingers in her, she stops and says she doesn't know if she wants to go there. This happens several times and each time I'm super cool about it and say "we don't have to do anything you want to do". Some of the times I would yes ladder, and towards the later times we actually talked about why she wasn't sure.

She told me she wants to (bingo), but isn't sure because it's our first time hanging out. My intuition says it's that it's ASD, and a bit of boyfriend territory because of the dynamic at the festival. I yes ladder that we both like eachother and qualify her, saying she's a super cute and cool chick. I tell her,
"Well, and don't take this the wrong way - I don't want to set any weird expectations (she nods) - the times that I've had sex on the first date (calling it a date reframes it as less of a possible ONS, hookup) it's actually turned into better situations where I've seen girls for longer. This one girl wouldn't have sex with me for several dates because of a specific rule she had about the exact number of dates before sex, and then we never had sex again and neither of us were interested in hanging out with eachother. I think that it's better to just be real with oneself and the other person, so that way you can fully enjoy eachother for what you really want and not have to lie or beat around the bush with one another later on."


She says that the girl who didn't do it for that long was stupid, and that what I say makes a lot of sense, but she's still not sure. Well, when in doubt, whip it out. We go back to hooking up and I place her hand on her dick and she starts stroking it hard. I start rubbing her pussy from outside her pants and she lets me. Then I start taking my pants of and she helps me, giving me a full handjob now. I start to slowly move towards her bare pussy and she stops again, saying she's not sure. I say that I really want to see her naked, and feel her against me naked. She says that she wants to too, but if she takes off her pants she knows what will happen. I tell her that there's nothing wrong with sex on the first date, and there's not. We go back to hooking up.

She starts really stroking my dick and the kissing becomes more intense. I whisper in her ear, "I wanna fuck you so bad right now babe" and it keeps getting more intense. I tell her "I wanna stuff my cock inside your little pussy" and she moans a little bit. I start moving my hand from her ass down her leg, then back up again, then back down again, and spider my fingers towards her pussy. I can tell she's going fucking crazy. I sneak in my middle finger and find the outside of her pussy (not yet touching it) and just play with this area, rubbing it back and forth. She is stroking my cock incredibly hard now, so I move my finger just a little bit - and this was very hard because of the angle and how tight her clothes were - and find my way inside her pussy. She lets me in so I go deeper and start fingering her. I do this for about a minute and then rearrange my hand to come in through the front door, and starts yanking her pants off, to which I fingerblast the shit out of her.

I put her on top of me and she takes off her panties, and I tell her to rub her pussy on my dick. She does and I move her so that the head of my dick is against her pussy, just barely going in. I ask if she's on birth control and she's not, so I slip a condom on immediately. She rubs herself on my dick a bit more, and then I enter her. I usually am the one in control with girls on top, but she pushes me down and rides the shit out of my dick with incredible form. She really knew what she was doing. I just hold her and let her go, eventually taking charge of her body, ass, and motion and she loves it. Following Alek's recommendations on how to last longer, we do this for about 15 minutes just going nuts.

After this we fuck one more time for about 20-30 minutes and I make her come in doggy where I have her laying down as I slide into her while rubbing her clit. "You got me" she goes lol. She was so wet after that and wanted to fuck all night but I was so fucking exhausted from the concert. We hold eachother and watch some more videos before finally going to bed around 5 AM. I tell her she can stay the night. We fuck once more in the morning but are both pretty depleted. I didn't really sleep because of what I took. I should note that she was mostly sober and just a bit stoned for the entire concert & sex, having not even drank at the after party.

I was a bit more romantic with her and this paid off pretty well. Most of what I did was leading, and persisting. She's very feminine so this works quite well. All three of the girls we were with are very similar in this way, and it's obvious that the main thing they want is a strong man to lead them and they will follow, which is the exact dynamic my Day One as created with his girl. Big mistake is I forgot to get her number, because I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy operation after all the sex talk we had post sex. We like a lot of the same things and I told her I planned on getting a small anal plug for doggy style, and she said "yea - that'd be awesome. you should do that" lol so I think she is interested in some of my ideas.


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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Wed Aug 29, 2018 10:13 pm

I fucked up the texting with Lighter. I think I know what I did but may still throw this in General.

So on Sunday I got her number from her friend, at the final day of the music festival. Lighter was supposed to be there, but felt too tired and sick and gave it to our other friend. I also recall I playfully said as I walked Lighter out of my house, "See you in X hours!" because it's a weekend long festival. Not a good move because it assumes to much investment, which she may not be ready for. Hell, I didn't really even want to go deeper right that second, but it kinda just came out of my mouth as a joke.

I text her,
Monday

4:08 PM
Me: hey lighter this is hue. forgot to get your # so [girl] gave it to me

5:08 PM (exactly one hour later - potentially gamey
Her: Hey what's up??

6:01 PM
Me: just wanted you to have my # (=
Her: I was about to ask [girl] for yours haha
Me: aw stahp ;P

-- I should note I really didn't want to text, and that was the only reason I texted her --

Tuesday

7:59 AM
Her: Haha how as Sunday??

12:02 PM
Me: it was something... the [AJS;LJA] acts killed it and we had a great time at [a;sdh;l]
Me: how exciting was staying home for you? lol
Her: Good it looked so fun!
Her: I basically slept the whole day and night X)
Me: oh a bit tired were we? ;P

12:38 PM
Her: Just a bit ;)

5:16 PM (I legitimately got super busy)
Me: well once you've spruced up a tad I'd love to see you again ;-*
Me: what's a night you're free before this hectic weekend?
ghost


That last text is what did it, I think. Instead of letting her reply to my return flirty text, I double down on assuming she's still thinking about me sexually and ask when she's free. Also, because I didn't reply fast enough, she may have experienced other emotions during those 5 hours that would have made her unresponsive.

So now she either forgot to respond, doesn't know how to respond, or convinced herself that maybe this guy is too much a player, fuckboy, etc. etc.


Wednesday
As for my Chemistry class the girls are all giving me IOI's quite visibly (love you freshmen (; ) and are coming out of their awkward shells a bit more. Really want to talk to Hector to figure out how to bang as many of them as possible.

Made a mistake in lab because I got screwed over by my HS friend also retaking the class and called her a bitch under my breath. Not a great thing to do in a class of girls, and the girl that I want to fuck the most in lab heard me :P

Ah well. Social circle. Plus I think that one has a boyfriend, which I'm trying to seek out less and only bang if it seems right.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Thu Aug 30, 2018 4:20 pm

Just had my first successful street approach! That was fun.

I'm in downtown city area walking into my haircut and see a pretty brunette walking toward me texting on her phone. I need to cross the street, and as I do so slightly look back and she is too.

"You have no excuse to bail on this one" a little voice pops in my head. I get to the corner and instead of turning to my barber joint, glance to my left and see a bar I went to once a long time ago.

She comes up to cross the next corner and just before the signal turns I go,

Me: Hey 'cuse me, do you know where [bar] is?
Her: Yea! (: It's right there! *points across the street*
Me: *cheeky smile* I know, I just thought you were cute and needed a reason to talk to you.
Her: Oh! Haha okay! (:
Me: Are you single?
Her: Yes! I am!
Me: That's gooood. What's your name?
Her: Streetlight girl *starts walking*
Me: Oh are you going?
Her: Ya I'm crossing are you...
Me: Hold up a sec over here, I'm about to get my hair cut right there.
Her: Okay I've got work, but sure I have a few minutes (:
Me: Great, where do you work?
Her: [business], literally right next to [bar] *points*
Me: Nice! What is it you're doing over there?
Her: It's a PR job, so basically public relations in the city.
Me: Is that kind of like consulting with city operations?
Her: Kinda, with us specifically my boss is super involved with social justice and brings a lot of it out - she's great.
Me: That's awesome. It really is all about who you work with too. And you enjoy it?
Her: Yea! I do! We have a lot of great programs moving and I get to talk with a lot of people (:
Me: That's great you enjoy what you do. What was your name again? *puts hand out*
Her: Streetlight Girl (: *holds hand*
Me: Hue (: well, hey, *turns to bar* would you be down to grab a drink at [bar] sometime?
Her: Yea! Totally!
Me: Okay lemme get your #
Her: Okay!
Me: So when do you usually work until?
Her: Most days I come in at 8 and leave by 5.
Me: So your usual 9-5 hours. *hands phone*
Her: Yea but it all depends on what projects we're getting into.
Me: Gotcha.
Me: Ya I just saw you and thought, "I have to talk with her!"
Her: *looks up from phone* (: ya!
Me: Glad I did...
Me: Okay well it was nice meeting you *touches arm* have fun at work!


I noticed her facial expressions would change rapidly depending on what direction / energy I was bringing out from talking. There's a lot of.. data there to collect. I should have let the silence create tension during some parts. I wasn't even nervous, just a little.. unused to what I was doing. Little to no game plan, and it felt natural. Only about a 2-3 minute interaction.

Should have set up logistics, I had compliance early and could have cemented emotions more.


Going out tonight and feeling social.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Sun Sep 02, 2018 1:24 pm

Friday
Went out with the boys. Noticed how when King and I are together it makes me feel challenged. Perhaps some fragrance of me being controlling since he's the obvious alpha dude.

Makes me think about the motivations of dominant people in general...

We eventually meet up with 2 girls and I decide that MaddHatter has a better chance of fucking if I leave him and King to do there thing, so myself and Thugger (weird but close friend of mine) split to a party. Go there and eventually end up at campus bars. I was pretty drunk and eventually leave by myself to try and pull. That HB6 who I banged right after that music festival finds me and we have an interesting night.

She has been pumped and dumped so many times she was mad at me for not getting her number. We end up going back to her house and I explain my entire prerogative with polygamy and why I don't set the wrong expectations. She is a fan of monogamy. We end up hooking up but she won't let me smash because she says I'll leave her. I leave lol.


Saturday

Fun ass night. Was really feeling myself ;P

Start off at this party with an aggressive host who I befriend slowly but surely and get him on my side. Not very hot girls at the party, they compete for my attention at one point. Day One and his girlfriend are in some fight and I get some insight into compromise in relationships and how a man slowly becomes whipped. My dude is stressing hard because she's demanding attention, not being satisfied, etc. etc.

Eventually I pull my man to the side and tell him I understand what he's dealing with, but if he wants to make shit work out, he has to do what he wants to do and be man. To respect his girl, but to respect himself as well. This pumps him up and he confronts his girl and then they fuck. Lol.

We're at his house at this point and all the while I'm slowly building compliance and connecting with the dudes at his house. Some cool guys who just moved to the city - I've met them in my travels before. Eventually I'm full leading and we go to a bar.

Bartender's familiar with me but in a bad mood so I cheer her up (: we get a table and smash food, then call an uber to another spot. I see Thing 1 and Crazy entering the bar right as I'm leaving and hug and kiss them. We go to the new spot and it's meh, then bounce around campus bars for about an hour. The homie I'm with is having his birthday and so we decide to get bottle service downtown.

Plug is with us now and invites these girls, but because he calls them like 5 times to meet up they don't come with us because of how chasey he was acting about it. Bottle service is fun, and I always enjoy the social dynamics of a club. People try so hard to show off, it's entertaining.

Wait fuck. Then I blacked out.

Some girl at the club approached me but she was a HB5 so I didn't engage very much.

There was an after party next to my apartment and I just walked in and kept partying. People were being really cool with me, but I seriously don't remember anything other than a patch of the inside of the house and a patch of talking with several people on the porch.


Sunday (Day)

Was jogging to get this hangover off me and this girl locks eyes with me right as I stop. She's a new worker at this food joint and invites me inside. I use killer eye contact and listen to her pitch, but can tell she's interested beyond her gig. I allow her to lure me inside an we talk beyond the food. I do order something and it was bomb. I invite her to sit with me while I eat it, as I'm the only person in the place.

Turns out she knows my gay coworker and I flirt with her a little bit and talk about sugar daddy's. I was going to get her number, but she was doing almost all the work with the interaction, so she get's my number and invites me to a party tonight.

Once I'm off work tonight this ought to be fun (;
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Sep 03, 2018 10:34 pm

Sunday
Got off work later than expected then didn't get a reply from that girl until like 2:30 AM.

MaddHatter was out for Labor Day weekend so I just left my bar to where he was. We're immediately invited to bottle service by these girls he's with. Two nights in a row! Had a great time with everyone there, and this club was much more lively than the one from Saturday.

Nothing big with approaches, this was all social circle anyways. A latina I tried to bang last year got swooped up by one of our homies, this one girl who has banged a famous musician didn't really give me the time of day.

There was a hot window that this blonde was giving me the look according to Maddhatter, but this guy with great fundamentals immediately saw what was happening and swooped in. I had barely talked to her so entering their conversation would have been not so calibrated, and probably came off in a weird way. I guess I could have talked to the guy, disarmed him and talked to her then lead us to a different part of the vip section but, meh.

One interesting thing that happened was after people started leaving it was just MaddHatter, myself, and the bottle of Grey Goose that was left over lol so we grabbed it and walked outside. The guy that apparently bought the bottle was still there and got livid at me for having the bottle in my hand. I tried to confront the situation calmly and use our words but he totally closed me off after yelling at me infront of the girls he was with - I'd imagine he was just drunk and possibly finding an excuse to be all alpha guy.



I asked Maddhatter wtf is with my texts with Lighter and he said it's because she doesn't want to set up a date. She wants to see me out and have me pull her. I'd imagine this is because of A). She's a little shy and/or B). She doesn't feel comfortable in that we've only hung out together that one time, and she's not used to that type of approach.

So that makes me think, okay, I'll see what she's up to on the weekend - but wait, then how am I supposed to try to pull new chicks?

I think I'm gonna go for a weekday, like Thursday text, just a "hey what are you up to?" and then go for a Thursday night bang or a Friday afternoon meet up. Or something... point being that it's more spontaneous and less specific set up.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Tue Sep 04, 2018 4:24 pm

Monday
Was very unproductive during a time where I need to be the most. I've been going out while drinking very heavily for close to 3 months now and need to fix some priorities and become more disciplined. This cycle continues to repeat itself where I'll reach a point of success and thereafter allow myself to overindulge. It's 100% my responsibility to control my vices, and there's clear evidence of me holding myself back due to an addictive personality.

Tuesday
Went to my research lab and this cute asian tried to start up conversation with me, but I couldn't get things off the ground because I was so focused on studying for the GRE during our break. That, and I feel very slow today which is likely a result of the sheer volume of alcohol that was in my body from Thursday - Sunday.

I was focused studying for the test outside of my one and only class this semester and a girl from my lab portion of the class see's me, sits down with me, and starts talking to me. I've been getting opened like crazy this past month. She starts talking to me about class and very simple topics - quite typical of freshmen. My mind is so one-track minded right now (sex sex sex) that I take almost everything she says in an innuendo manner.

Her: Have you started the lab assignment yet?
Me: No I've been doing other things, was going to do it all tonight.
Her: Oh okay. Yea it's a big, long assignment.
Me: Yea... those.. usually aren't the best to deal with
Her: blah blah

Me: Yea this is my second time taking the course actually
Her: blah blah
Her: Does it get harder around the end?
Me: That's what she said *taps arm*
Her: *nervously laughs*
Me: *killer eye contact* Yea around the 3rd or 4th parts it get's much harder
Her: *grabs backpack anxiously, starts looking at building entrance*

blah blah blah

Her: Oh, there's my friend! Good talking to you!!
Me: Of course


I can't tell if she was just so nervous talking to me or if she was creeped out.

Also struggling between being studious (I have to get an A in this class, and take the GRE) and focusing on gaming chicks. I literally want to bang as many of these chicks as possible, it's going to be one of my last times classroom gaming.

Last time I took the class my fundamentals were two years behind where they are now - I got a lot of numbers, but eventually I think the girls who originally had interest started to realize I was trying to game them and shit and I banged none of them.

I do remember several strong opportunities where I could have instalayed some of them. We'll have to wait and see, and I'll continue to follow the same things I've done in the past to bang classmates.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Wed Sep 05, 2018 11:09 pm

Wednesday
Flirted more with the freshmen in the class I want to bang but it's a lab and eventually get's really grueling and annoying in task so we eventually stopped the back and forth we had going from the get go. Also I almost pulled it so us two were lab partners (which SHE suggested) but then this fat black chick butt her head into our group and it would be really uncalibrated of me to say no because it was in front of the whole class and the T.A. was pushing for us to have a bigger group.

I wish it was just us two the vibe could have really fucking developed there. I still flirted as was light with touch and had her giggling at some points but there was this one moment I could have ramped it she said "this is too easy" and it was on the tip of my tongue to give her a sexy smirk and say "you're too easy" and then say I'm kidding and touch her arm. She even gave me a look as she said it like she was expected me to say something, but my preoccupation with the task and the potential for it to be too low for attainability made me not.

Approached a girl in crutches after the class ended and had IOI's but decided she wasn't hot enough.

Went back to that new food place and cashier girl is working and invites me to a party tomorrow (: Kinda boring convo but I bet the party will have better spirits.

Had a Tinder date with a cute black chick with pretty awesome hair that went okay. She sent me the classic "no hookups" text right before the date, then when I only sent her one text back, "lol I never said anything about hooking up" she thought that I ghosted her. When I told her I was walking over to the ice cream place she was all "I thought you were mad at me because I said no hookups!!" and that she'd come soon, so I just I played cool and said "all good I'm playing pool next door". Super low effort texting.

From the get go she is acting kinda weird. She said she was high and I can see it because her attention's all over the place. She's the president of her college's democrats club and I weave away from politics quickly. After we get ice cream and walk towards this nature preserve, she is paranoid because it's dark. This is the second time I've walked through here at night, and, to be honest, it's kind of creepy looking. Maybe not a good move for late night dates - even though it's probably one of the safest places near campus.

We keep walking and I make sure she's calm and find the preserve-preserve. We get there and there's this cute little checker's game so we play. I had just wanted to sit there but she just starts playing the checkers and we play for a little bit. At one point I suggest my house because of the bugs and she looks down and says no. I bring up music and she just plays it on her phone, voiding my whole "music videos at my house thing". We do connect a bit when talk about our travels. I make things sexual with strong eye contact and voice when she says she used to be a total virgin in highschool and I ask if she still is in college --> reverse psychology --> "well not anymoreeee" Convo never really lifted off, until the end where we were talking about drugs and it was a higher note so I said let's get the fuck out of here - the bugs were eating us alive.

We get to the other end of the street and she's saying it's too late and she has to go home. I suggest she stay with me for another 30 minutes (we're so close to my place) and she says she can't because of her 8:00 AM class that she can't miss. I don't push for it very hard because the whole date was kinda meh. She says we should see eachother again, and then something else. I hug her and respond to the second part of what she said, then turn, smile, and tell her to take care.

I'll text her this weekend.

Informational date. Meh.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Sat Sep 08, 2018 5:21 am

Had a coaching session with Hector today. Really good shit.

R.I.P. Mac Miller... that dude was such a loving guy.

LR: Sexy Koala

Start the night off at my house with a homie. We drink then head to a bar, planning on bar hopping. Order our drinks and I find a place outside. There's a really cute blonde with a GREAT ass and a cute brunette with a slim body standing in an area with the most space. Even though there's only one seat in between them and the guys adjacent to them, I just move it and plant, for my friend to join me later.

I whip out my phone, on twitter, and see the music video for Kanye & Lil Pump's new song. Lmao. I laugh to myself for a sec, and the blonde glances at me. I'm thinking to possibly show these girls next to me, but then put my phone away. A feeling pops in my head that says "fuck that!" and I whip it back out, then tap the blonde and ask if she's seen this shit. Both the girls look at it and giggle.

I ask them if they like Kanye after all the shit he's done - good because it's a polarizing question. The blonde seems excited to talk and I get her answer, then here some from the brunette. We talk about this for a minute or two. One's a bartender, one's in corporate, and they're both yogis. I have more in common with the brunette, but am interested in the blonde. The blonde seems to like attention a bit more and the brunette seems down to earth, so I know I have to compensate later on for whenever I'm talking to one too much - important for the intro.

They're both stoned. I tease both of them about this and the blonde says something about drugs in general. I ask her if they stop at weed and they both think it's intriguing and tell me about what they've done. My buddy walks up and I blatantly ignore him for a little bit, but can feel his presence behind me.

The vibe is really solid and so I introduce my friend. He's not one to talk to girls a lot and kind of does a jester role with his dead pan and dry humor. The girls get what he's putting down and the vibe's still solid. We keep talking, slowly forming together the groups into one. This is somewhat of a risky move because you're hooked while you're the only one talking to and actually interested in them, but to continue in calibration and social proof gotta introduce your boy.

Maddhatter comes in to hang and tries to talk with the girls and I, but I can tell immediately he's not in as social of a mood as me, just, intuitively. He goes for a lot of humble bragging as a joke and while it's funny it quickly becomes old if not being delivered the right way. And since he was off I knew that I had to do most of the talking with the girls.

I turn back to them and keep the vibe going, being a bit more friendly than usual and keeping the conversation about 80% them, 20% my friends. My friends eventually become a bit more friendly too and we have a good thing going. Eventually, she asks my age. I dance around it and try to make her guess, then get her's, 27 (she looks 23, tops). I'm 22 and have noticed this getting a poorer reaction with girls about 25 so I dance until she presses on it hard then tell her guess is right when she finally guesses it.

She pulls back like *omg* and laughs in her hands - which is a great sign. This means she's definitely thinking I'm attractive / likes me, but is trying to rationalize why she shouldn't. She's laughing and smiling about it though, so I know she's interested. She goes, "are you really 22?" and I respond, "can you really not handle me? (; " and she giggles even harder.

Something is said about where we're going next, and I know I have to lock down going with them somewhere. First I suggest the bar next to us, but then realize it will be more helpful for us to play pool somewhere, so I suggest a bar with a pool table. We continue to talk. All this while I'm slowly touching her more and more, rubbing her waist, arms, hair, etc. when I felt appropriate, and with positive upticks in conversation. My friends dip out slightly because I'm not giving them enough attention :P It's kind of apparent they're getting a bit bored. Kinda shows me that they expect my attention when we're out haha.


The brunette has to go to the bathroom and my friends have dipped out. One of the biggest things I've got from Hector's coaching was if you're alone with her, fucking get it. I start being a bit more sexual with my touch and she receives it well. I'm speaking all sexy to her and she's thrilled, and as I say something or other I go for the kiss. I couldn't pull off first, and we do at the same time, then I immediately keep talking and lead her outside.

We all walk to the bar and this blonde can't remember my buddy's name for the life of her. I think she asked me 7 times lol and I eventually stop telling her and make this a reoccurring joke. I'm holding her back and forth, sometimes hands, sometimes waste, and throw in a few ass grabs as we walk.

We arrive to the bar and I go in first, the block the door for the blonde and purposefully allow the brunette in first. Then my friends join, somewhat tailing behind, and clearly accepting the fact they're no longer talking to me tonight lol. I get my drink, and then the girls get there's. We bullshit for a sec and then I bring up me and the blonde being partners for pool, grabbing her hand and leading her towards the tables. I have to grab quarters though, and my home boy helps me out since I"m outta bills.

We set up for the next game and sit around. I tell the blonde to sit down with me and put my arm around her. We wait for the game to develop and she's kinda testing my frame by being all "we have to waaaiit??" and on-off focused attention. I talk with my guy friends during moments she's being a little lame. While I go, of course, some dudes start talking to her. She tells me that one guy just broke up with his girlfriend and is trying to leverage that to get with her and I laugh. The guys eventually ask the girls if they want to leave and do blow and they tease it to get attention but finally decline. They didn't shift in their body language that much which makes me think they definitely hadn't planned on it.

During the game I play terribly. I don't give a shit lol I'm here for pussy. The guy we're playing against eventually catches on that I'm not trying at all whereas he's taking it a bit more competitively and then just gives my friends the sticks and leaves. Cool, free pool table. I'm teasing my girl back and forth and the guys trying to game her are really putting in work now and feeding her all this attention. I sit down with Maddhatter and he tells me to check on her or I'll lose her. The most I do is sit next to her and crack a tease or two, and at one point I briefly introduced myself to one of the guys.

I also take this time to get to know the brunette better. She seemed super down to earth but I wanted to be sure all was good. Both had been friendly from the get go and I never ran into much shit until later in the seduction. Maddhatter also tries to talk with the brunette but doesn't seem able to get the conversation going off the ground. My girl starts to give me more attention now that I've dangled teasing / bits of attention to her while these other dudes try to pick her up, and eventually I pull her into me and kiss her a few times - right in front of the dudes. Her and I both knew what was going on. She loved it.

Finally the game is tying up and my girl sinks the 8 ball. I give her shit and tell her she's not allowed to stand anymore and to sit down on the couch with me. She jumps right on my lab and cuddles up with me. But I can't kiss her - she just fucked up. Instead I feel her up and talk shit to her, then shake my friends' hands. Right after this Maddhatter leaves without saying a word - I hope his adventures were dope for the rest of the night.

While sitting with her we kiss a couple times, and then talk about what traits we like with each other. She tries to tease me about being young again and I ignore it. We keep hanging and holding each other, then get up and go to my bar after mingling with the others for a bit.

On the way to my bar my girl goes, "Hue!!! I gotta tell you something I just fucked up with!!". Out of instinct, I grab her and pull her into the entrance of a store (still outside the door) and go "what is it?" and make out with her. Then we dip back into the sidewalk and continue walking. She's so pleased. She forgot my friends name again lol of course.

Finally we get to the bar and my coworkers can tell I'm in a great mood. Everyone I talked to returned my smile and friendly vibe. I get a margarita, and don't get one for the blonde. I can tell she's slightly upset about this. While they're in the bathroom I talk to my homie about the girls and suggest he go for the brunette, but he's clearly not going to. I talk with my coworkers for a moment. The girls come back and I move her and I to a booth and we cuddle up and flirt. Things are getting really fun and towards sex.

Eventually the brunette slinks out, and so does my friend. She is saying that she's not going home with me, and to give her my number because she'll see me next Monday. I learned a few things here. Me not giving her my number reinforces the idea that if we don't sleep tonight, she'll lose me. Also, later down the road (at her place), and after she kept suggesting we hang out Monday, I told her that I'm super busy monday. She immediately responded - "Oh I am too". Women lol. She convinces herself for a practical outing when in actuality and rationally it's not even possible. Like, she believed "Monday" when she said it. I can see why guys might take this as lying and be bitter.

Anyways, I told her through persistence that we're having fun with I want to keep having fun, then confirming that she wanted to keep having fun too. She kept agreeing with me and my frame but kept pushing. Finally, the uber get's there and I start walking and say "I'm gonna get in your uber and we'll having at your house until 12:00" in a friendly way, and then as if it was never a big deal goes "okay (: ". Again, this is just her test / reaction to my advances that she's actually fine with.

The first uber cancels on her and we hang out in store entrance and get touchy. We had to run across the street holding hands in the rain - it was really fun. We get in the uber after searching around for a bit, and I think we smooched a bit in the uber. At her place, we planned on smoking a bowl and hanging - while it remained ambiguous as to how long I was staying / when I was leaving. Then, just as we start to settle in, she realizes she lost her phone. She has to be up at 7 AM tomorrow and NEEDS her phone, eventually saying I need to stay because of the alarm on my phone. I tell her I'll think about it (;

After she invests more to get me to stay the night, I tell her I'm going to stay regardless - and we're going to find her phone. This calms her down and she lays on top of me while we use my phone and her laptop to get her phone back. Once it is resolved I start feeling her up a lot more and she's getting really wet. Oh my god her fucking ass. Yoga.

She keeps telling me we can't do anything until she gets her phone so she knows it safe, and I stay in limbo of hooking up with her and feeling her up. Finally, we get her phone, thank the uber, and she jumps on my back and we playfully dance around, spin, and somehow make it back into the elevator. I put her down and we makeout in the elevator.

Once we're back at her apartment the second time she's much more submissive, bubbly, and playful. We smoke a bowl and talk. For once I wasn't losing my shit with philosophical shit - but I did catch myself speaking with much more detail. Lol I'm high right now that's probably why this is getting long as fuck.

We smoke then start hooking up on her couch, and she's grinding on me hard, getting really wet. I can't tell if she said "lets go to my bed" or "I have to go to bed", but soon after I say she finish giving me a tour of her house. We get to her room and I poke around, eventually throwing her on the bed and start hooking up with her. She is grabbing the hell out of me and really giving me everything back - a lot of her grinding her pussy on my dick. I slowly build shit up and don't directly touch her pussy for as long as I can. After 15 minutes or so she get's LMR. I kinda follow that Grand Pooba did with simply persisting and reminding her that we're both having a great time and to live in the present. That combined with lighter escalations. And sex talk. I thought I wasn't going to have it for a sec but after the sex talk she was reciprocating noticeably again.

I tease the living fuck out of her pussy and she starts stroking my dick --> she want's me to touch her pussy. I simply tease it further and our pants start coming off. I eventually finger bang her when she requests it. She's SOOO sensual. Oh my god her pussy is nice and tight too. I'm getting really horny and eventually she moans out, "please fuck me". >:)

She wants to be on top. i'm fine with that. I slip a condom on and she goes, "oh my god you're not an asshole!" lol. I dick tease her for about 3 minutes until from her breathing it's obvious she can't take it anymore, and after rejecting her hand to enter her twice finally slide the tip of my cock in. Other than bundle, she easily has the tightest pussy I've been in. Yum.

Just like Lighter, she rides dick like a fucking beauty, and I barely did any work for this portion. She cums right before I do. I probably should have stopped fucking her and made her cum harder using Alek's techniques, but oh well. I try to smash again once I'm ready and she's legitmately too tired. I persist quite a bit and almost get it again like twice (I was so ready to fuck her brains out for round 2, too) but now she has to get up in just a few hours lol.

After asking me all these questions and assuming things about my relationships - all of which I either deflect, exude open mindedness about sex, or laugh at and chase frame her / tease her about. Fun gal. I tried to stay the night so I could fuck her again but she wasn't down. Ah well, it make sense.

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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Sun Sep 09, 2018 6:10 pm

Wow man.

This was my highest quality lay ever. Mid June I served a gorgeous MILF's table, and last night & this morning had sex with her. Took persistence to finally get her out again, and I thank Hector for recommending me to text a certain type of way to rekindle the fire. Let's call her Venice. I tried multiple times to text her in the way Chase recommends as the weeks went by - which got me responses, but perhaps by happenstance or some other reason I could never get her out.

The night starts of with me seeing Lighter at a party after she more or less ignored my texts. She's semi-receptive and I eventually realize that she's enjoying the attention I'm giving her. Her and her friends leave to a football game and I go to hang out with some other guys. I get in an argument with my leftist buddy, and had been texting Venice since yesterday. I eventually ask if she's free and she is - I shoot my shot and she invites me to meet her at the bar.

Here are the texts:
Friday

Me: hey there mrs busy, how have you been?
Her: Hey! Long time. I'm good, still busy but slowed down a little.. how about you?
Me: yea I almost forgot to hit you up
Me: where you been traveling to over summer? (=
Her: I've been to Vegas, [city, city and city]. I think I'm done traveling for this year for the most part
Me: ayy, vegas for business or pleasure? (;
Me: you're on such a roll though don't stop now
Her: All of it was for work but I had a lot of fun still haha
Her: And I moved finally


Saturday (3PM - 9PM)

Me: sounds like you
Me: I didn't know you were itching to move, that's great though. where'd you end up?
Her: I'm in [suburb].. What's been up with you?
Me: a couple things, ya.. grabbed and dropped some hit and miss research positions haha
Me: but sheeesh Venice with all these business moves what else you had time for?
Her: Haha not much else. I try though.. still at [bar I work]?
Me: ya it's been an interesting experience
Me: like I said with everyone being good and bad
Me: almost started to dislike drunk customers
Me: then a guy tips you 50 on a 20 because he's shit faced haha
Her: I hate drunk people, unless I'm one of them.. Haha
Her: Are you working tonight?
Me: aww I love it
Me: no I don't have tonight because it rained - are you in town?
Her: Yes! Let make a out. Hahahha
Me: you made a typo
Me: you want to make out?
Me: or is that french or something
Her: Hahahha I sound like a 3rd grader
Me: I was thinking 5th
Me: what are you plans tonight?
Her: I'm at [bar]
Me: business or pleasure?
Her: Pleasure!!
Me: (=
Me: well I might be in [area] tonight
Me: we should hang if I do
Her: Yep. Come

45 minutes later
Me: ya let's grab a drink
Me: I'm close to [bar] are you still there
Her: Yep

30 minutes later
Her: Where are you?
Me: just popped in..
Me: gonna grab a drink at the entrance bar
Her: I'll be there in a minute

Flirty, and not chasey - as well as giving her plenty of room to invest, which she did. Smoothly entered making plans. Having just got in an argument I decided to leave my friends and go somewhere better. I start off at my bar then go to the one she's at.

I'm there for only a few minutes, it's totally packed and she comes up to me. I'm wearing a cool yellow shirt that stands out quite a bit. She comes up and oh my fucking god she looks so hot. She literally looks like she could be 19 and she's 32. Yea, I would call her a 9/10.

We sit down and she's super happy to see me. She calls me Charlie Brown because of my shirt. And, I hate to write this - but I don't remember what we talked about. I remember telling her that her new hair style is awesome, and makes her look so youthful with the clothes she had on. Honestly, that's all I got. I think we made out at the bar because I was staring into her and just kissed her. I think I screened to see if she was free Sunday and asked her if she'd rather drink something else. I could be making this up, but a teeensy part of me says that she said she had champagne at her house, so I immediately stepped on it and said she's got the champagne, I got the uber.

At her house (nice place) about 20 minutes away we drank a short while, put music on, and poured champagne. She's laying on the couch in the sexiest way possible, giving me a lustful look. I take both of our glasses and put them down and manhandle kiss her passionately. This escalated to sex within minutes - no resistance. After that we fucked all over her couch, then in her room. She's got some kinks and we did a lot of different things. For about 2 hours, roughly. Started using some stuff in her drawer towards the end and I almost analed her. We cuddle and it's nice.

This morning I wake up and immediately start hooking up with her. I kiss her neck and rub her ass on my dick, and feel up her whole body before fingering her and she's already very wet. I rub the head of my dick against her pussy then fill her, and within no time we're doing doggy, then adapted missionary. Her pussy is quite tight, despite the whole having a kid thing. I don't think I was doing it right before - but believe I got it this time. You have to position your dick angle at like 30% so that you're hitting the top wall, then adjust for when you pound her cervix so you can be as deep as possible in her pussy. I fucked her brains out like this until she's soaking, and we're both panting and need a break.

Hanging out in the morning was really fun (= and we totally got along. She'a a child at heart. We listen to music videos and she's into rap - like actually knowledgable about it. I showed her my favorite soul song about the mental game of waiting for someone to be ready for your relationship, and it ending disappointingly and she watches the video deeply then comments on it being really good in a slightly sad tone :/ I wonder if this applies to her marriage. Just me speculating though. We talk about sex and she's got some seriously kinky shit she wants me to try.... idk if I'm ready for it haha. We'll see.

We're both very silly and goofy in our conversation though, and got along great. The only "bad" moment was I asked her while we waited on an uber (she left her car downtown, and I didn't take mine out) I asked her what her life was like before she had her kid and she gave me a "what??" with an accusative tone. I just calmly said, "yea. was your life much different before or about the same?" and she paused then said it was about the same. Not sure what I might have implicitly said there.

The uber ride back is fun too and we flirt the whole time in the back. Once we pop into her car the vibe is still really good and she drives me home. Right at the end she goes, "I'm your uber" and I say, "yea.. I'm only thinking about 4 starts.." as I go in for a kiss. I kiss her and tell her, "okay, you get 5". At little cheesy, but it landed super well and the kiss was great.

Let's hope I see her sometime soon.

I get to work an hour or two later and I'm beaming. My boss goes, "Hue, did you just get laid?" hahaha. I was in a fantastic mood - I started off the day with great sex with a high quality woman - can you blame me?
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Tue Sep 11, 2018 12:08 am

Venice
Only told my super good friend about Venice. And you guys ;P I have to keep it within me - and not feed any behavior that feeds external validation. Decided I would text her tomorrow, maybe bait her with some media and then ask her how her days going to get the conversation rolling. Then screen for another meet. Want to invest enough to let her know I was thinking about her and that it wasn't all illusionary.

Lighter
Not gonna text her. Might call her (maybe) but I 1). don't feel like it and 2). would rather wait it out for social circle gaming. That's prone to change but just where I sit with it now.

Koala
Also texted Koala a little bit last night. Mostly flirty but slowly building towards making plans. She's very much playing the same game as I am as far as the timing of replies goes. We'll see who's better at chess I suppose. She didn't reply to me last night until this morning - then sent a text with a "have a good day / week" at the end that through me a loop. That's slightly implying that the conversation could be over - and could be over for multiple days.

So I figured I'd wait like the whole day to text her back. I remember a weekly email from Chase described "optimal texting times" and him saying never before 10:30 AM, because most women with jobs (and she's corporate) are totally in their logical mind right now. There's little to no actual emotion involved with her texts to you so that's bad for getting dates / seduction. When I did all I got back was a "Hahaha", but that's partially because the point of my text was to comfortably neutralize hers. I moved it back in the direction of the date, then shot my shot.

Since I'm now trying to "master" this way of texting, I suppose I'll keep posting texts here to be able to analyze them later. In fact I already noticed I might have teased a little too much rather than be warm.
Saturday
Me: hey Koala this us Hue. had a really fun time with you last night(; good luck on your trip and stay silent *monkey covering mouth* - inside joke

Sunday
Her: Hi! Just got my phone back... it was harddd. I had fun too it was nice to meet you!

3 hrs later
Me: namastee
Me: so you're licensed now (yoga)
Me: free lessons for Hue?
Her: Haha not licensed until December. Maybe a free lesson or two if you're lucky
Me: I'm sure we can figure out an exchange of sorts (;
Her: Haha we can make some arrangments
Me: I would like that
Me: do you drink anejo tequila or just silver?
Her: Not a fan of dark tequila haha or at least not yet. Do you?
Me: oooo such a noobyy
Me: I tend to drink silver but only cuz anejo is expensivo ;P
Me: I just got some, I'll have to school you about it (a littttle too condescending)

This morning
Her: Sorry I passed out early last night! (good sign) I'll watch you drink that stuff but idk if I can do that haha. Have a good day / week!

almost 12 hrs later
Me: haha I've heard of tequila tasting, but never watching. whatever boats your float

2 hrs later
Her: Hahaha
Me: I've got some silva too haha
Me: you have an evening this week you'd be down for a drink?
Her: Let me get back to you on that I feel a cold coming on that I'm trying to kill *mask face emoji*
Her: Is there a night that's better for you?
Me: awww
Me: drink that oj
Me: thursday would be perfect
Her: Cool I'll let you know later this weeek
Me: sounds good


And now we wait.

Classroom Game
Had a mini-lecture day for our chem class. I come in slightly late in my most attractive workout gear, still wet from sweat from the gym. Really great workout and I started listening to metal again. I dart eyes at the freshmen I want to slide into and her seats are surrounded. I must be decisive so I sit in the back at another table. The girl I sit next to is immediately bubbly and acting goofy. I flirt with her immediately and we do our course work. She can't figure out the math even though she was just qualifying herself to me about how she knows the material better than anybody in the class and all that. I use light touch with her and flirt the whole class. There was an answer that was .7, but I had .69 because I didn't round up and I raised my hand to ask why it wasn't "69" - not a clear use of innuendo other than technically - and my target laughs, trying to hide it.

Aw lawdy, this is already becoming so fun.

Arrogance As A Tool
I subtly notice that some of the girls are eavesdropping on my flirting in the back. Eventually the other 5th year I know in the class says something to me about men getting pedicures going, "Hue would do it! Hue!! Would you get a pedicure?" I pause with a smirk and go, "Only if it's going with the medi" and do some flamboyant shit with my fingers on one hand. The girls all laugh and the guy in front of me (kinda jacked, only other guy in the subclass that could "contend" with me) also comments something. Someone says "It's only gay if you're gay" and I laugh out loud then say to the guy, "Yo dude are we still good to make out later? It's only gay if we're gay" and I create tension because I'm challenging him. Some laugh, and some a little nervously. He smiles at me then looks away, saying nothing. I laugh and say I'm joking, and I didn't mean to get his hopes up too much.

The girl next to me is red blushing and smiling. She's not as hot as my target or I would have 100% moved it forward with her. She happened to know my name and I didn't know hers :P

I finish my quiz fast as fuck and slowly walk out of the room. I know that at least one of the girls will open me if I stall enough and boom: my target walks out right after me. I had turned on my side and looked down the hall, but not directly at her. She says "hey" and I pause a sec then go, "hey!" and we start talking. Immediately she's glad to see me and we start talking and walking. About 45s in I screen her for logistics and her Mondays are fucked. We keep walking and I ask when she's usually free and she whips out her schedule. She's mostly good Tuesday & Thursday. I tell her "give me your number" and she does then punches it in. She starts talking shit on droids and crossing her arms (shit test) and I laugh a little and say "okay, I just won't text you then. take care (; " right as I was expected to leave, and touch her arm as I slide away.

Was full of energy (probably T) after this :D but really had to get to a study session. Big test coming up in a few days.

Plan to text her mid class tomorrow and say "hey it's hue" "wait for me after class" and insta-date.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Thu Sep 13, 2018 12:16 am

Venice
Aight Ima be straight up. I can stop thinking about Venice. It's so much so that it's distracting me from my studies - so I had to journal about it. I spoke with a mentor of mine who I'm very close to and he told me that while it's possible I could make something with her if I played my cards right / she's interested, there's so much I don't know right now. The dude could still be in the picture. She might, and likely does, have an actual side piece if he's not. What if she just got a little tipsy and wanted some young dick?

I need to stop fantasizing about seeing her again - because I've literally been doing that since Sunday. It's much more healthy to look at what the night was: two people having fun, having sex, and enjoying each other. The wind shall blow how it chooses.

That said, I did text her yesterday. I think that despite this being "the new way I text", I over invested at the end with the sheer number of texts, plus it was getting late and gives her the excuse of falling asleep. She sent me 7 texts, and I sent 16 - sounds stupid but it matters.

Texts here:
Tuesday 5:49 PM
Me: hola (=
Me: how's your day going?

7:27
Her: Hey! It's going.. it's been a long one and I'm hangry lol
Her: How about yours?

8:57 - somehow I always accidently text back at fuckboy seeming times like an exact hour or something
Me: and I'm hangry? lol
Me: is that your version of hungry or angry-hungry

9:13 PM
Her: Definitely angry hungry. (punctuation makes me think somethings up)
Me: either way you inventing the word is cute haha
Me: been long for me too, almost out at work and ready to lay down
Her: How is it there during the day on a random Tuesday?
Me: well we do have a boujee tequila deal for tues(;
Me: not till late though
Me: I can't remember, are you much of a tequila gal?
Her: Only in half shots or margs. I usually just stick with beer though or I get real crazy lol
Me: haha what kind of crazy? (=
Her: Usually not the good kind.. or so I'm told haha
Me: well a dash of crazy
Me: keeps things from getting boring
Me: haha so you're saying sometimes it is the good kind?
(Now 11:06) Her: Lol possible.. worth the risk?
Me: I think so
Me: we'll have to pick a night, and properly sip tequila
Me: while I hold you back from ripping your half shots ;P

Then she ghosted. It's reasonable to think she fell asleep and woke up busy the next morning. She owns a business so I get that.

Still. It could also be an error on my part. I'll try to make my texts as condensed as possible, like I'm cutting out words for the rubric on a damn essay.

But either way.. I need to either get it in with someone new or properly distract myself because she keeps popping in my head.

As of now, I'll probably call her tomorrow since that's much more practical with keeping the connection going.

Plus I want to hear her voice. Ahhh see the dissonance? Should I attempt to diminish this? I've only seen her twice for christ's sake.

Koala
Still haven't heard from her.. may ping her tomorrow with a "hey how's that cold doing (= " if she doesn't text me first.

If she can't I'll just say "no biggie, I'll make some other plans" then be silent until next week.


Classroom Game
Okay so...

Preselection is setting in.

I arrive early to lab because I've lost my manual. There's a girl who I chat with in the beginning and make a sex joke that lands well. Some small talk and then she has to eject to get work done. When she's gone, another girl sits next to me. Cute brunette with nice legs. Lab begins in about 20 minutes so people are starting to pour in.

She's wearing the sweat pants with a logo from my old school. I open by poking her leg on the logo. She takes her headphones out and I go, "[school]?". We talk about how we both went there, why we transferred, the bar scene, coming here and making new friends, and she's somewhat shy so it's about a 40-60% conversation exchange rate. She's trying to get into nursing but could see herself doing teaching (what I'm starting to hear a lot now).

At one point the first girl I was talking with comes back and tries to but into conversation, but I don't even look at her when she does and she ejects like 10 seconds later. Preselection :P :p :P

During the bar conversation she said that old dudes, dads, would come into the bar she liked sometimes. I know they were probably just undercovers, but instead ask if she talked to them. She said no but her friend hooked up with one. I laugh and ask if she called him daddy. She starts blushing and laughs too. I can feel eyes on us and there's a lot of people in the room outside the several different labs now. I still haven't touched her once. I see my usual target eavesdropping with an eye dart and wonder the effect this will have since I never texted her Tuesday.

The conversation is hitting a stale point so I eject to try to find my T.A. in the other part of the hall. He's not there so I putz for another 20 seconds or so then return. It's good I did this because it released a little bit of tension and a need to keep the conversation going when it may have been about to crash into a wall. When I come back this asian dude is using my spot for his backpack so I have to sit closer to her. Perfect.

When I do sit down and see what section shes in. She just got transferred to mine. I realize I haven't gotten her name. Summer is what I'll call her. I go for the hand grab and get a solid one, and she starts to blush and smile. Apparently she was in my sub lecture on Monday and the conversation ends with me teasing that she's just so hard to miss, or something. Vibe is great.

We enter lab and I start talking with my target again. Super bland. She's just not engaged. At first I think it's me, but I caught her eye balling me before lab started... then we were lab partners and she'd occasionally flash me these looks of excitement. But conversation (both her tone and dialogue) was just super lame. At the end of lab I ask her where she's going and she quickly spits out a "home." so I just say "peace out".

I semi-try to wait for Summer but decide I shouldn't just sit and wait here. Hindsight I could have done some shit on my computer I guess, but whatever. I'll try to grab her at lecture tomorrow and if not I'll see her Monday.

But with my original target, as I did wait around I heard her on the phone, and she speaks the exact same way. Very stiff, very bland. Hmm.

I wonder if she's just.. not very animated. And that might even be part of why I'm into her, because her IOI's are way more subtle haha. Or maybe I'm just using self-serving bias. Idk, who cares. Plenty of fish in this lake.



EDIT: Aaaaand that's it^

Top of this reply = "omg I can't stop thinking about Venice she's so special"

Bottom of this reply = "yea she's not engaging me all that well. next"

That's what absolute abundance is. I do have abundance mentality, generally speaking. With those girls I consider really high quality, well yea I'm not there yet. But the first step in doing that is applying the framework to top notch girls, as I work on my fundamentals and game. Glad I wrote this out.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby fog » Thu Sep 13, 2018 2:06 pm

Hue wrote:Texts here:
Tuesday 5:49 PM
Me: hola (=
Me: how's your day going?

7:27
Her: Hey! It's going.. it's been a long one and I'm hangry lol
Her: How about yours?

8:57 - somehow I always accidently text back at fuckboy seeming times like an exact hour or something
Me: and I'm hangry? lol
Me: is that your version of hungry or angry-hungry

9:13 PM
Her: Definitely angry hungry. (punctuation makes me think somethings up)
Me: either way you inventing the word is cute haha
Me: been long for me too, almost out at work and ready to lay down
Her: How is it there during the day on a random Tuesday?
Me: well we do have a boujee tequila deal for tues(;
Me: not till late though
Me: I can't remember, are you much of a tequila gal?
Her: Only in half shots or margs. I usually just stick with beer though or I get real crazy lol
Me: haha what kind of crazy? (=
Her: Usually not the good kind.. or so I'm told haha
Me: well a dash of crazy
Me: keeps things from getting boring
Me: haha so you're saying sometimes it is the good kind?
(Now 11:06) Her: Lol possible.. worth the risk?
Me: I think so
Me: we'll have to pick a night, and properly sip tequila
Me: while I hold you back from ripping your half shots ;P

Then she ghosted. It's reasonable to think she fell asleep and woke up busy the next morning. She owns a business so I get that.


Hue this could be a pattern forming..correct me if im mistaken, but lighter ghosted you as well after you suggested a second meetup as well, and it was the exact same scenario...post-sex texting. could easily be a coincidence tho.

to me i feel as though your suggestions to meet up are a tad random and out of the blue...what about using a focussed yes ladder to build up some compliance and get some buy-in prior to suggesting a meet?
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Thu Sep 13, 2018 4:32 pm

@songfog bird

Hue this could be a pattern forming..correct me if im mistaken, but lighter ghosted you as well after you suggested a second meetup as well, and it was the exact same scenario...post-sex texting. could easily be a coincidence tho.

My post-sex texting definitely needs work. It's a major sticking point for me with girls who have a lot of options. Lighter specifically I barely texted before I asked her to hang - and I'm realizing that's too business like for most college girls.

to me i feel as though your suggestions to meet up are a tad random and out of the blue...what about using a focussed yes ladder to build up some compliance and get some buy-in prior to suggesting a meet?

I agree, in retrospect!

My thought process during texting her was "shit she's about to go to bed because she runs a company, better ask her out before that". The yes ladder was attempted with the "are you a tequila gal?" because she likes to drink. If I had the confidence there'd be more time to converse I would have tried to draw out that buy-in as you suggested, and that's what seemed to work when I texted her the night I layed her.

I've decided I'm gonna ping her and call her on Friday, since me deciding to not text Koala has her coming over later tonight - she more than likely enjoyed me not texting her after she said she'd get back to me.



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Venice is a girl. There are many like her. And these fantasies I've built up in my head, are simply illusions.

Meditation>>>>>>

That said I'm gonna play my game of chess to bend over the queen and stick it in her ass.


Have Koala coming over tonight, and a concert I'm going to tomorrow. No drinking until Saturday night for my hefty tests, other than a few drinks with la mamacita.

Interestingly enough, there was an open chair to my left and two open chairs to my right in lecture today. Weird lol. Not too worried about it, but every other day girls have been on both sides of me - it's like a 200 student lecture.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Fri Sep 14, 2018 12:55 am

Koala
Good sex with Koala. Took longer to get started than I expected, but she came multiple times in a 30-40 minute session. Great ass.

She's... not as much of my type as I thought? Idk. Something about the way she keeps shit testing me and playing games is unattractive to me, in the way she's doing them. I think it's because it's so obvious she's testing me. For example she wanted to have me walk her to her car, and while I didn't directly say I would (I walked a step more in my hallway), immediately after she pulled out against it. Or maybe she does want me to walk her to her car, but knows I'm not trying to be in a super romantic thing with her and is following that part of my frame? Hard to say.

She told me multiple times I look like her old boyfriend. I flat out lied to her about me having graduated. I did have enough credits to graduate, but for professional reasons knew my current track was the better one. So, while I strongly dislike lying to her like this, it's not a huge deal.

She wants to be fuck buddies. I told her that it's better to have no expectations, but I certainly like fucking her and think she's cool, to which she said the same back. Only problem is she seemingly doesn't have enough energy to fuck more than once :P

I have no problem with fucking her brains out until she finds someone she wants a serious thing with, in the mean time.

Venice
Right at the end of Koala being over, Venice texts me to see if I'm working. She wanted to meet up again. I hadn't texted her back. Here are the texts:
10:22 PM
Her: Are you working tonight

11:15 PM
Me: I am not
Me: what's up
Her: Just wondering.. I was out a little and I don't have [child] tonight so I was going to stop by
Me: ah well I'm home right now
Her: Gotcha.. I just came home
Her: Next time..
Me: ya I'd like to see you again


So... good that she wants to meet again. Bad that she's taking the dominant position as someone who can text me out of the blue after ignoring my texts. I hope she respects me for my responses, and I can plan a day with her, rather than complete spontaneity.

I mean, what was I to do? Kick out Koala and then drive to go fuck Venice? I'm not desperate or that large of douche.

Do want to see her though...
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Sep 17, 2018 10:06 pm

Friday
Went to a concert. Didn't drink and studied all day. At the concert I talked to this girl I used to work with (they tried to match make us but it never happened) who last I saw her has a BF. She kept saying she was tired and wanted to go home and smiling at me so I thought maybe I could pull. We hung out at the concert and I had a good vibe, but my mechanical mind made me ask if she was single. After I found out she wasn't the vibe slowly went down and while we kept having fun she left shortly after.

Saturday
Was with the boys the whole day. Ran into B at a sports bar and didn't quite recognize her at first, then finally I waved her over and she came up to me excitedly. She's a super personality A type girl. Wanted my attention a lot. Easy to neg (though negging itself demands great calibration and delivery to be pulled off correctly). I talked with all her friends, but none of them were hot. B is like a light 7, strong 6 maybe but among these ugly girls she probably feels like a strong 8. It shows in her cockiness / entitled requests. I floated back and forth with them when I had to go get drinks.

We left to a different bar and I had a great time talking with my friends. Idk whether it's my confidence being so high lately or my deeper understanding of psychology of recent, but as I'm talking with King he suddenly showed insecurity and in need of my validation - which never happens. Part of me thinks that now his squad from college has most graduated and he's a 5th year (his scene is over) he's bugging out a bit. I don't want to stroke my own ego too much with this but in a way I'm just glad that I spent the past two years improving myself rather than moving up a social ladder in greek life. While King himself has developed quite a bit as a man it's easy to attribute success to an environment after an environmental change gives you strong emotions. I know this because I've been there.

I chatted up a few girls at the bar but they weren't hot enough to pull. My friends all went home and I stayed out and bar hopped. Everyone is SHITFACED from the game so I barely stayed at the first bar, then run into some friends at the second. I chat up one dudes sister and go kinda ham but quickly recognize that while she's interested she has a boyfriend and is with her friends and brother. I stop pursing and open some HB6 blonde standing next to me. She's cute and interested, but again I don't really have that large of a drive since she's not at least a 7.

Hung out with the guys and went home.

Sunday
New girl at work is fucking hot. She's into me, but she's an attention whore. Took me a few prodding questions and screening to quickly understand that she doesn't like to listen to other people talking and loves to have the stage. She goes out 5-6 times a week, too.

We all go out since it's her first night doing stuff. While we're at the bar, I witnessed some really funny shit about girls that autoreject because you're unattainable. There's this one girl we work with, she's like a 4. Super thirsty too - but doesn't have consistent dick so she's all over the place. The kinda girl that because she's never been chased by majority of guys doesn't really "get it".

So, we're all talking and she comes up to us at the bar and flirts heavy with the nice guy I work with (much more attainable) and I say something to her (not teasing or anything) and she gives me a weird look and says, "you... what are you doing? you have a chin strap!" commenting on my facial hair. I've had it for months lol. But, because this new girl is here, she wants to do what she can to lower my sexual value. Or I'm overthinking. This is just what my intuition says. I laugh in her face and just go "what??" because this was how I interpreted it and she get's nervous and quickly walks away.

Back to the new girl, I have a feeling that if I'm gonna get her, I have to move very fast. While we were out she was holding me and standing very close to me. She's definitely attracted. I was putting my hands on her legs periodically as well, and eye fucked the shit out of her a few times. But if I ever talked for more than 7 seconds she'd look away all bored. I would love to bend her over and fuck the shit out of her for what a bitch this chick is. There was a moment we were talking about dating and I was describing that I'm super direct and she was getting visibly turned on. Then this gay dude we're with gets WAY too drunk and can't walk, and everyone is helping him. I left with someone else to another bar because that's not my problem.

They find us again as we're leaving the bar and I just started getting texts from this girl I met at that music festival this summer. She wants to meet up because she's in town. I never thought I'd see her again, so of course I'm gonna fuck her.

I talk on the phone with her and we make plans to meet at this bar right next to my house. The new girl overhears so preselection's going. Once I get to my house I put my phone on the charger to wait for her text and put my head on the pillow, then pass the fuck out. She called me 14 times!

Monday
This morning I apologize for what happened and set up quick plans to meet before my class starts - she got a hotel. Totally flipped the texts on her. She comes over with food for both of us, we sit down, eat, make out and fuck. Sex was okay. LR coming soon.

At class I now have my two targets sitting next to me. The first is still a little weird and the second is much more into me and flirty but has a boyfriend. I know because I invited the second girl to get a drink with me after our exam today and her ASD came out. She said that she's down to hang out with me, and she hates it when people don't hang out because someone is dating. She said so in a way that made me think she's down to cheat with a little plausible deniability, and said we should go out this week. In time...
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Wed Sep 19, 2018 2:48 am

Tuesday

I'm notably less social after I have consistent sex. Possibly a testosterone thing, possibly a validation thing.


Went out with Day One, Plug, and this other dude. Once we were at the bar things got boring beyond Plug and I talking about our jobs at bars, which I enjoyed. I had planned to isolate Plug and I to differentiate ourselves from the other guys more-so (because it was already implicitly understood) and take the scene at more adult bars because of how well we mesh, but eventually Day One left unexpectedly and then Plug had to grab some things from a house he had planned on leaving them at.

Despite my attempt to get Plug and I back at the bar together, mainly to pull, he decided to head home early. Most likely a better move for him. At the end we agreed to rock the scene we both work at on a good night for both of us.

After things fizzled out with my guys I went back out solo.

Approached a few groups, but never felt a quick hook. Ran into Lipstick again but she was being a bitch. Her friend, an HB6, which I usually ignore, I ended up talking to and actually enjoying the conversation thoroughly. She started to describe certain things to me about Lipstick's narcissism and it fucking opened my mind to the reality of the situation.

This bitch is an attention whore, and treats her friends like shit because she is good enough at pulling guys that most dudes (even very masculine dudes I know by name) have to fight over her. Fuck, man. Either she treats me as a lower value guy or she hates the fact that I don't buy into her games. Female Player alert, holy shit.

I guess I kinda had an idea that she was gamey.. definitely.. but not on the level her friend described to me. I end up leaving with the friend and sitting down for a while and talking. Tried to get her home and she was interested but had a boyfriend. Wouldn't lay down with me and gaze at the stars. So, not good compliance. Got her number.

Regardless good experience and insightful.


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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Fri Sep 21, 2018 9:29 am

Wednesday
HB9 Bartender is flirting with me and trying to hold me during after shift drinks at the bar I work at. Talked to one of the OG guys leaving and he gave me advice on game. Also realized how far I have to go if I actually want to be a bartender here. Going to talk to my manager about what I need to do to get there, long term based.

Approached a girl from another bar but she was awkward to carry conversation with.

Thursday

LR: Fuck Me On This Porch

That club I'm apart of now had to cancel their party. I turned to some of my looser friends to get the night started and had a good time. Most of them didn't know me but I did my best to make friends. Mostly guys & girls who were dating.

Went to my favorite dive by myself and talked to a guy who studies RSD. Meant to get his number but after talking about pick up for a little bit lost him. Explained GC very briefly. Hopefully he checks the main site out.

Almost immediately after talking to this guy I open a two set of an HB7 blonde and her brunette friend. I think I just opened by walking up to them slowly and smiling, then saying hey. Spent equal time with each of them at first, and kept the conversation going in a good direction. Then this weird dude with a backpack started creeply standing next to us and just staring at the brunette, like directly in our bubble.

The blonde, Bomber, asked me if I knew the guy and I said no I didn't, possibly assuming the brunette did. I said a few words to him and he just stared at me so I said to the girls that we should go outside to sit on a bench instead, and Bomber is super down. We get in there and clarify that no one knew the guy and it being fucking weird lol.

Then I sit down with the two and keep talking. I still spend equal time with them but I'm a bit more physical with Bomber now that she's given me compliance. She has to get a new drink and so we pop into the bar, just us two. Here I have her offer to buy my drink and get a water. Once she pays for them I take her aside and say I just want to talk to her, then deep dive her about her original motivations with becoming a nurse. At the end I manhandle kiss her, and then we go back to her friend who's been waiting on us.

Once we're back her friend almost immediately leaves for pizza and so we keep flirting and talking. Something comes up about diet and we have a fun little argument where I was able to show that I hold frame when I think something - not too serious and playful the whole time though. Bomber leaves for the bathroom and I clarify with her friend that she's single. She smiles and says she is. When bomber comes back I'm slowly but surely more physical with her, now touching her legs and sitting closer to her.

The brunette eventually says it's time for me to get Bomber's number. Lol fuck that. I keep talking to them and figure out that we live very close to eachother and frame their house as a cool adventure for me that I need to see, calling it the "trap palace" or some shit. There's a little bit of resistance from both of them but I keep my frame as a kind of a fratty dude and persist - they were into it so I played that card. Lately I've been for more romantic, but these girls seemed to like the friendly, somewhat smart, bro vibe I was giving off so I kept it.

We start to leave together and the friend walks up much further ahead of us because she has to pee. I make this an opportunity to make out with Bomber and escalate further, now grabbing her ass and pulling her into me. I also do my "Shadow" gambit and explain how I understand she's both a nice person and a bitch. She says she's more of a bitch and I frame her as being so nice to me from the start which she melts right into because she likes me so much. Right after, I cement that her and I are gonna have fun at her house, and regardless of how it goes down we'll figure it out. She says her friend needs her attention because she's only visiting this weekend and I say we'll both have a good time with her before we decide to get selfish. She smiles excitedly and we hold hands, walking to her house.

Once we're there we smoke a bowl and I give the friend a little more attention, and once we're kinda high I suggest to Bomber to give me a tour of her house, walking into the kitchen where we make out and then onto the patio. We're out there for all of two seconds before I have her sitting on the railing and we start hooking up much harder. She's getting super wet because I'm teasing the fuck out of her and she's stroking my dick.

I clarify that she wants me to fuck her right there and she starts saying "yes, fuck me". To make it hotter and cement compliance & consent I keep saying shit like "yea? you want me to fuck you right here?" while undressing her and she's moaning as we make out saying, "just fuck me. fuck me right here on the porch. I want you inside me". While this is super hot and I'm getting turned on, I'm pretty fucking hammered. I did slip it in but I could only get half up because of whiskey dick.

We get butt-fucking-naked on her porch (which is in a very exposed area mind you lol) and she's sucking me off. I still can't get a good torque so I suggest we fuck on the ground. She's down and I move her to the gravel but same shit, my dick isn't hard enough. She says it's fine if we move to her room (despite saying that definitely wasn't an option earlier because her friend). We've been outside for so long by the time we come back in the friend is sleeping >:)

Things move to sex almost instantly in her room, but I can't get up! I finger blast the shit out of her and we hang out and talk, hooking up all the while. After about 2 hours of this (persistence boys!) and after I've agreed to fuck her in the morning, my dick starts to work. I fuck her in multiple positions for a while until she's soaking. She has a hard time cumming in general, and because of our height differences some of my usual moves are more difficult. No biggie, she was soaking fucking wet and loved every second of it. After sex we talk and joke, laughing our asses off because we're both stoned. Some cool real talk about life, if I recall correctly.

The next morning we wake up and 69, to reverse cowgirl, to doggy. Great ass and knows how to throw it back. We keep the good vibe going and she's super easy to get along with. Not really interested in FB's or anything, but I had a great time. I have her walk me out and get her number, but then my phone dies so now she'll think I just ghosted her :P

Ah well. Good times.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby fog » Sat Sep 22, 2018 6:33 pm

Hue wrote:Eventually, she asks my age. I dance around it and try to make her guess, then get her's, 27 (she looks 23, tops). I'm 22 and have noticed this getting a poorer reaction with girls about 25 so I dance until she presses on it hard then tell her guess is right when she finally guesses it.

She pulls back like *omg* and laughs in her hands - which is a great sign. This means she's definitely thinking I'm attractive / likes me, but is trying to rationalize why she shouldn't. She's laughing and smiling about it though, so I know she's interested. She goes, "are you really 22?" and I respond, "can you really not handle me? (; " and she giggles even harder.


Hue wrote:While sitting with her we kiss a couple times, and then talk about what traits we like with each other. She tries to tease me about being young again and I ignore it. We keep hanging and holding each other, then get up and go to my bar after mingling with the others for a bit.


Huedini, when you first met Koala she was initially giving you slight resistance over your age towards the start of your interaction.

Then later on, she gave you more resistance/a test at a point where the courtship has already moved on from that stage...now you're in the comfort building stage and things are getting physical, but she's trying to push things backwards.

Is there a general reason why girls try to move things backward like this in the comfort building stage? How often does it happen? And when it does happen, is it because of a mistake you made that makes her doubt you a little, or does it just occur randomly?
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Postby Hue » Sun Sep 23, 2018 8:19 pm

Then later on, she gave you more resistance/a test at a point where the courtship has already moved on from that stage...now you're in the comfort building stage and things are getting physical, but she's trying to push things backwards.

Is there a general reason why girls try to move things backward like this in the comfort building stage?


She knows that "she's not supposed" to like me as much as she does, so she feels cognitive dissonance. Once a person has cognitive dissonance that person needs to revisit ground they already covered cognitively at some point and either adopt a new / nuanced belief or revert back to the originally held "stance". The latter tends to be more common on logic VS logic issues, but with emotion VS logic issues (her liking me and comfort being built VS her thinking she shouldn't like younger guys), emotion wins out because of peripheral thinking in this scenario - people are out socially and having fun.

How often does it happen? And when it does happen, is it because of a mistake you made that makes her doubt you a little, or does it just occur randomly?

Depends on the girl and her views, or perhaps some other factors that made her perceive something you said or did as incongruent with what you meant to say or do. So, some of why it happens can be understood as a "mistake" like if you stuttered on your answer by happenstance and now she thinks you're hiding something (ultimately a product of your fundamentals) and some are literally just random like if she had a bad interaction with some guy who was wearing the same Yankees hat as you that day.

Either way if you detect something you can either ignore it completely and hold your frame to the point that your attempted frame eventually does win her over, or you can do mental gymnastics / intuitively understand how you may have came off, then implicitly say something that negates or out-muscles the weight of whatever originated the problem. For example you may have said something that could have come off as racist, you sense her discomfort, and weave in an open-minded or racially-unbias comment into your conversation.

With her specifically I chose to ignore it but eventually as we were talking I think I mentioned how I like hanging out with older people far more than my peers at school because of the maturity level. It was a genuine comment. This implicitly says I'm mature, whether I'm oh-so-mature or not, and unless she's highly skeptical and thinks I'm just being manipulative it will likely make her reframe me as more mature in her head, thus easing the cognitive dissonance about the appropriateness of her liking someone my age.

I should note that this is why GC's mentality of "improve yourself to become the guy who she wants to fuck" is superior to the old-school tactic-based PUA mentality of "say the right things and get laid" because the real deal who's genuinely strong, open minded, sexy, etc. will always crush a cardboard cut-out version of that guy. Most high quality girls can smell bullshit so going the route of exuding what you are not (a facade) is usually less effective.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Sun Sep 23, 2018 9:11 pm

Friday
Good day with Day One and some other friends. I was with Sweet Bro's but eventually left. Also need to stop talking about girls and pussy so much because even though I don't mean to do it in a braggadocios way and I think I'm just talking about it it comes off as douchey and like I'm trying to impress.

We got way too drunk though and out of nowhere he was upset about his girl and ditched. I just went out and stumbled into these rappers I know and bar hopped with them. I felt like I was doing good socially but also things were very patchy so hard to say. Decided I was too drunk and ubered home.

Saturday
Worked a great shift and was feeling very social at the end. Texted Venice about meeting up and she came to visit me in the bar and I was nervous about seeing her again because I worried "what if I can't recreate things" but the moment I saw her it went away completely. I had so much shit to do towards the end she ended up leaving to another bar about 20 minutes before I clocked out. This gave me more time to get into a social mood, and right as she was walking out she grabbed me, I said I'd text her and she yelled to me to meet her at this bar.

RIGHT after that I hear the super hot bartender (who's been much more flirty with me as of late) start talking about me to the other bartender. In fact, I had overheard girl coworkers talking about me the entire day, in one way or another. The hot bartender, I believe, said "does Hue know her? yea he said he'd text her and she yelled back to meet him at X" and I look over and the other bartender is staring at me muttering something. After I did sit at the bar this blonde we're all friends with came to hug me and was pushing her tits into me so hard and being extra touchey. I was chatting with the brunette to me as well and she was very receptive to me.

After all this the hot bartender was cold with me while serving me my drinks and this third bartender that just quit, who talks shit about me behind me back, and who used to fuck the hot bartender started being a dick to me. As he left the area of the bar I was hanging out with he told me "okay, see you later little boy!". There's a lot going on with what I think about all of this and it would take me a long time to explain and write it all out.

Generally, I think the hot bartender is being cautious to showing interest in my direction because this is social circle and get's convoluted emotions with preselection and me being "hot" right now - as there's a lot of shit talked about me at work (and people tell me this all the time). That's the double edge sword of the player reputation, and what's so polarizing about it. The only solution that's been working for me is to be kind to everybody and keep my successes up so they don't have a reason to hate me :P


Anyways, I keep being social and make a new friend, then leave on a high note and head to the bar Venice is at. She says she'll be coming out of the bathroom so I position myself to catch her and lead her to where I want to stand. It goes fine and I lead her outside, where we stand and talk. She's looking very attractive and we rehash a little bit going over the weekend. She's being more sassy and teasey with me now which is fun. Her friend comes up and I totally nail talking to her as a confident individual and remain friendly, until eventually letting the two friends start to talk. There's no point for me to lead all three of us - I want the conversation to break up so that Venice and I are alone again.

Once we are we play this game at the bar and she's never played. She's very competitive so it's fun and teasing is easy because I have to instruct her until she catches on. It's a close game, but I win, and I kiss her after this. She says she needs another drink and I lead her to the bar. When I look back as we're walking she's beaming at me (=

At the bar we buy our own drinks after wiggling up to the front and we people watch, creating dialogues among the people on the opposite side of the bar. It's fun and goofy. I walk us back somewhere else and we keep talking and flirting, where I use more touch. She says she has to go to the bathroom and I have to go was well. We both go and I tell her where I'll be standing. The second she comes out I manhandle kiss her and then suggest we sit down. We find a more private area and sit with eachother closely, making out here and there.

I invite her to my house and meet some resistance because I know that she doesn't want to go to a college area / not be sleeping in her own bed. I persist a little bit and then say I'm going to call the uber so she jumps aboard. We keep talking then get to the uber and head there. We talk and kiss in the uber. At my house we have drinks and talk and kiss, then eventually start hooking up. I make her cum from eating her out before fucking her. Great sex, again. I made some conversational mistakes thorough the night and make a really bad one in the morning with this waaay too fratty frat comment and there was a clear dip in attraction after that. I had already fucked her brains out this morning, but it was one of those moments where it leaves your lips and then you go "ahhh fuck".

I do get her laughing again though, and then end up fucking her again. It was a full on work out and she came multiple times from adapted missionary. She laughed how useless she was because she could barely move while I just kept going to town on here lol. I'm almost late for work because I didn't kick her out fast enough, but before I jump in the shower I make sure she knows her way out and walk into the bathroom, then walk back out, manhandle kiss her with a smile, then pop in.

Since I have to take the bus I run out of my house and see her sitting on the ledge, uber not there yet. I smile at her like an idiot while I'm running and she makes kind of an amused face with a slight smile. Blah lbal lbalh for whatever reason I think it's romantic enough detail.

We also talked about the whole marriage thing at some point and she's getting shafted financially because of divorce bullshit - the guy sounds like kind of a shit, but they are sharing the kid so.. idk. Not my place to say all that much about it, I mostly listened.


Work

Heavier flirting with the new girl. Plan to see her out on Thursday and try to bang her. She stares at me at work and I caught her right at the end when I was talking out in some fly shit looking at me HARD before I said bye.

Searching for another bar to find a place to bartend part time.


I'm so fucking exhausted though. Just drank from Tuesday - Saturday and had two very late nights because of Bomber and Venice. Koala was too busy with side hustle projects tonight and had to flake.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Wed Sep 26, 2018 10:09 pm

Confirmed that when I drink for multiple days in a row (when I decide to do the Tuesday - Saturday benders) I'm still feeling the dulling effects by the tuesday afterward. Imagine that. And I still have FOMO partly because of women and partly because I like to party.

A large part of me is saying "hang up your spurs and get serious about other things in life" because I've done so well recently and been neglecting other areas. I think it may be a good choice. At the same time, I fell like if I stop now I won't hit true abundance. I have abundance mentality, and this past month has been abundant. But, if I pull back and stop this near-constant meta-cognition both about myself and others, will I fall off?

Perhaps yes, but perhaps I'll come back with something to bring after being out of game for a bit then starting the engines again. Boy do those first approaches suck, but they get the rust off your sword and sharpen it.

After this semester I'll have graduated and I can choose to either:

A). Get a job as a paid research assistant and work a 9-5
B). Keep researching for free and go full time at my bar
C). Start saving now (and going out less) to focus on traveling for a month or two

A would set me up the most for the next few years professionally and I can't deny the opportunity if it presents itself.

B would be the very fun and give me the most social experience, and be a true last "hurrah" before entering an arena where this partying and going out all time time stops. But I always tell myself "this will be the last time" so.. :P

C would probably be the most fun but also require the most amount of discipline since there's always a hole in my wallet and I always have FOMO.


Just some thoughts I wanted to get down, as I've been thinking a lot about my Grand Strategy recently. I've proved to myself that I can get high quality women if I work hard enough, which means that I can do a lot of things if I set my mind to it. So, I feel the need to set my mind to another area of growth that I haven't gone deeply in yet. I suppose my intellectual spear needs sharpening, so I may begin to grind out my psych and philosophy muscles before graduate school to make me a contender in the classroom since it's competitive from the application process to graduation. Kinda feel like an imposter intellectual whenever I'm around actually intelligent people and their recall is far superior to my recognition skills.


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Sooo, my target is really cold recently and might be friendzoning me. But I noticed she doesn't really talk to other girls in the class. I think she's kind of awkward, but I can bring out the social part of her if I try hard enough - I can't let that be an excuse for me not fucking her, she's hot.

The plan b chick as a boyfriend and once I started to make harder moves her ASD spikes up and she's skeptical so I'm going to back off with her for a while.

There's two other girls I'm eyeing and one really hot brunette I've noticed has her eye on me.

Venice
Sent her this article I found yesterday with a teasing text and got a good response back. I'm trying to make her my girlfriend (open) so I'll be reading up on that.

Koala
She flaked on Sunday and was a slow respondee today. Wants to hang Friday. Won't respond until tomorrow then I'll try to fuck her before I go out. If I can make her cum without me cumming I will so that I can keep my T super high (lol wow that would sound so bizarre to anyone outside of this community).


Party tomorrow, work parts of Fri, Sat, Sun but will still be going out. Let's finish September strong!
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Alcman » Thu Sep 27, 2018 4:14 pm

Hue wrote:I'll try to fuck her before I go out. If I can make her cum without me cumming I will so that I can keep my T super high.


Haha, fucking legend! Let us know if you manage to do it.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Tue Oct 02, 2018 9:35 pm

@Alcman I did not unfortunately because of the STI :P
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Tue Oct 02, 2018 10:13 pm

Okay couple updates.

Girls in general

Girls are opening me, looking at me, being nicer at work, being touchier at work, and going closer to my proximity. Really crazy how this shit works. Must be careful with letting my ego get into it, but I do enjoy it.

At the same time with all this supreme court shit going on I'm kind of scared to go and be a hound. Also my friends have expressed their annoyance with me leaving them at the bar to go talk to girls. I honestly get more energy and have more fun with talking to chicks then some of the guys I hang out with who would rather sit at a table and enjoy our drinks. Don't get me wrong I have fun doing that, but I'm far more vivacious when I'm off chatting up a group of chicks, I just am!

So all this has my mind telling my instinct to calm down... during the time that I've more or less never had so much momentum.

A bit chaotic and confusing.

Koala
STI. She said she slept with one other person, so it either came from that guy, or it came from Venice. This means I also might have given it to Bomber, who I now have no way of telling. Used a condom with that girl from the festival, so no biggie there.

We met at the bar and she took forever to meet up with me. Before this I talked to two of my coworkers hot friends and got one of their numbers. Asked for the number in a slightly weird way, but was "macking game" according to my other coworkers. I had a good time. Texted one of them the next day but never set things to meet up.

After I finally met up with her I was kinda drunk, and she was being a little less than receptive because of the STI situation. Was being weird about me kissing her at the bar. Eventually bounced to another bar then invited her home but she said she wouldn't have sex with me - and I said it was fine that we hang out and not have sex (which I get why is bad, but she's never had and STI and obviously wants it gone asap).

The weird thing is, and I'm still wrapping my head around this because I'm not good at relationships I've come to realize, she didn't want to go home so I said "okay, I'm gonna go home then" and she started chasing and saying that I was pissed and blah blah blah. Like the same dynamic of pulling a new chick works with this, even though she didn't want sex. Girls are weird, tryna figure it out.

I call myself and uber and she latches on to me and demands she comes. We get back to my house and hang, make out, move to the bed and get into foreplay but no sex.

A lot of shit testing. She says she wants to take it slower. I don't understand because we've already had sex. She calls me a man whore and that I sleep with sluts. I tell her "please don't talk about the other women I sleep with like that I really don't appreciate it", right before we fall asleep. Same morning more or less the same thing. I think the reason she wouldn't have sex really is the STI - she was horny as hell and I had her wet, but why is she saying things about taking it slower?

Guys in relationships or past relationships, if you understand, halp?


Venice
Texted her yesterday. Want to see her this week. May type up texts if significant things happen.


Lighter
Texted her yesterday to meet weak replies and ghosting :P

Work
Got a girls number after telling her she had a great smile. Texted them after I got off but asked to meet up waaay to quickly and botched it. Making a note of this. Have to get them comfortable with me first and play with the idea of meeting me outside of work, then strike.

Class
Target isn't interested. Plan B chick approached and sat down with me, and we flirted the whole class. I saw one of the other girls in my class out and looking hot and made plans to go up to her after for an insta date.

My dumb ass didn't go where the wind was blowing with Plan B chick and instead floated around after class, letting Plan B girl slowly walk away (and totally waiting for me to walk with her, playing with her headphones, swaying her hips, all HUGE IOI's) but I stuck with my plan for this other girl.

I was really sloppy because I was walking through the doors to find her, then she walked out, and I just 180 and start walking with her. She tells me she has mono and is acting all awkward, I try to put a positive spin on it before changing subjects and right when I'm about to this hot blonde dude rides up on a skateboard and she gets excited and starts talking to him instead, telling me that she'll see me later.

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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Thu Oct 04, 2018 5:22 pm

A week ago today I went out with my buddy and we had a pretty great time to start with. I was talking with a lot of people making friends, and had a lot of people being submissive to me.

One girl who I met at essentially the same party last month was talking to me, then I stopped to talk to her hotter friend. Meanwhile the first girl starts talking to my friend and telling him a crazy bullshit story about what she does for a living. It was incongruent, had holes all over it, and was clearly a pile of shit falling out of her mouth.

My buddy tells me and I move us inside. Later on I'm more drunk and making fun of the girl while she was like 15 ft from me, laughing. Something I almost never do. I say shit to your face. But, I decided not to last week. The girl heard me and gave me a strange look.

Later on I go up to her friend to try and pull her to another bar and this bullshitter girl makes a super uncalibrated attempt to shoo me off, and I handle it cool and calmly and stay. Then she says that my girl (who I know is single from our converstaion earlier) has a boyfriend. Okay bitch, methinks you saw me talking shit and are trying to sabotage me now. We do end up leaving to another bar with me leading, but along the way I can tell that my girl isn't gonna do anything tonight so I back off.

My buddy then starts to try and pull her. He eventually was somewhat isolated with her and touched her shoulder, then her necklace. The girl goes, "stop. you're sexually harassing me and touching my boobs". Didn't. Fucking. Happen.

So my buddy gets scared/upset because of everything in the news, finds me and tells me, and we leave. Fuck that shit.


Fast Forward


Yesterday I'm serving my tables, and my old coworker (fucking love the guy) shows up with the "sexually assaulting me" bitch and I treat both of them very well and exchange hugs before getting their drinks. While we chit chat, she BRINGS UP a guy trying to sexually assault her last week, while looking at me weird. And she twisted the story further.

Bitch. You're trying to impress my old coworker, by crying sexual assault. Fuck you.

I almost told her off, but instead kept charming them, got my tip, talked to my homie, then they left.

Scary times we live in. Be careful dudes.



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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby lostnumber » Sat Oct 06, 2018 3:22 pm

You're a monster Hue! Wish I'd been this productive while I was in college.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Sun Oct 07, 2018 2:50 am

@lostnumber

Lost you for a sec bro!! Glad you're alive for fucks sake.

If by productive you mean insane I'm 100% in agreement with you.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby lostnumber » Sun Oct 07, 2018 8:06 pm

Hue wrote:@lostnumber

Lost you for a sec bro!! Glad you're alive for fucks sake.

If by productive you mean insane I'm 100% in agreement with you.


I settled down with a girl for around a year and drifted out of the community. My level of involvement tends to be directly proportional to how single I am at the time.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Sun Oct 07, 2018 11:51 pm

I settled down with a girl for around a year and drifted out of the community. My level of involvement tends to be directly proportional to how single I am at the time.

That.. tends to happen.

Been thinking a lot recently about that exact phenomena - people that, as soon as they get good, they disappear completely from seduction everything.

I'm watching my meta-cognition all the time and see myself drifting as well.. mostly out out of

A). finding a girl I really like
B). acknowledging how much work I've put in and what I could turn that sort of productivity to
C). my friends are getting pissed at me for being such a slut and having a "let's talk to chicks" attitude
D). consistent pussy (unless it's all new pussy) satisfying my sex drive

I've also spoken enough "radical" ideas (unfamiliar ideas / unconventional lessons you learn from doing this stuff) now that I have had a few people have question my origination of thought. A bit of sloppiness on my part, but nonetheless I'm seeing the consequences of growth that exists in any generation of growth. Slightly paranoid, of recent.


Anyway, glad to see you back here brotha. Hope to see the insights you've gained over the past year.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Oct 08, 2018 12:26 pm

Koala
Texts have had less investment since the STI thing - which wasn't me despite 4 different partners last month. And I don't have it, still, which is great.

But it sorta.. taints the FB development I was going for. She's in another state right now but will be returning next week when I'll try to set her coming over up.

Guarantee some of her friends don't approve of me, though.

Venice
She flaked on me Saturday without explanation, then texted me to meet on Sunday. I gave less investments with my texts, but was out anyways so agreed. Then she flaked again, because her kid was sick - which is a legit reason.

But gah, I so dislike putting up with flakes. It's one of those things that I'd rather just next the girl, but I don't want to next her. I know that I could though.. which is the important part. Her reason was a good one, so there's that.

To text her casually this week or to not text her at all, since she should be the instigator of our next meet up... and I think she leaves for vacation soon, so... hard tight rope to walk. :P



After she flaked I went out with industry people, had a fun time, made some favorable impressions on some gals I had formerly creeped out back... 2ish years ago when I was just starting to go out alone on occasion. Had the bartender assume the hottest girl in the bar was dating me - but that could have been a flirtatious banter so who knows.

Have an easy week ahead of me. May go for the insta-date with Plan B girl in class, despite so obviously missing my window last monday.

Also just ordered some fresh ass clothes I can't wait to wear.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Oct 15, 2018 10:47 pm

Koala
Wrangled her back in with some persistence. Stayed the night last night.

She shit tests me a lot because she's so used to boyfriend screening. Again, she's been a serial monogamist until me, and then she tried having a ONS and got an STD haha. So, it sounds like it might take a second before she does that again.

One shit test in particular was her bringing up a guy from out of state that she met who keeps texting her. I just told her "get itttt" and she laughed and said no she wasn't interested. Then after sex, and after a story I told about this girl I know who was all over every guy at the party, who clearly wanted to fuck me but I knew her boyfriend and wasn't down, she shit tests me with this high sexual value bad boy guy.

She just met this guy from yoga who just got out of prison, with gang symbols and all this shit, jacked good looking black dude, and expressed she would love to talk to him more. Lol. I just kinda went "yeaa... " and told her about a guy I know who just got out of prison, and that it's dope when people can make it out and be successful.

I got her to invest in me in several ways, and I do like her. She's very cute and bubbly, and is quite the yogi so she's all zenned out. I enjoy her calm energy and she really likes my vibe as well (=


Venice
Good texting conversation, but she's a busy one. Lost's example text really helped me out, and did exactly what he said it would do.

I want to take her on a "real" date this Saturday. Gonna throw a post in General as to be sure I'm not looking at this the wrong way.

So, I want her to be my girlfriend. Perhaps with a side piece or two, but yea, I like her like that.

That said, I've been investing a lot with texting her, especially of recent. I send like 3 texts and only get 1-2 back, typically.

Potential problem is I have two tickets for a big game coming up, and I wanted to take her. But, I feel like this could either:
A). Give me too much provider value
B). Put attainability too high and cement the chasing position I might be inching towards (though she knows I have other women and I've ghosted her unintentionally a few times)
C). She might already be going to the game which would be a terrible frame for me

So I dunno.



Journal
Have noticed a dip in my T, which I'm low key addicted to lol. I can tell when I'm peaking my cycle (which is determined by orgasms) and it's definitely gone down since I've stepped back a bit from game.

I've gotten back to drinking too much because a few of my responsibilities have disappeared, so I have to create new responsibilities or else I'll lose focus, composure, and professional momentum. Been partying a LOT recently.

Gotten some bad reactions from some of my social circles because of arguments and/or being an asshole, too. People are talking shit on me again, apparently. Though, not giving a fuck is really the only option I have, along with taking how I come off without meaning to into consideration.

Wanna go back to strict schedules with
-studying
-dance lessons
-exercise, guitar
-reading
-possibly starting a club / joining a debate team

Strict schedules are literally the only way I can truly stick to things, and not make excuses. Will write mine up for the week right now.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Thu Oct 25, 2018 9:40 pm

Haven't journaled for a bit. Been crazy busy and wanted a little break from game.

As I've found though - I can't stay away haha.

Went to a seminar where the speaker was a feminist talking about masculinity in our culture and I was the only guy in attendance. I raised my hand after and spoke some of my thoughts which got a lot of praise from the girls in the class. Then one girl brought up sexual preferences between sexes and I played devil's advocate suggesting that girls are just as sexual as guys and then made a sex joke and you could feel the energy in the room - alotta girls giving me the eye after that.

Turned into an instadate with one of them where all I did was lead and let her tell me all about her life and family. Got her back to my house for a hookup but didn't get sex - and before she left she was pushing for a second date. She's been texting me almost nonstop since then.

Got a few leads with Tinder as well.


Koala
She booty called me last week and I ravaged her. She's still shit testing me like crazy. I pass it most always but I might have said some dumb, too drunk shit, bad calibration last time because I told her she was my slut outside the bedroom right after sex and she wasn't okay with it.

Now that I'm getting to know her as a person I actually remember some of the romance from our first night together. She's so cute and feminine.

Won't hit her up to fuck until next week.

Venice
I suck dick at texting. Might start a new journal soon to develop my skills, specifically for that.

Flakes, ghosts, etc. Just got a day-long response from her today. I'm gonna call her - fuck this shit. It's been weeks and I need to inject some actual conversation and emotions into whatever this relationship is (as of now, it's looking like a fling more than anything).


Got a lot on my mind with my future though. Hard to focus on game but the obsession of the female mind keeps me coming back ;P
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Oct 29, 2018 6:03 pm

Venice
Barely texting me back. Threw a hail mary and cold called her on Friday to try to meet up for Halloween - nothing.

Gonna have to ghost her now - it may have just been a fling :P

Koala
I cold called her on Saturday and had a very fun little chat on the phone, with loose plans of meeting up. Later in the night she called me, but I was seriously wasted and handled it poorly. Ended up calling her back hit/miss like 4 times like an idiot.

She texts me Sunday morning,
Her: Haha ooopps
Me: lol

6 hours later

Me: never got to see your costume
Her: Haha I knoww
Her: And I have zero pictures
Me: it would have just come off anyways(;
Her: Guaranteed


I wonder if she has an issue with the booty calling exuding my expectation to have sex if we're gonna see one another, her being new to the FB situation / dynamic.

I remember Hector saying once, "the day you feel entitled to pussy is the day you stop getting pussy". When we fuck we dirty talk with me saying "who's pussy is this?" and she tells me it's mine. She's a huge shit tester which shows me that she doesn't always mean what she says - and I could see this carrying over to her striking some level of issue with me coming off as entitled.

Or I'm overthinking it, perhaps.

Instadate Girl
She's inexperienced as hell. Double, triple texting me. And then there's this:
Her: And you do smell nice (inside joke) but you act and think a lot with your second head. Granted I don't have a serious problem with it and I think it's sexy as hell, you haven't warranted or earned the right responses from me yet. Good night *eye roll emoji*

Like, wtf lol.



Saw Lighter over halloweekend. She's fucking this punk with a jew fro. I can't believe it, honestly lol the kid is such a dweeb. Had to eject from the party - I just can't find my footing at college-age parties most of the time since I've mostly outgrown that scene. It's the people at the party that make it fun, and I wasn't enjoying conversation with underclassmen too much.

Basically got trashed with my homies in ridiculous costumes, it was really fun. A lot of approach invitations and almost pulled this HB6 but these other girls started hovering around her skeptically and it fucked up my vibe.

Went to an industry party last night with my gay friend. Was fun, and there was a lot of cool people. I want to hang with this scene more, because industry people are very socially aware and I'll grow from being with them - as well as the sexual market that's there. Everybody seems to know everybody at these things. I'm a new fish in the pond, so we'll see how this goes in the future. To be honest though, I feel like a lot of people are only friendly to me / try to pull my company because I'm good looking / sexy. Especially the gay guys. Idk though, I may just be attributing their behavior to the wrong things along with a little discomfort. So long as I'm confident in who I am and growing then it matters not.
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Postby Hue » Sun Nov 04, 2018 2:48 pm

Koala
Wednesday
Me: happy halloween ;P
Her: You too muhaha ;P *ghost emoji*
Me: are we round 2ing the costume?
Her: Haha no, but I did go to a great Halloween yoga class! Did you?
Me: almost haha
Me: didn't want to rep the full pimp
Me: just doggin around for now

Thursday
Her: *picture of Kanye's kid, in the outfit I showed her to open, two months back*
Her: Maybe west's son dressed up as him for Halloween *cheesing emoji*
Me: amazing
Me: I think I want one
Her: Want one as in..
Me: lmao
Me: the costume
Her: I was gonna say..
Me: not that kinda daddy
Her: ;P

Friday
Me: holaa (=
Her: Hueee
Her: I'm in [city] for the weekend visiting college friends
Her: *picture of her ass* Don't miss me too much
Me: *selfie* miss who?
Her: Haha ;P


I noticed she started using my favorite emoji, ;P , now that we've been talking for 2 months. Could be coincidence. Starting to like her more. Wish she would stop with the shit testing, but I wonder if some of what she's doing is boyfriend-pulling tactics. If it is, I hate to say it but it's working. Will check back into some Black Dragon stuff on remaining independent.



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Okay so the past few weeks have been rough. I don't know why, but I've been more depressed, paranoid, and negative. Insecurities are coming back. I get the feeling a lot of people dislike me for how polarizing I've become. The girls at work went from being all over me and highly flirtatious to cold, bitchy, and seeming more fake around me in the past two months.

So what the fuck? Perhaps it's because I stopped being so attuned to social interactions once I walked away from game for a little bit, and that I've been drinking so heavily. I've also "had" to cut back on working out because of doing stuff for graduate school.

I think part of this too is similar to what Hector described in his podcast.. having the player reputation has high highs and low lows. People talk shit. A LOT of shit. And if you say something long enough, it becomes true.

Makes me want to leave my job and start over - that's always worked for me in the past! But I know that's not the answer. I need to correct my maintenance and reengage healthy habits. I might take shrooms soon and do a little soul searching, there's an abundance of psychological utility in doing that, actually.


Almost had a threesome with two alleged pornstars last night. FR coming.
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Postby Hue » Sun Nov 11, 2018 10:36 pm

Got my groove back, outlook-wise.

Everytime I relapse in depression it gives me more emotional intelligence as I exit it.

Considering making a video of myself speaking to future me to try and help with relapses. It's not about where you are, it's about where you're going.


Insta-date girl is kinda crazy. She may or may not literally think we're soul mates. Would type the texts but they're long and drawn out. I like texting her about intellectual shit though, but just a moment ago she stopped replying to me because it got into polygamy and now she's upset with my explanation her saying that "I'm a part of someone's heartbreak.


Began approaching again and I'm rusty haha. I've been relying on fundamentals so much that I forget some of the process I've been fucking with. Thinking back to my old lays and rereading LR's to recognize what I need to do. Hector put it perfectly in his recent reply to my fuck up, about what I'm usually missing: "Be a fucking savage".

I'm not using touch nearly enough, so change that. Also, I'm going for hotter girls so I noticed that I get locked into inaction sometimes or I'm nervous and trying to hide it. I've noticed more competition with the looks, humor, and fundamentals of the guys who are also going for these dimes.

Drinking less when I'm out too, which helps. Really getting sick of blacking out.

No work / class tomorrow because of Vet's day, about to turn up on a Sunday and see what happens.
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Postby Hue » Mon Nov 12, 2018 5:30 pm

It's crazy how the same behaviors can appear so differently to people, and thereafter trigger such different reactions. For instance, if I run out of things to say in a conversation to someone who sees me as higher value than them - they'll likely place the blame on them and become insecure or uncomfortable then invest in conversation in an anxious way. If I run out of things to say in conversation to someone who sees me as lower value than them, they'll likely just move along, or perhaps invest into the conversation to try to bring me up in a helpful way. Goes back to the quality / value thing. Like Chase writes, high quality people usually are prosocial and bring value/good emotions to other people. Contextually high value people usually either have much bigger fish to fry or don't see themselves as having time for "bottom feeders".

I've had people who don't know me be dismissive or rude but then see me with people they think as higher value or talking to girls and then they turn all nice and friendly. I guess I can't blame them if I came off a certain way? Rather than just see them as fake or something.. because they were operating from the information they had infront of them.


I went out last night and didn't see any girls worth approaching. There was a girl in my group who I had been flirting with who was giving me touch and we grinded for a little bit but then I didn't make a suggestion to fuck and she found some other dude she stayed with. She was only kinda cute so whatever. But again, I wasn't being savage enough. Gotta lead more aggressively when I know she's interested. What's been holding me back a lot from doing that is I worry that I'll give up the mystery if I'm into them or not and start chasing. No. Not when she's giving you compliance and reciprocal touch. Be a fucking savage.


Koala
Our schedules haven't been lining up, but we're fucking tomorrow. Been doing more phone calls, less texting.

On Wednesday I tried to meet up with her and she couldn't, suggesting the weekend instead. I wanted to go out instead, so simply said that I couldn't do the weekend. She got upset and tried to say that as soon as I'm free I need to find her and we'd fuck. I told her that tonight was all I had for her and she fucking threatened to bang other guys. I told her "I hope you do" even though I was kind of upset at how childish that was of her tried to not appear even slightly phased. She's the older one, and she's pulling that shit? I get that it's literally a tactic to fuck me, though. She seemed very surprised when I didn't react or yield to fucking her over the weekend. So I passed the shit test (if you can even call it that) and remained outcome independent verbally, then I steered the conversation back to a good place and hung up.

I'm a bit torn as to whether I should "put up" with shit like that. In one way it's good experience, but in another it was pretty disrespectful. Maybe some orgasm anchoring would be helpful, gonna read up on that.
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Postby Hue » Wed Nov 14, 2018 1:15 am

Koala
She flaked again. I sent a rather cold text back, "ah that's too bad". Sorry not sorry. You pick Tuesday after flaking 2 times before, you get a cold text about flaking. Not mad at her, just the flake. Hope she gets it :P

May try again next week since she's finally done getting certified in yoga after Friday.

Bus Game
Forgot to type this up. On the way off my friends couch yesterday and onto the bus to my apartment, there was a super cute blonde standing there. I asked her when the next bus going where I needed to go was coming and then started talking to her. We're both 5th years and talked a little about our futures. When we got on the bus I asked her in an assuming way, "wanna sit over there?" and she said "yea".

Once I locked in a started flirting with her a little more and touching her lightly. I screened for logistics then asked if she wanted to get coffee. She said she would but she had a boyfriend and I just laughed and did the "is he cute?" and then a "he can come too" and she was giggling and smiling. Also good chase frame,
Me: What? Am I hitting on you?
Her: Yes!!
Me: Haha! You're hitting on me I'm all boxed in here! *looks down and turns hands to direct to our seating arrangement*
Her: Hahahaha


When she got off she asked, "are you getting off here?" and I looked and couldn't really tell if it was my stop and said, "sure". We walked out and talked some more. I thought about getting her number but then she went to the other side of the street still beaming at me, since now she knew where I was headed to my house, and I just asked her name again and said I'd see her around.

We do live close, so :P

It was fun.
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Postby Hue » Sun Nov 18, 2018 10:43 pm

Friday
Texted Koala a warm text to lessen blow of her flake text on Tuesday. It had nothing to do with meeting up so it was good.

LR: Nerdy Introvert
Had a Bumble date, semi lay up. HB6 nerdy introvert. Just got out of a LTR. I nailed the Bumble convo because I adapted to her needs with what she wanted to establish before actually agreeing to the date (connection and similarity) and then hit her with the 2nd ask to get drinks in a way that smoothed conversation topics, all while putting in flirtatious jabs to never make things too serious / boring. I'd type it all but she unmatched me.

The day of the date she says she's nervous in the bumble chat and I send her a selfie to show her it's me. She says something about "no touching until prompted" lol so I say "I"ll be on my best behavior (; " and she says something about how she'd be able to take me. I say we'll have to arm wrestle to figure it out to make it playful and ease her weirdly serious concerns.

She get's there before I do. She looks just like she does in her picture, cute but kinda average brunette. Innocent looking. I had brushed up on 8 things to ask on a date, and adapted my frame around her answers as needed. She wanted to fuck a guy since she's newly single but didn't want to feel like a slut for doing it. She's had a pretty simple life so far so going to a city to meet some guy is somewhat adventerous for her. She's intellectually competitive so we actually talked about some topics I would never speak on with some other girls for similarity / attainability reasons. It seemed the way I applied the "brolosipher" frame was very attractive to her.

The date goes on for about 1.5 hrs as I slowly lead us to more and more fun topics - ending on my go to topic, music. I say that we need to show each other some music and ask if she's having fun and wants to keep having fun. All very simple to the process at this point. She's down, so we split the bill and start walking to my house. I tease her on the way over about getting hit by a car. She goes, "you're the guy you have to stand here and be my human shield", so I laugh and stop in the middle of the road with oncoming traffic and yell to the cars, "she's right here, come get her" as I hold her in place. Playful fun and ramped touch.

She says she's cold so I take her arm. We make it in my house and she explores my apartment, taking high detail of everything I have and asking me about it. I think she was confirming my house to the frames I set earlier - something to think about down the road about how telling a person's house actually is of them. We sit and watch musics videos and I slowly escalate, saying something smooth or joking before I kiss her until we start making out. Or I'd frame things in a qualifying way saying I like people for their traits more than anything. She says that we shouldn't go any further but her body language is clearly wanting to do more, so I say okay and back off, then ramp up again. The 3rd time I do this she gets' on top of me and I lift her up to my bed and it was basically game, set, match.

Simple escalation with a push and pull and leading, before I finally ask her if she wants me to fuck her then tell her to beg for my cock and she does. She eventually goes, "you know what I think? I think you're a decent guy" before I started being more aggressive, as this is essentially her saying "I think I'm okay with fucking you". I slip on a condom and we start fucking. One thing that was pretty funny about this was her friend was on her way to pick her up so I had to move kinda quickly towards the end, and by the time I'm fucking her her phone goes off with my cock inside her. I start fucking her harder and have her beg for my cum (though I'm wearing a condom) and finish like RIGHT when she picks up her phone lol. She tries to play it cool on the phone but it's sorta obvious.

When she quickly dresses then starts walking out she scrambles to get my number and I tell her just to use the Bumble texting. Almost immediately she starts blowing me up about how cool she thinks I am and wants to do a second date - all of which was too much commitment to so immediately want from me so I slowed her down and said I am really busy but that we should meet again. I wasn't totally opposed but she was pushing aggressively from the get go. She gives me her number and I save it. Then, oddly enough, she deletes the conversation. I text her and the phone number was a landline. So, I either took down the wrong number or.. idk? Really weird. Probably autorejected because I wasn't reciprocating her interest to the same degree post sex.

I'm totally cool with this because in the beginning of the date she said that there was a psychopath (and a tried murderer) that wanted to fuck her who just made bail. RED FLAG. I hope I'm not already having endangered myself by how this played out...
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Postby Hue » Sun Nov 18, 2018 10:54 pm

Friday Part Two
I go out with Tuna and his girlfriend. Got denied by a bisexual chick because despite it being ON with me, her lesbian girlfriend comes up and starts making out with her. I go out solo and try to game chicks, strike out, can't get compliance at one bar, then moved to a club. Same thing, bad compliance.

My buddies are out and a girl on this sports team is kinda giving me IOI's so I say we should go get a drink and while doing so try and grab her ass (I wasn't that drunk, more just trying to be more savage) and don't get a great response. I ditch these people and get down on the dance floor with some hip hop moves I've been practicing and see Catfish looking fine as hell. This thicc girl ropes me into her and I get a free drink, but ultimately decide she was too drunk and too thick for my taste, and go home.

Saturday
Went out with Clam and his friends. Drank slower and not with hard liquor and felt WAAAY more in control of myself and much better at holding conversation than when I drink straight tequila. More calories but definitely worth it. Feeling great by the time we're out.

We go to a campus bar and I immediately open two 19 y/o's and they're interested. I got compliance and was escalating touch with one of them, but they want to stop back to their friends and I don't rekindle the fire. If I had, I am confident I could have fucked the one, easily. My other friends want to go to this really trashy club and I'm not interested and head downtown. I'm in a fantastic mood with a lot of social momentum, really feeling that "Rogue King" fire spirit again. I was exuding a lot of confidence.

I go to my bar, then to a club with Day One. He's newly single so we go to game. He's very good looking and doesn't even need game to get laid. Lol he just goes up and they're down - it's insane. I ended up competing with a couple dudes for this brunette with a REALLY solid ass, but ultimately lose to the guy she came with who was in her social circle. I went home alone.

Koala and I had booty texted but she flaked AGAIN so I'm ghosting her until Nov. 24th. On the calendar. She should hit me up, I've invested with this so damn much. At the very least I need a more consistent FB than her, it's driving me crazy because my testosterone is back to being high and I'm so damn horny.

Have a Tinder date tomorrow with a freshmen after my exam ;P
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Date With Freshman

LR: Tall Black Freshman
Took a month to meet up. Tall & black freshman. Great body. Good face. Lotta flaking. Got her number on Tinder after agreeing to meet up. She unmatched me so those are gone. Texts:
Me: heyy freshman it's Hue (=
Me: I don't get any green bubbles fyi, hopefully that'll take your edge off ;P
Her: Hey! sorry just got off work

Me: holaaa. what you getting into today?
Her: heyy I'm going out later wbu
Me: ooo someone and their big bad fake
Me: same here. you dressing up?
Her: I don't even have a fake lolll and yes
Me: lol so young
Me: does that mean you're hitting a halloween party then? or trick or treating?
Her: very funny
Me: *cheesing emoji*
Me: whats your costume
Her: the walk of shame
Me: lemme see (=
Her: *mirror pic* lol here is a possible outfit
Me: looks a little PG freshman(;
Me: no heels in hand? lol
Her: hahaha(; and the heels are too mch work
Me: here lemme take a shower and I'll send you mine
Her: bet
Me: *mirror pic* I think I win ;P
Her: is that a onesie *cheesing emoji*

Me: have we decided on the final apparel? (=
Her: *mirror pic* honestly struggling I'm trying to figure out how to not get hypothermia
Me: my onesie is nice and fuzzy.. I can consider making a little room in here(;
Her: mhm i'm sure
Me: I'm going to a party on [street] pretty soon.. where are you heading?
Her: I'm going to frats at like 10:30!
Me: ah gotcha.. are you free to chat for a sec?
Her: yea...
Me: *calls*

Her: sorry I left my phone for a sec but I didn't realize you meant call haha I"m with a group of pople
Me: lol word
Me: well hey if you're super busy tonight do your thing. wanted to meet you, if not no big
Her: I'll let you know cuz I"m also celebrating my best friends birthday, but if not tonight definitely another time!

Me: ayy freshman what trouble are you getting into today?
Her: working at 6:// haha fun times
Me: dang.. sounds like it haha, where are you raking in green?
Her: what?? haha
Me: lol where do you work
Her: k comm

Her: heyy what're you up to tn
Me: might meet some people at [bar] later.. nothin strict yet
Me: yourself
Her: i have no clue i was going to [bar] but that just got canceled like.. 2 seconds ago
Me: looks like I'm about to roll through [bar]...
Her: never heard of it
Me: you open to trying new things?
Her: i am
Me: (=
Me: wait lol I thought you didn't have a fake
Her: not yet my friend was gonna get me into [bar]
Her: lol I can only go to [other bar] :/
Me: lol love it
Me: depends on when you'd go, but I'll met you there that's fine
Her: idk if I"m going yet bc none of my friends are going out
Me: if they're not we just should
Me: or you could stay home lol up to you

Me: happy gameday ;P
Her: sorry I've been super bad at looking at my texts lately but yes boutta celebrate the win

Me: ayy freshman what's good. was just thinking since we have such a hard time getting ahold of eachother on the weekends why don't we grab some food tonight? should be free after my club meeting
Her: heyy sadly i have class till 4 and work at 6 :(
Me: okay gotcha. tell me your schedule and we'll pick a day that works (=
Her: this week doesn't really work for me i'm just really busy but next week should work!
Me: cool lemme know

week later

Her: hey! my work schedule is finally consistent, I work sunday and tuesday through thursday nights
Me: heyy. okay gotcha.. I'm working for most this weekend, but I'd be down with Monday
Me: I'm taking an exam till like 8ish that night, let's do food after that. sound good?
Her: sounds good:)
Me: great (= have fun with the rest of your week freshman

Me: ayy freshman, still on for tonight?
Her: heyy i got scheduled to work tonight because of break I guess :( but it's my last day this week and I'm either going home tomorrow night or thursday if you're free
Me: I'm free tomorrow night, yea. you dunno what day you head back for break?
Her: yeahhh my friends sister is coming from [school] u to pick us up and i guess she doesn't know when yet
Me: hmm.. what time you done with class tomorrow?
Her: 2:05 if i got to class haha
Me: haha good answer (;
Me: well I'm out of work around 2:30, i could pick yo up and we could grab food
Her: sounds good!
Me: sweet, I'll chat with ya then
Me: hey where should I be picking ya up?
He: *address*
Me: cool I'll lyk when I head
Her: alrighty
Me: on my way
Her: *thumbs up*
Me: outside


Holy fuck that took forever to type. Worth it, because it's a great example of dealing with flakes and persisting properly. That was the most work for the lay.

I pick her up and then after some banter to get her slightly more comfortable suggest we just go to my house to eat. Boom, now she's at my house. I make us some bomb tacos and we sit on the couch and talk. We chit chat and I let her cuddle with me a little bit, then ask her where she falls on the basic --> bad bitch scale. She says she's in the middle with a little bit of both. I ask her to name what makes her both and she can think of basic bitch shit (starbucks) but not bad bitch. I say "there's other ways of finding that out" and go for a kiss. Very receptive.

I pull off and we chill a bit longer. About 10 minutes later I start playing with her hair and kiss her again. Quickly turns to hooking up on my bed. I did the reach around finger method with my hand on her ass in her pants. She's veeeerrry receptive to skin on skin contact. I whip my dick out and she starts stroking it. She tells me she isn't quite ready for sex and I say we don't have to do anything she doesn't want to do. She's happy with this and we go back to hooking up with her grinding on me. I put her hand on my cock and she starts really going for it so I do the reach around again and finally get my fingers in.

She's nice and wet so I tell her I want to stuff her pussy with my fingers, and make her beg for it. She takes her pants off. I tease her until fingering her. Nice and tight. In no time she's getting on top of me trying to put my dick inside of her. I don't do it without a condom and then put one on and we fuck. I'm her favorite person she's talked to on Tinder because most guys are creeps, she says.


Tuesday Night

Went out with Day One. He is full on gaming now! Asking me about day game and shit. We can't find a receptive group to approach, so I just start being social with guys at the bar to make friends. I connect with some producers and rappers, fuck yea. Got their numbers and we'll be meeting up soon. Their girls were eyeing me but I decided that if I'm gonna be friends with these guys I should try to game them at a later date instead of going straight for the men's commodities.

Day One gets AA because he didn't want to approach a table full of girls. Not sure if he ever went for it. My coworkers show up and I connect with the old bartender who had been cold to me before. Social proof was booming for me the rest of the night and it was really fun.

Lipstick was trying to get my attention by hovering and I utterly ignored her because she's a manipulative narcissistic bitch. Found that out in detail by talking with her friend (who was also hovering me - I don't understand why she's still friends with lipstick) last time I was at the bar.

Not every night you go out HAS to be about getting laid. Think long term and build your social network some nights, to cash out the benefits later.
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Postby Hue » Fri Nov 23, 2018 2:46 pm

Wednesday

Went out after work and everyone is in town because of thanksgiving. Came into a pregame and joked around with some good old friends. Once we got to the bar all the people from high school started pouring in and I immediately notice a change in the way everybody starts acting. Far less "risky" behaviors, and far more reserved conversation. As if everyone stuck a small, dildo-sized pole up their ass. Kind of turned me off.

The thing I dislike about this group, despite being tight with most all of them is there's just a layer of fakeness that everyone paints on them once it becomes more public. My closer friends will complain about it, then do it, but hey maybe I do too without realizing it. I think it's mostly about maintaining cohesion of the entire group that motivates it - although some are quite obviously people pleasing, which is the part i find annoying.

I talk with some I haven't seen in years. Girls give me a lot more IOI's than years past. My buddy's ex was openly flirting with me, but I wasn't in the mood to flirt hard because of the obvious drama I would get from it, since my buddy wasn't there. I talk to a girl about her recent venture into buddhism and it was a great conversation until towards the end she started getting really nervous and looking around for her friends. I wasn't even flirting, so, I wonder if this was her being "I don't have anything else to say.. where are my friends?!" or if this was her getting nervous about being attracted to me? Idk - I'm not even interested, for that matter.

I bust some dance moves and everyone seemed to like it, but these are all like the whitest of white people (and I'm white so I can't really say that) so I stopped before I steered into being too much an entertainer. Been watching some hip hop music videos more closely to incorporate their moves into mine. I remember complimenting this one girl about how I liked her sweater and she flirts back, "oh my sweater meets your standards of fashion.. wow..." and I kinda just smile and shrug it off, since I would have liked it better if she just took the compliment. I could have flirted back, "yea, you think you got what it takes to join the clothing line?" because this owns her frame instead of fights it. I wear nicer clothes than most everybody around me so fighting it would be silly.

My buddy who I haven't seen in months hits me up out of the blue to meet up and a bar and I decide it would be more fun to leave to him than it is to stay here and continue acting all uppity, since no one was getting loose here. I tell my friend I'm gonna leave and he hits me with, "what? do you have better people to be hanging out with?" and I just give him a weird look and ask why he's taking it personally. I like all of them, but haven't seen this guy in a while either and wanted to hang out. Two of my friends back and forth about me leaving so I just say my goodbyes to a few others and split. I'm gonna see them this weekend anyways, for fucks sake.

Later on I meet up with a few people at the bar and get distracted into some other shenanigans. Turned out my buddy had to bail. I meet this gay dude who cut my hair a month or two ago and he's super chill so I get his number and we ball out for a bit. One gay dude who I've been hanging out with a lot recently comes with me to an after party. I'm making better friends with the hair dresser at the party and it's all good, but then we finally leave and I don't call an uber for the guy I came with and he sends me some texts about how I suck for leaving him there without a ride, and eventually that he was jealous for the attention I was giving the hairdresser. Like, fucking ew man. We're friends and I thought he got that. I really hope he hasn't been hoping for something beyond that, and he's just acting girlish.

Theme of the night: people wanting my attention, then getting mad at me for giving other people attention I'd rather be talking to / hanging out with. :P
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Nov 26, 2018 2:24 am

Saturday

LR?: Gameday
Huge football day. People start getting drunk at like 6 AM. Start out at a party with the SweetBros and can't really vibe, despite the party being pretty lit. Say hi to a lot of people I know and a few converations here and there beyond chit chat, but that's about it. Coworkers text me to meet them out, so I decide to do that instead.

Once I get there it's a lot more fun and I'm meeting several new people that my coworkers knew. Hot black chick in our group, and I was doing pretty well with her and this one other blonde who I had just only met. Had to be slightly cautious to not be too sexual too quickly and fuck up group cohesion. Days like this where everyone is out and going crazy can be done two ways, I see it as. You can play the social circle game and position yourself with your target, flirting and escalating the whole time with a few haymaker moments like a really good sexual frame or sexualizing. Or, you can play the numbers game because everyone is so high energy and chaotic. I did both.

I had been building things pretty well with the black chick, and mainly for similarity since she doesn't know me at all. The blonde is cool too but has a boyfriend. Starting to get slightly better to reading if she does or not from the get go - it's very subtle and not ever a for sure read though. The guys in the group started being a little stand offish to me, so I start befriending them. It was a little slower at first but I end up really hitting it off with one of the cooler guys in the group and was basically good from then on with cohesion.

There's a lot of families in town and a girl's mom starts trying to set me up with her. I humor the situation and talk to the girl, though I'm not interested. My ex girlfriend shows up. Haven't seen her in a while, and I was so happy to talk with her. She has a boyfriend now and she's happy - which makes me happy. She finally got that teaching job she always wanted, something I told her she would be great at (: It was honestly the highlight of my day talking to her. I kept kissing her on the cheek and hugging her haha. I bid her adieu, and continued with the partying after gushing with emotion for about 5 minutes.

Our team is winning, the alcohol is flowing, and everyone is in a great mood. The bar is fucking PACKED. Another mom tries to set me up with a girl - this time she's cute. I talk to her a little bit and chit chat with her dad. We have a good bit in common. I get her number and as she's giving it to me I flash her dad the dirtiest look lol he looked SO scared. Tried texting her later but it didn't lead anywhere. I need to banter with her more if I'm gonna get her.

I tried a hard flirt with the black chick and poked her cheek. She said "don't touch my face" after that so I had to back off hard. We all end up going to a different bar and I'm able to recover with her on the way back and had a more sexual vibe building up. If I remember correctly I casually said something about sex to the group. Still had a yellow light from her, so I was considering if I should abandon ship, but for the time being just keep the good vibes with everyone going.

We get to the next bar, also packed as fuck. I'm fucked up as shit, as is everyone else. This guy supporting the other team starts talking shit to me and my buddy and we start to square up on him before he backs off. Things are becoming barbaric with all the hollering and noises. A lot of people are getting "goldfish drunk" as I describe it (lights are on, but no one's home, short term memory is out the window) and I'm doing my best to keep my shit together. The dude I hit it off with starts buying me drinks. Out of nowhere my Day One shows up and we kick it, vibing hard.

Our team starts fucking killing it, and it looks like we're gonna win. I probably should have taken this chance to isolate / move the black chick, but instead leave with Day One to take a break from all the drinking and chaos. I end up passing out at his house after eating, then leaving to my bar. I'm still fucking hammered so I'm taking it super easy.

Pretty fuzzy from here. My coworkers and I are getting fucked up and bar hop for a sec. There's this really sexy indian chick in my group who I've never met, and she's clearly into me. We all leave to my coworkers apartment for a party and I'm tryna fuck this indian chick (I was definitely grabbing her ass at one point). This dude that lives with my coworker starts going for her, and he got physical before I did and ended up getting her I think. After I miss my window I stumble out of the apartments and into another bar. Two girls from my highschool are there and I try to merge with their group and totally get shot down. I took this as indicative of being a blacked out shithead lol.

I leave to campus bars since we won the game and everyone's going crazy. Plus, if I'm hammered I'll have an easier time with college students than mid 20's bars. I get there and two feminist chicks are talking to me, and seem really into whatever the fuck was coming out of my mouth. My buddy pops outta nowhere and we talk (I have no recollection of that conversation), but then I remember suddenly jumping out of convo to talk with this different indian chick. Within no time I'm grabbing her ass and suggesting we leave. She's down if I have weed, she says. "I'll text my dealer", I tell her. I don't have a weed dealer lol. Her friend objects to me and I just grab my girl and say, "you mind if I steal her away for a sec?" with a warm smile and vibe. She's submits to my frame and we leave the bar. Probably like a 15-20 minute pull.

We make out a few times on the way over, and then start going at it when I get her inside. I remember her being naked on my cock, and sucking on her nipples. My dick entered her pussy, but I couldn't get it up. I told her I'd fuck her in the morning and she says that's fine. Then she realizes I don't have weed and I kinda start laughing my ass off, basically acting like a total fuckboy. She says she's gonna get picked up and wants my address. I give it to her still laughing to myself, even calling myself a fuckboy lol. It wasn't even that funny, but hey I was fucking plastered.

What a fun day. Really taxing on my body, though, I feel kinda sick. Only have so many of those left in me.


Side Note for journaling and self improvement - emotional management:

Writing Prompts

Do I feel any discomfort today? Where in my body is it? Emotional or physical? Dig Into it.

Why do I feel this way? (Don't blame others, theres always soemthing you can do to control pain)

What can I do to fix it? (1-3 things I can fix)

What would my life be like if I don't do that for 5 years? Worst case

What would my life be like if I do that for 5 years? Best case


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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Sun Dec 02, 2018 5:04 pm

LR: That's Debatable

Went to my bar after finally finishing up with my grad school applications. Right when I get there I had my seat taken (my buddy had been holding it) and so I ask the girls next to me if they'll scoot down one so I can sit in a charming way. They comply and I say the seat I had is nice and warm.

We start to chit chat after a little bit. One's a cute looking vietnamese girl and one's a very meehh looking blonde. I banter and tease them for a while and get them guessing my major. This managed to go on for 20 minutes, I had turned it into a fun game about them generally reading my vibe and using clues to slowly reveal it. When the vietnamese girl guesses wrong again (and she had used up all her guesses) she looks up the school website and finds me. I call her a cheater and chase frame her for stalking me.

By this point I'm touching her legs and have both her and her friend very interested. Every time I had a question about me during this game I would either tease them about asking such a question or reveal something that would exude an attractive trait. When I finally did reveal that I was doing psychology I gave a great explanation of how meditation is an amazing and powerful thing and it had them totally eating up my every word.

My coworkers become introduced and my guy, PuffDaddy starts to wingman for me. The girls are asking him about me and he starts to boast and I tell him "no PuffDaddy you don't have to wingman for me" aloud so they can hear it. I'm not sure what this implicitly did but because of the frame I had going it made them more invested after that, I noticed. It got to the point where I had the vietnamese girl wrapped around my finger so, admittedly, I was less attracted (but still attracted) to her.

The people I work with and I start to make plans elsewhere and I invite the girls with us, saying they can meet us there. They are on the fence, and I choose not to persist. I thought I could do either and have it work, but simply inviting them and leaving was more in line with the law of least effort. We leave and within no time they show up. At one point I couldn't get compliance from the vietnamese girl so I bounce around the bar and find two fucking MILFS sitting at the bar, looking at me sexily. I try to game them and they both show me they're married. I kinda tried to keep it going anyways and ended up saying something confusing (I can't remember what it was) and got a weird look from one of them so I ejected after laughing it off with them. I told PuffDaddy to try and he did and failed as well haha.

This gay guy I work with asks if I'm gonna try to fuck the vietnamese girl and I say "yea I plan on fucking her". He says that "no she's just out with her friend tonight" and I took this as a challenge, give him a skeptical smile and say "that's debatable". Pretty soon after this I'm dancing with the vietnamese girl and I pull her away from her friend. I start to screen to see how good of friends she is with this girl and they've only known each other for a few weeks. Perfect. I start bringing up music and say she needs to see this artist I fuck with and we should go to my house to listen to it. She says she wants to but doesn't want to be a bad friend. I yes ladder a little bit and then bide some more time by saying we don't have to leave this second, which implies that we WILL be leaving later and plants the seed.

Everyone comes over to where I've isolated her and joins the conversation. I got up to get a drink shortly after this and when I come back Puffdaddy is distracting the other girl. I text him to close (even though she's not very attractive lol) and he says "I can't bro lol" because she wasn't hot enough. I yes ladder my girl once more and say that I'll call the uber.
Game, Set, Match.

At my house there was a little LMR, but I assured her we don't have to do anything she doesn't want to, then instructed her to get on top of me once my dick was out, and to beg for my cock. Then I fucked her pussy sideways. We banged about 4 times and I saw her out the next morning.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Mon Dec 10, 2018 3:09 pm

Met with Koala again after making myself ghost her for two weeks. We fucked, but it was an annoying process.

Texts:
Last Week
Me: heyy Koala. been super slammed with applying to grad school recently.. finally done :P would love to see if your lil booty this weekend if you're free
Her: Hueee I'm in Miami this weekend but let's get together next week for sure ;-* ;-*
Me: that's awesome, have a blast
Me: and perfectt we can celebrate my graduation
Her: Hell yeah congrats!! *celebration emojis*
Her: And mine too. We have a lot to celebrate *suggestive smirk emoji*
Me: yess. split a bottle of champagne?
Her: Haha I'm down
Me: okay sweet, let's shoot for Sunday
Me: send me some pictaaas of miami

Next day
Her: *pool picture* Jealous?
Me: what color bikini are you wearing?
Her: Haha guess
Me: If I guess right you're sending a picture ;-*
Her: Haha not there anymore
Her: But blue *suggestive smirk*
Me: that was my first guess

Tuesday
Her: Guess where I'm going tonight
Me: does it have good looking servers who sling margaritas?
Her: Haha no but good guess
Her: [hockey] game 8)
Me: bout time you're rooting for the right team ;P
Me: [animal emoji] [trash emoji]
Her: *cheesing emoji*

Me: we winning?
Her: No...
Her: [score]
Me: whaat
Me: no chance [goalie] is in
Her: Haha idk who that is
Her: I was in a suite though it was pretty sick
Me: my buddy, [goalie]
Me: he's out best goalie lol
Me: smh Koala
Her: Damn tell him to get in the game we can't be losing like that
Me: I might be going [day]
Me: so we'll have a good luck charm for next game (;
Her: We'll see

Saturday
Me: hey hey Koala (= what you doing today
Her: Hii! I have graduation in a little, what are you doing later tonight?
Me: loose plans for the [team].. you wanna meet up for the game?
Her: I'll be done at 8 so let me text you thennn
Me: sounds like a plan babe

8 pm
Her: Bae
Me: hey koala (; you all done graduating?
Her: Yees
Me: champagne time
Me: call you after this period

*call her and have loose conversation and plans to meet later, she's with her friends unfortunately*

10 pm
Me: when you guys are done eating you should meet us at [bar]
Me: also fuck the [team] :P
Her: who are the [team]? (dodging first text)
Me: my name is koala and I watch hockey ;P

*call her and she sounds drunk, decide we're gonna meet her at a bar*


I was a little annoyed at this point because she wasn't making it easy for me to meet with her. I had to persist, and I wanted it to be more water tight. I wanted her to make plans to meet with me, instead of me having to reorient my night to her. Nonetheless, I go to her bar with her friends with MaddHatter. We chit chat and MaddHatter has a target but can't get into a social mood. After talking with them and sitting with Koala for a while I say we should go to a different bar.

I noticed that once I started to engage the group as a whole more, instead of focusing on Koala, things started to move more in my direction. Koala wanted me to engage with her friends so that 1). they don't feel left out and 2). she can see whether her friends approve of me or not. Eventually, we decide to go to the next bar.

Apparently, Koala took me saying I flirt with the gay dudes at work a little seriously, because she was actually not down with my joke that I'm bicurious. She isn't down to fuck a guy that might also want to fuck guys. So I actually had to explain to her that while I do flirt with gay guys it's all just in fun, and I've had guys come onto me and I was disgusted, not intrigued, sexually.

We get to the bar and I lose the girls quickly. They leave to a gay bar next door to use the bathroom, and when they try to get back into our bar they can't get in because it's at capacity.
Her: So we're at [bar]
Me: lol
Her: We just had to use the bathroom
Me: *call her, laughing at her and making fun of her for being so silly. truthfully, I'm annoyed, but I can't let her know this. Though, she probably picked up on it a little bit*

Her: Guess where we are
Me: do they have margs (thinking my bar)
Her: I think
Her: [bar] again *cheesing emoji*
Me: and just when I thought you weren't basic
Her: I ammmmm


After this I ghost for a little bit. I consider approaching other girls because this is really annoying. But I know that I want her, not another girl. I wait until 1 in the morning, and then call her again. She went back home. I tell her I'm coming over, and she wants me to. Why the fuck wouldn't she just tell me when she was going home and to come? I think it's because she wanted me to persist, or that she planned on calling more closer to 2. Hell, she could have been about to text me. Regardless, I go over. I fuck up because during our flirting I tell her that she is annoying for running all over the place, shows my outcome dependence. It was honest, I suppose.

I fucked her very well. It felt great to sleep with her again, it having been over a month. Really missed that ass. But I rewarded bad behavior, didn't I?

God damn, I really need more experience with relationships, man. Pulling a girl and sleeping with her is one thing, but liking a girl and consistently sleeping with her (at this level of maturity) is really testing me. She's not easy to handle, that's for sure. She's single and sleeping with other guys and told me this. I'm fine with it since I'm doing the same thing, but I can't deny the fact that I want more commitment from her. She totally flipped it on me. Her boyfriend getting tactics worked, except their very success hinders my potential and mindset in getting her to want more commitment.

Will go back to texting her every 3-5 days. She explicitly told me though, that she thinks we should only meet up like every month or so because she can only handle fucking me that much, and that she likes where we currently are. I tire her out after like 2 rounds and I'm wanting to go for like 7 lol. At the same time, it could be a shit test. I feel like she's constantly playing games like that to test me, which is what makes it so frustrating.




Just had a tinder date with a freshmen. Cute face, very nice legs. I want to bend her over and destroy her ass. Very compliant texts until I told her that I could pick her up. Slow start on the date that eventually got better. Fucked up with a huge sexual window. She told me that at a party she was showing a girl her tits (after being a total nerd before this - secret dirty girl (; ) and I reinforced her frame that that's cool and gave stronger eye contact. I SHOULD have made things more sexual here, eye fucked her, or grabbed her leg. Instead, I only made the sexualizing a soft note, and then pissed in the bathroom.

I kept conversation fun after and did escalate. Should have held hand-on-leg contact longer. I would only give her jabs and maybe 3-5 second holds. We warmed up the most at the end. She asked me what I was doing the rest of the day - a window for getting her to my house. I told her, and then suggested we do something else. I should have had a second location to take her other than my house beforehand, as nothing came to mind. Because I didn't have a specific suggestion, she was more willing to go and do her open-schedule volunteer service. So, by the time I did ask her to listen to music in my car / at my house, she said no because it makes her feel uncomfortable. I told her that's fine, I don't want her to feel uncomfortable and she was happy about this.

Overall, I think she was mature for her age. I just wish I was smoother about getting compliance on the date. Just because she was super compliant over text doesn't absolutely mean she will be when you're in person. The date, overall, went well, and I kissed her at the end next to my car. Got a huge smile afterward, and she wanted more. She said it was nice meeting you and I said, yea, take care (= and didn't give her definite plans to meet later.

I'm thinking that I'm gonna ask her to have a drink tomorrow night after her test. Because if I don't, then I likely will not see her when she comes back to town. Maybe I will, but at that point I'll be seeing other girls, I'm not sure I really want to put that effort in....

So it's a matter of how and when I text her that I had fun on the date, and that I'd like to see her again before she returns home on Wednesday... got some brainstorming / research to do.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby Hue » Tue Dec 11, 2018 8:16 pm

I was a little annoyed at this point because she wasn't making it easy for me to meet with her. I had to persist, and I wanted it to be more water tight. I wanted her to make plans to meet with me, instead of me having to reorient my night to her.

Why the fuck wouldn't she just tell me when she was going home and to come? I think it's because she wanted me to persist, or that she planned on calling more closer to 2. Hell, she could have been about to text me. Regardless, I go over. I fuck up because during our flirting I tell her that she is annoying for running all over the place, shows my outcome dependence. It was honest, I suppose.


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Postby Hue » Sat Dec 15, 2018 5:47 pm

Venice

Slept with Venice again last night.

Texts after a month and a half of ghosting:
Me: hey hey Venice, long time no talk.. got swamped with grad school stuff and had to go awol for a bit. how's your adventurous life?
Her: Hey you.. You went awol?! I'm in Orlando right now but come home tomorrow.. What are you in school for again?
Me: yess I had to hide in a cave and flex my [grad school] muscles for about a month *bodybuilding emoji*
Me: now I'm back amongst the world hungry for booze and cuties returning from disneyworld ;P
Her: Hahah how did you know I was at disney??
Me: haha oh of course
Me: you were there for the swamps and alligators
Her: I was pretty much just going for the best mom award, no big deal..
Me: must have been some weak competition (;
Me: haha what'd the little one think?
Her: She seriously had the time of her life! It was pretty cute
Me: awww that had to be great (=

3 days later

Her: What are you doing tonight?!
Me: going to a lil fiesta for a club I'm in, then seeing where the wind takes me(;
Me: what's my favorite bombshell blonde doing?
Her: I'm having a drink now but I'm not sure after..

Her: Let me know where you end up
Me: gotcha, well I'm only staying for a bit, let's grab a drink once I leave
Her: Yes, please (I literally got half chub reading this at the time)
Me: where are you?
Me: closing out over here, bout to head to [bar]
Her: I'll finish this beer and come there
Me: sounds great (=
Her: Still there* (typo?)
Me: yess margin at [bar]


She shows up and tells me that she had been on a date with an older guy and the date was boring, she wasn't attracted to him, and texted me at one of the low points of the date. Sounds like this guy was doing classic behaviors guys think works with girls but don't at all. Showboating accomplishments, acting higher value than her when he's not, basically being a douchebag to try to impress her (all ways of him qualifying himself). And she shows me texts from another guy who's tried to meet up with her / engage in conversation with her 7 times, just totally chasing her, and we laughed and made fun of him. And that her ex husband (no more ring on her finger) used to be terrible in bed and be a very selfish lover.

My coworkers immediately left me alone once she sat down with me. Like they all got up and left haha. I think they were leaving anyways, but I thought this was interesting. I did introduce Tuna to her, since he was there. We had a drink and then I started whispering in her ear that I wanted to fuck her brains out. She gestured with her hands that we should just fuck here, on top of the bar. We call an uber to her house and don't waste a lot of time, soon heading to bed for several rounds. Her pussy is sore this morning.

I did bust inside of her by recommendation of Franco. Though, I am worried about it. Strong swimmers in the family, man :P and if I had to raise a kid right now I could wish all my dreams about graduate school goodbye. She's on the pill and says she's very good about it, though. But hey, what's done is done, nothing I can do about it now.

Feel like I got her back, for the time being (=




Other Girls

I was out on Tuesday and got this hot asian girls number. Would have gone for instalay but she said she had to go home like right after I met her. I was slightly drunker than her and I made a crucial mistake as I was getting her number, I ignored her question because of my preoccupation with my phone. It came off as though I was drunker than I was, which can ultimately make her question my value in the act of asking her out. It appears as liquid courage, instead of confidence. She hasn't replied to either of my texts.

Wednesday night I kissed a lesbian chick at a bar who told me that she's lesbian but was willing to make an exception for me, possibly. Little tiny blonde, super cute. Her friend wouldn't let her go home with me, if I remember right. I was really fucked up. We're texting and I just now asked her to get a drink. We'll see where that goes.

Also have a lead with Tinder, been getting better at texting conversations.


Social Circle

Since I've been going out so much, I feel very social recently and I'm hitting levels of social calibration I haven't in a long time. Learning a lot about exuding value in the way that I speak, as well as cutting to deep dives quickly, when possible. Was just invited to a bar for some free drinks by a very cool natural who bartends at a high-end bar down the street from mine. It's an odd thing to be slightly nervous to hang out with a guy because he's that cool. I'm going to stop in and chit chat before I start the rest of my night, I think. Would be an excellent friend to make if we end up hitting it off. I've seen this guy cold approach some banging girls with such smooth confidence, I wouldn't be surprised if he studies game.

Couple other guys I've gotta text about hanging out. Got a long wait before hearing back from graduate schools, so I'm gonna get a big boy job for the time being and grow my social circle as much as possible before I leave the city. I want to be able to do exactly what I've done here in my next city, just faster.

Great outlook right now.
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Postby Hue » Sun Dec 23, 2018 10:37 pm

The girl next to me at graduation was a model. We flirted the whole time (her ass was fucking amazing, despite the gown), but then as soon as she got her diploma she diced out. I added her on instagram and dm'd her with a response back. She has a boyfriend of one year though, so idk how aggressively I'll be going for that one. Gonna follow Hector's insta game and try some things on my own.

Recently had an emo girl who's visiting town open me at a bar, ignore all my friends even though she knows them too, and show strong interest. Alas, I did not lead us elsewhere because I was with the boys. I think if I can get ahold of her on social media (maybe as a reply to her story in a dm to start a conversation) I'll be able to get her out for a drink / coffee. Last time I tried to pull from this social circle I didn't strike the iron when it was hot and didn't text properly. I'm held in a pretty damn good regard with these guys as of now so maybe this will be different. Have to just focus on law of least effort and do no chasing whatsoever.

Just had an awesome christmas party with all the high school folk. I did pretty damn well socially and the night was very fun. The girls I used to hang with turned into total sorority sluts, methinks I can pull one of them soon. The one that shows the most interest isn't very attractive to me though - she's got a good face and all but her body is meh and her personality sucks. The other girl that I have my eyes on looks very similar to Koala and cheats on her boyfriend all the time. We went out to the bar after and some blonde recognized me from the bar I work at and opened me. I couldn't get compliance because I was fucking trashed and had a pretty hard time pulling though lol. I barely remember any of it.

About to have to become completely independent financially in just a few months. Need to change some of my lifestyle and spending habits. Will be putting together a list for 2019 goals soon.
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Postby Hue » Fri Dec 28, 2018 12:37 pm

Alright, I'm fucking hungry.

I've been inspired by Hector's insta, Ambiance's LR's, and the visible changes that so many on the boards here have gone through. But this is more than inspiration.. it's HUNGER. BigS / Seth's post reminded me of myself when I started (though I don't fully know his abilities) and brought me back to that mindset. That obsession, tweaking, taking failures as opportunities for growth.. the warriors smile.

Let's go motherfucker.



FR: Drunk Words are Sober Thoughts

The boys are back baby. Most everyone is graduated or back in town and we're being absolute degenerates lol. Homeboy almost fucked a stripper, Maddhatter fucked a bartender, the rest of us are too busy getting shit housed and laughing about dumb shit.

Last night though we're out playing pool and chilling and this teeny tiny blonde comes in with two gay dudes and checks all of us out. Maddhatter slowly eases into talking with her and chatting her up, and then buys her a drink. I can't comment on his game unless he asks me about it - he'll get defensive and he does fine for himself anyways (mostly).

Right before we leave the bar I cold approach a 3 top with a hot blonde at one of the seats. I have used this tactic before and seen it go well. You go up, approach the group and ask if they're having a serious conversation with a cocky smile. It puts all the attention on you and is ballsy, but if they accept your frame you're okay. Then you say to the group with a few looks at your girl, "I just thought your friend was super cute and wanted to talk to her... you guys mind if I steal the show for a sec?", and if no one objects you're good to proceed.

I do exactly this and they let me do it.. and I get the blondey's name. Oh wait. I've approached this girl 3 fucking times lol.

Once at book club, and again at a bar last year. And here I am, again, opening her. I've heard stories about guys doing this during day game but it's never happened to me. Lol fuck. So I tell her where we'll be going and eject... there's no chance she's down judging by her body language.

At the next bar I see some old friends and chit chat with them. Then bounce back to some girls from HS. I try to move touch on this girl's wrist and she moves her arm away so I back off and continue conversation casually. Because I was calibrated about it they were cool with it.. just a slight blemish.

Again we bounce to another bar, this one is PACKED with my highschool. I'm immediately hunting for pussy. Some freshmen girls open me because they know me I guess but they weren't hot enough. This super hot HB8 blonde girl is talking to Maddhatter and I join their conversation, and kinda steal her away. I talk with her drunkedly for about 10 minutes about... lol fuck I was to drunk to remember. But I do remember this.

At some point she goes, "yeah I have a boyfriend" and I go "oh okay I didn't know that. Well, I wanted to fuck you, but if you have a boyfriend I get it". She immediately gives me the eyes and is clearly turned on. But then she says, "so-and-so already fucked you".

I don't even know the bitch she's talking about.. and last I checked I haven't fucked anyone in this girls grade.. she's about to be a junior.

I laugh and tell her exactly that, but that if I did it must have not been too memorable. I see her groups mother hen looking for her, and trying to facetime her so I eject shortly after this.

But, I think that the boyfriend this was bullshit or negligible.. considering she brought up how I've already fucked this other girl - it was directed towards why she couldn't fuck me. She said that as a way to say "because of reputation and social circle pressure.. here's a reason for me to deny you, in addition to the boyfriend". Right? Or am I being to self serving?


Either way, this ought to be interesting. No one at my high school talks to girls like that. ;P Let's make this a fun weekend.
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Re: Get Pussy Or Die Tryin'

Postby BigS » Fri Dec 28, 2018 2:34 pm

Hue,

I love this FR man! Glad to see that you were out having fun with your buddies, and generally not giving a shit, lol.

Right before we leave the bar I cold approach a 3 top with a hot blonde at one of the seats. I have used this tactic before and seen it go well. You go up, approach the group and ask if they're having a serious conversation with a cocky smile. It puts all the attention on you and is ballsy, but if they accept your frame you're okay. Then you say to the group with a few looks at your girl, "I just thought your friend was super cute and wanted to talk to her... you guys mind if I steal the show for a sec?", and if no one objects you're good to proceed.


This is an interesting opener. You'll read in my FR from last night that I ran into trouble when opening one girl in a group/couple. Specifically when you address the friends and ask if you can steal their friend, is this what you normally do? I seem to remember reading that you should not even acknowledge her friends when talking to a girl, but I think I may be thinking of this too rigidly. When do you acknowledge the friends vs. ignore them and focus on your girl?

At some point she goes, "yeah I have a boyfriend" and I go "oh okay I didn't know that. Well, I wanted to fuck you, but if you have a boyfriend I get it". She immediately gives me the eyes and is clearly turned on. But then she says, "so-and-so already fucked you".


Hahaha sounds like you were on your game man! I love that feeling when you're out at bars and you've already opened so many girls and have had minor successes such that you just say whatever the fuck you want to girls and nothing matters lol.

Sounds like you had a great night man :)

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