30 days no masterbation challenge.
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Hey Kent
I decided to take up this challenge with you. Its definitely tough but I hope that after a month I will be so horny, that the feeling will provide me with the motivation to get laid.
Stay Strong bro.
I decided to take up this challenge with you. Its definitely tough but I hope that after a month I will be so horny, that the feeling will provide me with the motivation to get laid.
Stay Strong bro.
Day 2
fuck man......i couldn't hold today. Feeling so pathetic, somebody just kill me man.
I was watching some erotic things ....and totally lost it.
Bryant ....sorry to disappoint you bro, feeling so bad for letting you down. Fuck.
Thanks for your support man. I'll do it .....no matter..what.
So, just because i fap today ...this day doesn't count. I'll start from tommorrow as day 1.
I'm gonna complete this challenge no matter what. Atleast today i found out that i shouldn't try to play with porny stuff.
fuck man......i couldn't hold today. Feeling so pathetic, somebody just kill me man.
I was watching some erotic things ....and totally lost it.
Bryant ....sorry to disappoint you bro, feeling so bad for letting you down. Fuck.
Thanks for your support man. I'll do it .....no matter..what.
So, just because i fap today ...this day doesn't count. I'll start from tommorrow as day 1.
I'm gonna complete this challenge no matter what. Atleast today i found out that i shouldn't try to play with porny stuff.
Hey Kent
Don't worry about the fail man, especially if its your first time trying this out. We're at the stage where we need to make mistakes. As long as we continue trying we'll eventually reach the goal.
Its really tough, I know but besides not spanking, we also need to train our brains to get aroused by real girls (Chase's article). Something I started doing is going out and imagining girls naked. Might sound weird but it helps a lot. I don't feel the urges to wank after doing this.
I also suggest doing something different during the time that you would usually fap. It takes your mind off fapping.
Our end goal is make our hands jealous by having great sex with attractive girls. Remember that and I think it will become easier.
After al that I hope I don't mess up.
Stay Strong
Don't worry about the fail man, especially if its your first time trying this out. We're at the stage where we need to make mistakes. As long as we continue trying we'll eventually reach the goal.
Its really tough, I know but besides not spanking, we also need to train our brains to get aroused by real girls (Chase's article). Something I started doing is going out and imagining girls naked. Might sound weird but it helps a lot. I don't feel the urges to wank after doing this.
I also suggest doing something different during the time that you would usually fap. It takes your mind off fapping.
Our end goal is make our hands jealous by having great sex with attractive girls. Remember that and I think it will become easier.
After al that I hope I don't mess up.
Stay Strong
Hey Kent,
7 days without masturbation is very good. Try keeping without as long as you can. It's an excellent exercise. It also helps to clean up the brain of porn and all other similar shit that we are bombarded with. Focus your sexual energy to get real girls instead.
Congratulations!
Seppuku
7 days without masturbation is very good. Try keeping without as long as you can. It's an excellent exercise. It also helps to clean up the brain of porn and all other similar shit that we are bombarded with. Focus your sexual energy to get real girls instead.
Congratulations!
Seppuku
Really thank you for your support Seppuku!
You are right, my mind is kinda not turning on with all this.
Cause today when I was in bathroom. ...peeing, I started to shake my member. But I wasn't really turned on or something.. ....i was doing it just because of habit. I wasn't even properly aroused. ....so I said.. .".you know what.. ..I'm not even feeling like it".
So I stopped myself then and there. I'm glad I did.
So 7th day complete.
Again.. .thanks for your words man
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Kent.
You are right, my mind is kinda not turning on with all this.
Cause today when I was in bathroom. ...peeing, I started to shake my member. But I wasn't really turned on or something.. ....i was doing it just because of habit. I wasn't even properly aroused. ....so I said.. .".you know what.. ..I'm not even feeling like it".
So I stopped myself then and there. I'm glad I did.
So 7th day complete.
Again.. .thanks for your words man
.Kent.
When I cut on porn three years ago, I remember also going through a similar phase of low libido. Seems to be experienced by all people doing this. Don't worry, you'll be alright in the end . In the meantime it will make it easier to hold yourself a little longer.
. In the meantime it will make it easier to hold yourself a little longer.Today is the 9th day.. ..I'm glad that I'm taking it this far. (my country is 10 hours ahead compared to this forum's time)
Funny thing is. ......I'm getting ERECTIONS in the middle of the day!
Seppuku.. ....I really appreciate your support man.
I was kinda thinking.. ....why the hell I wasn't up properly. ....but you explained it. ...everyone doing this goes through low libido. So how long am I gonna face this low libido?
Like is it gonna be like this till I control my addiction/habit....or is it gonna take a week or two.
Kent.
Funny thing is. ......I'm getting ERECTIONS in the middle of the day!
Seppuku.. ....I really appreciate your support man.
I was kinda thinking.. ....why the hell I wasn't up properly. ....but you explained it. ...everyone doing this goes through low libido. So how long am I gonna face this low libido?
Like is it gonna be like this till I control my addiction/habit....or is it gonna take a week or two.
Kent.
Bad news.. ....i couldn't hold myself and masterbated yesterday.
But I'm not feeling that bad honestly.. ....cause I at least controlled myself for 9 days.
Like I said when starting it.. ...I'm gonna hold as hold as long as I can.
I guess today is the first day again.
It's not that bad I say.
Kent.
But I'm not feeling that bad honestly.. ....cause I at least controlled myself for 9 days.
Like I said when starting it.. ...I'm gonna hold as hold as long as I can.
I guess today is the first day again.
It's not that bad I say.
Kent.
Keep at it. I'm actually doing this right now, as well. It's giving me the excess energy and motivation I need to actually pursue and be interested in women, and I closed my first new girl in about 3 weeks last night, on day 7.
I'm also in a lower libido phase as a consequence, but only when I'm alone. I was definitely not low libido in the presence of an attractive young woman, so don't worry about it.
I'm also in a lower libido phase as a consequence, but only when I'm alone. I was definitely not low libido in the presence of an attractive young woman, so don't worry about it.
Thanks mate for your kind words.
I think....if I'm correct.. ..i masterbate to release the tension.
What tension?
Well, when I can't sleep sometimes at night......i masterbate. So that I can feel tired and sleep. I do around twice or sometimes more.. ...just to feel tired so that I can sleep. I can't really control the aggression inside me, so I masterbate. Including sexual tension.
It's like I masterbate to relieve myself from the tensions I can't handle or control. It feels so good and light after that, it makes me calm and relaxed. And I like that.
I think....if I'm correct.. ..i masterbate to release the tension.
What tension?
Well, when I can't sleep sometimes at night......i masterbate. So that I can feel tired and sleep. I do around twice or sometimes more.. ...just to feel tired so that I can sleep. I can't really control the aggression inside me, so I masterbate. Including sexual tension.
It's like I masterbate to relieve myself from the tensions I can't handle or control. It feels so good and light after that, it makes me calm and relaxed. And I like that.
Fuck it, I'm doing this too.
Since I started at the age of 11 I've only successfully stopped twice: the first time for 30 days after a girl I was super into went cold on me, and the second time was 2.5 months in college, because I was hustling with all I had. I've failed many many times at this lol
Day 1- 4/23/2017
I'll keep updating
Since I started at the age of 11 I've only successfully stopped twice: the first time for 30 days after a girl I was super into went cold on me, and the second time was 2.5 months in college, because I was hustling with all I had. I've failed many many times at this lol
Day 1- 4/23/2017
I'll keep updating
Caffeine is a common cause of bad sleep. Trying to help you find a way to chill out at night without resorting to masturbation. Do you lift weights and run? I recommend both for keeping yourself a bit physically worn down a few days a week, it helps me a lot. Also eating a big serving of protein (like some beef) with a bit of carbs helps knock me out, too. They're a more productive way to get your neurotransmitter fix if you're not doing those things already.
I tried this as a teenager before it was a thing, for religious reasons, and I never achieved more than 3 days or so. Eventually I got it for largely selfish reasons.
So, prior failure doesn't mean you won't succeed this time around.
It genuinely gets better/easier as you get older. Possibly because game enables you to get more release via girls.
I've been on NoFap for about 3 weeks and I think I've had sex probably 6 times in there with 3 different women. Can't say I really got results like that in the past.
Count me in as well.
Last time was technically 04/20, but we'll count from today.
Look at what you started Kent hahah
Last time was technically 04/20, but we'll count from today.
Look at what you started Kent hahah
So I lasted 3 days, had Love at First Sight hit me out of the blue, and succumbed that night. I have quit many times before, averaging out at probably a week each interval, so 3 days is nothing (and I wasn't that motivated).
This is my first Love at First Sight in awhile. I think a lot of that has to do with a lot of mindsets I've come to terms with regarding old loves and my future. I wonder how much noFap had to do with it. I wasn't looking for Love at First Sight, and I think not looking is a requirement for it to happen, but I was ridiculously horny for only being 3 days off and in hunter mode, and out pops this girl who is exactly my type. It's uncanny. And she really is my type; she reminds me a ton of the old girl of my dreams, and all these old memories are surging up again.
Anyone relate?
New start: 4/28/17
This is my first Love at First Sight in awhile. I think a lot of that has to do with a lot of mindsets I've come to terms with regarding old loves and my future. I wonder how much noFap had to do with it. I wasn't looking for Love at First Sight, and I think not looking is a requirement for it to happen, but I was ridiculously horny for only being 3 days off and in hunter mode, and out pops this girl who is exactly my type. It's uncanny. And she really is my type; she reminds me a ton of the old girl of my dreams, and all these old memories are surging up again.
Anyone relate?
New start: 4/28/17